Author Topic: Will you keep loving someone who will never be yours? (Read 85103 times)

the_dreamer · « **Reply #40 on:** September 18, 2011, 03:01:43 pm »

^we're on the same boat sis...

illumina · « **Reply #41 on:** September 18, 2011, 10:05:48 pm »

hard, isn't it? $:-\$ sis aquacharly gave me a blow by blow points to ponder on this one. She makes a lot of sense. As in.

pretty_in_victorian · « **Reply #42 on:** September 19, 2011, 07:55:56 am »

i've been there and i wouldn't do it again.. [mine was a little more than a crush but not love]

sayang lang talaga yung effort. period.

mstina · « **Reply #43 on:** September 21, 2011, 09:37:09 am »

my husband and I just parted ways kasi daw di niya na ko mahal. ang dami kong nalaman tungkol sa mga nagawa niya na sobrang sakit so i decided to let him go. pero bakit ganon, mahal ko pa rin siya??

but i really want to forget about him dahil kinalimutan niya na ko. it's like he's mine because we're married but he's not mine dahil inalis niya na sa akin yang right na yan nung iniwan niya ko.

so will i keep on loving someone who will never be mine? i'll try not to...

felicityinlove · « **Reply #44 on:** September 21, 2011, 09:43:00 am »

I don't think that is practical. so, no, I won't keep on loving someone who can never be mine. In this case, I am at the losing end. Masakit sa loob kung aasa sa wala. It is nice to have found someone to love but it is better if that someone you love loves you in return. Di na uso martyr ngayon

Chelline · « **Reply #45 on:** September 23, 2011, 12:43:20 pm »

No. I have to love myself first. How can you love a person fully when you don't love yourself enough?

abuanddiego · « **Reply #46 on:** September 24, 2011, 12:27:14 am »

Naiisip ko na YES pero naiisip ko rin na mas mahal ko ang sarili ko, kaya sasabihin ko rin na NO

mom_G · « **Reply #47 on:** September 24, 2011, 12:48:40 am »

no, i would not want to torture myself by doing that.

kutingkulilit · « **Reply #48 on:** September 24, 2011, 01:26:21 am »

the question is, can you really teach yourself not to love someone? for me kasi, all you can do is suppress and not to act on it. so to answer the question, no, i will not waste my time acting on that stupid love.

viellemacey · « **Reply #49 on:** October 11, 2011, 10:43:21 am »

i've been there and all i can say is i'm not going back again. masakit, to the point na bigla na lang may tutulong luha na kahit pigilin pumapatak pa rin. i have no one to blame, not even myself. just because i was hurt doesn't mean i have to blame myself. i looked at it in the positive way possible, just another lesson learned, experience. siguro kasi andun yung thought na "baka" mahalin nya rin ako. hindi ko naman inexpect na ganun yung kalalabasan.

rychel07 · « **Reply #50 on:** October 12, 2011, 04:39:46 am »

okay lang to basta happy thoughts lang. nagiging hindi lang naman okay pag puro yung possibility na maging kayo or yung "bakit kaya hindi naging kami" na thoughts ang nangyayari.

pero yung pag tipong naiisip mo yung puro pakilig lang, pero nako-control mo yung sarili mo na wag umasa (i think i've been successful in doing this for a few times, sa isang person lang ha, pero may mga times din na FAIL talaga.) yun, dun sya nagiging okay, kasi in a way it makes you happy. parang inspired ka lang. hanggang dun lang.

viellemacey · « **Reply #51 on:** October 12, 2011, 09:17:18 am »

^yup. i agree with you sis. a control in our emotions and feelings is a must. i believe that falling in love undergoes a process. you'll start at being friends and then gradually a much higher feeling is develop. like taking a step one at a time. but we have to be careful, not at all times both of you will take a step up. the idea is don't overlook, just enjoy the moment, that's the reality. i just hate to admit that way back then i overlooked the truth so i ended up losing everything we had for me to move forward.

sistah_mom · « **Reply #52 on:** October 12, 2011, 11:03:39 am »

definitely no! i'd been there before... luckily i found the one who's right for me

dsylle_18 · « **Reply #53 on:** October 13, 2011, 09:19:43 pm »

yes i will..bahala na basta naranasan kung mag mahal ng totoo.

Aria_ · « **Reply #54 on:** October 13, 2011, 09:26:52 pm »

I don't think so. It takes a while before I begin loving someone. Maybe I can care much more than I should for another guy, pero it all stops sa care.

viellemacey · « **Reply #55 on:** October 14, 2011, 10:22:39 am »

^that's the fighting spirit sis

the last time i checked this is a free country

Aria_ · « **Reply #56 on:** October 15, 2011, 02:10:34 pm »

^ Thanks. There's nothing wrong naman with being friends with another guy.

Friends lang to. Promise.

viellemacey · « **Reply #57 on:** October 15, 2011, 02:19:20 pm »

^pwede rin naman sweet friends.

LoSiNGGRiP · « **Reply #58 on:** October 17, 2011, 05:39:49 am »

i stopped loving him but he came back unexpectedly. i accepted him for our child but now, i want him out! sya ang pinakamali sa buhay ko na gusto ko itama pero di ko alam paano ko gagawin at saan ako magsisimula.

the_dreamer · « **Reply #59 on:** October 17, 2011, 03:58:21 pm »

Finally, I let him go! He's gone, and I'm okay...

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