Why Do Filipino Men Cheat?

[Girltalker2]

Ang tagal na pala nitong thread na Ito. ngayon lang ako nag back read.
Justin3 is comparing Bill's infidelity with our politicians. C'mon, ibang level naman iyan, not comparable.

While bill's bj is unforgivable, lalo pa malamang di lang iyan isang beses nangyari at malamang sa marami ding mga babae (parang tiger woods).  But you see, these men make attempts to hide it. Hindi lantaran.

E dito satin? Politicians, who are idolized by many, essentially have a string of mistresses, with kids from different women at almost the same periods.  Kaka ibang level talaga for a catholic country.

Worse pa, these politicians made laws supporting illegitimate kids na may right mag bigay ng surname and dad sa lahat ng naging anak nya sa labas. 

Grabe nanga Ang ginawa nila sa mga Babae at anak nila, di pa sila nakuntento at pinapalaganap pa nila yung mga evil thought (through laws like this) to support having mistresses, kids from everywhere and their philandering ways.

[twix01]

true.. for short.. inaabuso na ang kabaitan mo..

yes!! and alam ng inaabuso eh okay lang sa gf/misis kasi di matiis si bf/mister
sad lang kasi tht's the reality.. handang magtiis at magpakamartir in the name of love! been there done that Lol.

[wanderbrewha]

I find the thread title too sexist. 

[p0isonIvy]

think about this: 'If you are going to choose between your 1st (wife) and 2nd (kabit) love, better choose the 2nd.. because if you really love the 1st, there will be no 2nd..'

^ ok so again, this validates cheating?

I find the thread title too sexist. 

^ true, but then again, cheating has always been a man's territory. im sure there are girls who do cheat as well. pero mas rampant lang talaga sa men.

[wanderbrewha]

^ ok so again, this validates cheating?

That is still cheating, i tell you.

[molybdenumstudios]

Daming mga butthurts ah. Seriously, hihiwalayin ko ang guy if he cheats.

[baliwsayo]

Kasi may pumapatol na babae. Ganun lang kasimple yun. Kung walang papatol di hindi makaka-cheat yan. Men are born hunters talaga eh. Not that I condone their cheating ha.

[honeybunny]

sabi nila women cheat din daw talaga, mas magaling lang sila magtago.

men naman when they cheat nabubuking kasi hindi nga magaling magtago. haha

anyway, dito kasi sa bansa natin tinotolerate ng mga tao. parang pride sa kanila pag maraming chicks. ewan ko ba bakit ganyan mag isip ang pinoy. but not all pinoy's naman.

masyado lang kasing sexist na pag lalake nambabae, ok lang. pero pag ang babae nanlalake, p*kp** na sya.

diba. talk about equality.

[bluestocking]

From other cultures kasi, they are not in a relationship so it's not really cheating.
I know a few western men, who date different girls in different days of the week. As in all throughout the year.

The problem with Filipino men is that they want to be in a relationship and yet still want to play around.
Sa atin kasi, pag wala ka jowa parang di ka in. Yung ibang culture, they travel, sports and other outside  activities, enrich themselves with a lot of experiences, independent for short. Sa atin andun un notion na men will need women to take care of them.

[jennyflores]

parang ang hirap na ngayon makahanap ng loyal na lalake

[17glut]

hindi naman talaga mahirap maghanap ng loyal at faithful na tao, masyado lang talaga kasi choosy ang naghahanap...yung iba naman ginagawa pang kumplikado ang mga simpleng bagay 

[Girltalker2]

^ I don't agree. We are not talking about men being loyal and faithful for the meantime. We are talking about men who are loyal for a lifetime.

Somehow, some way, tao lang daw at nagkakamali lagi ang reason.

[17glut]

^teka, time pers lang, parang may hugot ah? 

[Miss Taken]

Why? Because they are used to having girlfriends who still accept them even if they cheat. I'm not saying that all Filipinas are like this pero I have friends na kahit ano pang sabihin mong advice to not take their boyfriends back once na nagloko na pero hindi talaga nakikinig. Then pag naulit, iiyak iyak na naman. To all the cheaters out there, even if you list a hundred bullsh*t reasons or if makapal talaga yung mukha mo na i-blame pa yung ugali, pagmamahal or whatever ng partner mo eto lang masasabi ko: Pwede mong itama ang pagkakamali pero kahit kelan ang mali hindi pwedeng maging tama nang dahil lang sa "may dahilan" ka kaya mo nagawa yun.

If you can't stay faithful then just stay single.

[lonelymiss28]

sabi ng asawa ko at MIL, nature daw talaga ng lalaki ang magkaroon ng multiple na babae ang hindi daw normal ay ang mga lalaking stick to one.

[molybdenumstudios]

nature daw talaga ng lalaki ang magkaroon ng multiple na babae ang hindi daw normal ay ang mga lalaking stick to one.

I think they only have nothing to do with tolerating or allowing macho culture to dominate society.

[17glut]

Filipinas are very well capable of cheating too HINDI lang ang lalake. Kanya-kanyang dahilan at rason  lang talaga yan.

just sayin' 

[Len0523]

The topic is WHY DO FILIPINO MEN CHEAT?

1. May mga lalakeng madaling matukso. There will be no cheating kung hihiwalayan nya na lang siguro ng maayos ang isa para dun sa isa. Iniwan man nya pero walang panloloko.

2. The other girl can fill in the gap the guy and the girlfriend have in their relationship.

3. The guy may not have had exerted so much effort to win the girl. That's why it is too easy for them to cheat.

4. Availability and accessibility of the temptation. "kaofficemate" - "barkada" - " Kapitbahay" and the girlfriend is miles away and always busy?

Just a thoughts of why they cheat. However in marriage I am not really certain of the reasons why.