How to forget someone you truly love?

[dumpee.o13]

@Foodict - same here! In less than 2 months, 5 yrs na dapat kame ni EX. Hayyy! I'm very disappointed, I really thought na sya na.

[mirandaKERR]

Don't rush. Time will tell..

Acceptance is the key.

[HoldingOn]

Love yourself more than that person 

[bangs29]

ako akala ko nung una di ko na siya makakalimutan, ilang years na lumipas, nagka gf na at anak na siya pati ako may bf na nung time na yun, pero siya pa din talaga, yung feeling di manlang nabawasan. akala ko nga sometings wrong with me na pero eventually nakalimutan ko na din siya pati feelings ko sakania, siguro dahil sa time as in sobrang tagal na. sa family and friends ko, andyan sila palagi para sakin. sa ginawa kong make over sa sarili ko, di lang physically pati spiritually, kung san san ako sumali organizations sa church. ayun ngayon pag naaalala ko, natatawa nalang ako sa kaniya.

[papacologne]

ganyan talaga..yaan mo na un madami pa naman dyan eh wag ka magpakabulag dun kung mahal ka [textspeak!] nun hindi na sya magdadalawang isip pa sayo diba?

[dheive]

  paano nga ba? turuan nyo ko ng technique.... lalo na sa mga moments wherein maaalala mo na lang bigla yung mga memories.. sentimental pa naman akong tao.... grabe sa ngayon kalaban ko talaga ang memories ito ang nagpapalubog sa akin hayyyyy 

[sgb2011]

Replace the memory

[mikoarai]

I love reading all of the replies here. Everything just make sense for me 

I truly believe that what's really important is ACCEPTANCE above everything else talaga. Once you loved the person, I don't think makakalimutan mo siya. He/She will always have a place in your heart ng hindi niyo namamalayan. Kaya nga pag naaalala natin sila, we could still feel the pain or even be happy just thinking about them. That's already a sign na may place na talaga sa puso natin kahit anong gawin mo. Accepting that he/she is not meant for you would help you move on with your life. Tama rin yung may nag sabi na huwag mong isipin na ikaw ang nawalan. Believe it or not, kahit na hindi mo idown ang sarili mo marami pang iba ang gagawan niyan sayo, so be your no. 1 protector for yourself.

I already posted this quote to other topic but one movie said:
"People think they forget their old love to fall in love again but the truth is, people fall in love again to forget their old love." 

Ofcourse, TIME is also a key in here. Sabi nga nila only time can tell. 

[Filipinasadhart]

I love reading all of the replies here. Everything just make sense for me 

I truly believe that what's really important is ACCEPTANCE above everything else talaga. Once you loved the person, I don't think makakalimutan mo siya. He/She will always have a place in your heart ng hindi niyo namamalayan. Kaya nga pag naaalala natin sila, we could still feel the pain or even be happy just thinking about them. That's already a sign na may place na talaga sa puso natin kahit anong gawin mo. Accepting that he/she is not meant for you would help you move on with your life. Tama rin yung may nag sabi na huwag mong isipin na ikaw ang nawalan. Believe it or not, kahit na hindi mo idown ang sarili mo marami pang iba ang gagawan niyan sayo, so be your no. 1 protector for yourself.

I already posted this quote to other topic but one movie said:
"People think they forget their old love to fall in love again but the truth is, people fall in love again to forget their old love." 

Ofcourse, TIME is also a key in here. Sabi nga nila only time can tell. 

approved ako sa sinabi mo. very well said sis. 

[jamila_19]

maghanap ng bagong mamahalin ...

[lonelymiss28]

i don't think that you really forget someone, but you just get busy with other things. Heart never forgets!

[entwife]

i don't think that you really forget someone, but you just get busy with other things. Heart never forgets!

I agree. Hindi ito parang Lacuna Inc. if napanood niyo yung Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind. There is no way na makakalimutan mo yung tao or yung memories. You just have to move forward.
Forgive him/ her and forgive yourself as well.

[break_free]

no contact rule and destroy all the things na makakapag paremember sa iyo of him. cut all lines ng communication. if you need so restrict or delete some friends na maaring mang chismis sa buhay mo at buhay ng ex, do it. kasi di sila makakatulong, hindi ka lang matatahimik kasi always ka kukwentuhan and everything parang ina-update ka ganun.

keep yourself busy, kahit ano basta busy ka everyday...

in my case, inisip ko lahat ng things na ginawa niya sken na masama...at naka help talaga kasi narealize lahat ng mga masama niyang ginawa eh di lalo ako naka move on.

stay with your good friends ha yung positive ang outlook sa life, who will accompany you to the mall, etc.

pag may narinig ka na chismis, tell them politely na hindi ka interested kahit gustong gusto mo marinig.

watch funny movies sa pc or laptop kung mag isa ka lang sa bahay.

acceptance kasi sa huli ko naranasan eh as in nagising nalang ako isang araw na wala na talaga akong feelings at masayang masaya pa ako na wala na kami kasi na realize ko na hindi ganung klaseng tao ang gusto ko makasama habang buhay. so yun, for me possible talaga na makalimot ng tuluyan ang heart lalo na kung masyadong maraming masasakit na bagay siya na ginawa sa iyo - what happened is hate yung nag help para maka move on ako.

ni hindi ako naaawa ngayon or naiisip kung ok ba siya or what. ni isang kusing na attraction wala na din. parang eww bat ba ako pumatol? ganun naiisip ko haha. gulat nga ako sa sarili ko eh kasi kala ko di ako makaka move on eh last octoberlang yun.

[carla27]

Focus on his flaws.

[sweet.trish]

Magpaka busy.
Stop talking about it. Sa fb, sa twitter, sa gt.

[pjiyeon]

I remember the boy but i don't remember the feelings anymore~. Parang kanta lang yan, maalala't maaalala mo rin yung tao. The only thing you can do is to change your feelings towards him.

[kr1sta]

you can never forget something/someone that has been a part of your life but you could surely get it/him/her out of your system.

simply cut all means of communication (if it is a person).

[jaemi33]

^sis amethyst028 - Natawa naman ako sa post mo sis pero I can totally relate rin naman. Initial response mo talaga is resentment towards that person pero if I can also advice you, it's better to shift your mind to more positive things than thinking about his flaws. Nakakapagod energy rin yan negative attention na binubuhos mo. If you start thinking about him again, immediately think about other positive you stuff you can think about and eventually magiging positive thinker ka pa. If you will keep this positive cycle you will surely meet someone who is really nice rin since you are more likely to attract people who are more like you. 

[Filipinasadhart]

yun picture nya punitin mo saka sunugin mo  hahaha sabi yan ng isang fortune teller na kakilala ko. Tapos sabihin mo pakakawalan ko na yun sama ng loob na nasa puso ko. 

Pero its true naman nakakarelease ng stress lalo na focus ka lang sa mga masama nya ginawa towards you. Tapos after that kalimutan na ang nangyari.  Wag ng makipagcommunicate kahit kanino. Iwas ka na lang sa barkada nya at kung ano pa man makakapagpaalala sa kanya.

Kung bumalik si one you truly love wag na bigyan ng second, third or last chance... deadma na lang. Wag magpabola.

[piatos]

hi sis, gusto ko siya itry..kaso yung pic ko nasama sa pagpunit hehe..sobrang galit ko dati pinagsusuntok ko pic niya.  Kuha kasi yun sa debut ng pinsan niya.. Ako bumili ng pics namin solo namin..nasama sa punit..pwede ko b isama yun sa akin sa susunugin?