How to forget someone you truly love?

[shatygabrielle]

   
Isipin mo lang lahat ang mga masamang bagay na ngawa nya sayo para you can easily move on.

[angelme888]

kaso doon sa one month namin, wala naman kami away, as in kahit isa wala, wala kami naging problem hanggang sa nagbreak kami dahil lang sa ex niya...

[anne_mae]

sana you can get through it kahit 1month. kasi ako i'm having a hard time talaga. i don't even know if he's still using his number or not but i really thought nkamove on na ako last 2weeks ago. eh ayun, last week ko [textspeak!] narealize di pa pala. i texted him ,di na nya ako nirereplyan. so i guess that's it/ nkakainis lang bakit ang bilis mkapagmove on ng mga lalake. it's so hard pra sa mga babae. hai.

[angelme888]

Move on na ako sis. Last communication namin was May 10. He ended everything na pati friendship, he said sorry for everything and that he'll never bother me again and will not mingle with my friends too. So ok...mas ok na ako ngayon, may peace of mind na ako. I didn't text him na ever.

[anne_mae]

awww, [textspeak!] for you. tsk. hai. sna ako rin, soon mkamove on na.

[gelvixen]

how to forget? think of the better possibilities might happen to yourself without him! dont always think na ikaw yung nawalan or di mo kayang mabuhay ng wala sya.. stop the paghihinayang factor, isipin mo dapat sya yung unang unang manghinayang sayo and last be happy for him, be thankful na kahit sandali naging sayo sya.. talk to god and pray! 

[simplyme]

Girls, sorry kung medyo off topic ... I was a giver sa relationship namin, it it fair kung hingin ko pabalik yung mga hiniram nya sa akin? Meron kasi akong mga important things na hiniram nya, kundi nya ibabalik - siguro pwede ko na ibaon sa limot. Pero important din na mabalik sa akin. Masyado bang childish kung hingin ko pabalik eh iniiwasan nga akong kausapin, as in wala pa kming closure sa ngayon. Pero alam ko namang wala na kami ...

[muymuy]

^sis parehong pareho tayo ng situation..

may gusto din talaga ako kunin kay ex.. kaso, di ko alam kung tama bang email ko pa siya para lang sabihin yun.. kasi baka isipin pa niyang gumagawa lang ako ng way para magkita ulit kami. arrgghh!
plan ko nga, ipapaship ko na lang. para wala siya masabi. kaso di ko din alam kung tama bang move yun.

sana may makatulong.

[gelvixen]

-> hi sis hmm siguro kung sobra talagang important sayo ng bagay na kukunin mo sa ex mo.. pwede mong ipadaan sa friend mo? i think mas maganda yun diba? hindi mo na sya makikita and second nakatipid ka na sa shipping.. sigurado ka pa! hehe

hindi naman masama na kunin [textspeak!] mga naiwan na bagay sa ex lalo na kung importante sayo yun..  syempre sayo yun and hiniram or pinahiram mo lang yun sa kanila kaya may karapatan ka pa din..

hehe share ko lang ako, yung 3k ko sa ex ko hindi ko na binawi kasi pera yun.. nakakahiya din padaanin sa bestfriend namin. pero kung gugustuhin ko naman pwedeng pwedeng mabawi.. pinaubaya ko na lang. nilagay ko na lang sa isip ko " donation" ko na lang yun hahaha mean*

[jasive51]

i think you will never forget it coz it always in your heart and in your memories

[alltruehealth]

You can never forget someone you truly love/d unless magka amnesia ka talaga...

Kung mga most embarassing moments nga meron tayo, pano pa kaya yung moments na sobrang in love ka.. syempre di ganun kadali kalimutan yun.. kasi marami yun eh.. unless 1 week lang kayo naging magkarelasyon diba..
Kidding aside, hindi talaga madali mag move on.. pero once you realize how God loves you and what's your worth to Him.. Iisipin mo na lang, bakit ka pa magpapakabaliw sa lalaking ayaw naman ni God para sa'yo..
Una, hindi naman gusto ni God na masaktan ka diba.. He even let His very own Son suffer on the cross for your salvation.. Ganun ka nya kamahal...
Contradicting naman kung hahayaan ka nyang masaktan lang ng paulit ulit ng isang hamak na lalaki, diba?
Kaya para makalimutan or at least di mo maisip madalas si heartbreaker, kailangan mo magfocus kay God at sa sarili mo.. kung mahal ka ni God, dapat mahalin mo muna sarili mo.. Know your worth and believe that God has prepared someone more special than a heartbreaker to you.. Kahit gaano pa katagal ang relationship.. Always think how God loves you.. He knows you well.. Hindi ka nya gusto masaktan kahit minsan.. Kung naghiwalay kayo, God allowed it to happen kasi He has better plans for the both of you.

[khakhaganda]

>> almost same tayo ng situation sis, ang pinagkaiba nga lang ako is ang kagustuhan ng family nya na mag asawa sya sa abroad alam mo yung kahit sobrang mahal namin ang isa't isa and close to perfect ang relationship namin

ako na ang nag give way nahihiapan na din kasi bf dahil ayaw din nya kaya lang yun lang daw ang way para maka tulong sya sa family nya

ang hirap ng sitwasyon kasi ni let go ko sya kahit ayaw nya 

[iam_miel]

hay sis tama ka sa sinabi mo...pero pano kung super love mo yung person tapos when he invites you go ka agad....bad ba yun....he was my ex by the way.he broke up with me last year for no reason at all.and now we have communication again and we go out once in a while..we also do the deed everytime we go out..i really love this person....i want him back but im so scared baka mangyari nanaman yung nangyari dati.but i cant help it pag sha yung nagtetext and asked me out... feeling ko trap nanaman ako sa kanya....i hate myself....urghhhhhhhh...

it happened to me & its still happening to me..my ex & I got into the habit of "breaking-up, making-up" since March this year & everytime we would make up it would always involve IT..last July, we broke it off for good pero nagkikita pa din kami..I know its my fault coz I cant seem to say no to him kahit alam ko naman na baka yun nalang talaga ang reason kung bakit nakikipagkita pa sya sa akin..Ang bad naman ng ex ko coz he's taking advantage of my weakness porket alam nya na weak ako pagdating sa kanya..Baka nga kelangan ko na magpalit ng number, tumira sa ibang bansa just to get him out of my system..Kahit kasi i-play ko over & over yung mga kasalanan nya sa akin, mga lies, mga betrayals parang wala ng epekto sa akin..Tinanggap ko na kasi ng buong-buo kaya kahit alam kong bad sya, I dont care na huhuhu...what do I do???

[Foodict]

You can't. Its just you get used to the feeling and the your love for that person becomes a part of who you are. So cherish it if it was good. I know its hard to see right now but your heart will accommodate any new person in your life who deserves your love.

[Filipinasadhart]

how to forget someone you truly love??? paano nga ba??? 

[HoldingOn]

^I guess you can never forget THAT someone you truly love, kasi, kahit ano gawin natin, part na sila ng buhay natin. Not unless magka amnesia tayo or Alzheimer's. And yet, paano kung selective amnesia tapos sila lang maaalala mo, patay na! Hehe    Seriously, we may not be able to forget them, but time will come (I BELIEVE) when we will forgive the pain. --> fake it til you make it daw, i'm just faking what i said pero hindi ko pa tanggap, obvious ba? 

[ettevyvi]

^I guess you can never forget THAT someone you truly love, kasi, kahit ano gawin natin, part na sila ng buhay natin. Not unless magka amnesia tayo or Alzheimer's. And yet, paano kung selective amnesia tapos sila lang maaalala mo, patay na! Hehe    Seriously, we may not be able to forget them, but time will come (I BELIEVE) when we will forgive the pain. --> fake it til you make it daw, i'm just faking what i said pero hindi ko pa tanggap, obvious ba? 

^Hehe. In time you can make it!

Simple lang, the more you try not to, the more the memory surfaces. So either isipin mo sya hanggang magsawa ka, or think of another realistic thought versus the thought na akala mo sya to attach to the person you love.

[Serena.]

There is no such thing as forgetting(amnesia lang ang makakapaglimot sa memories), ACCEPTANCE ang kaylangan mong ma-achieve sis. The heart never forgets.

[det060403]

@Serena. so true, there's no such thing...instead...we learn to accept...kung bakit nagkaganito, bakit nagkaganyan... and then marerealize mo na lang, ok ka na pala! you're not hurting anymore. aww! ang cool diba... nyahaha!

[khayzee]

yes u can never forget someone u truly love. let time do its job. acceptance  and try to let go of the person, mahirap kasi nga mahal mo but kailangan. most of the time u will remember the good times, but keep in mind na tapos na yung good times, for me ramdamin mo yung pain kesa i deny mo sa sarili mo na nasasaktan ka. darating yung time na youll just realize na tama na, sobra na.