Love Problem/Issue? Post it here - free advice ♥ (19th Chapter)

[yellowkitten]

Hi sisters, i just want to share my story.

i'm the girl with mr frenchie before, i don't know if you remember guys. anyways, we broke up before kasi he cheated on me. i was in so much pain then. i didn't know what to do. for a month, i slept with random men and i just couldn't feel anything. i was just so lost. then i moved to europe. about two months ago, i met up with my childhood friend and he's half french as well. we hooked up that first night. we just continued doing that and now i'm so insanely in love with him. with him, i'm real. i can be myself. i can curse, smoke, dance, sing and be outrageous. he loves me the way i am. i was the first one to tell him that i love him. he did say it back.

the funny thing is, i'm the first girl he's said i love you to.

[ysa.belle]

^hi sis! yes, i remember you. wow, sa europe kana pala... and i am happy that you've moved on na from mr frenchie...

[yellowkitten]

^hi sis. yep i'm here na. although kahit andito na, loyat girltalker parin.

i'm glad din that i was able to move on. it was hard at the beginning, but i guess it was a long distance relationship din kasi and i haven't seen him since june so it was easier for me. he emailed me and called me since î'm here na but i told him to stop because i have a boyfriend na.

[ysa.belle]

wishing you all the best with your new found happiness sis yellowkitten

[devilish_einjel]

hi sis! help naman.. nag break kasi kami ng BF ko netong Nov. lang.. nasira kasi tiwala ko sa kanya eh.. pero walang 3rd party.. and then meron akong guy friend.. parang siya yung nagpapasaya sa akin nung nag break kami nung BF ko.. and then sobrang sweet niya sa akin, inamin naman niya na gusto niya ako.. and then, parang katagalan, sa sobrang close na namin.. parang nahulog na din ako sa kanya.. kasi alam niyo yun sobrang bait. sobrang sweet? and then last month biglang hindi nagpaparamdam yung guy friend ko due to health issues.. and then kinuha ng papa niya yung sim niya.. and then, nagkaroon kami ng outing ng mga barkada ko, kami ng EX ko same circle of friends lang kami nun.. so andun din siya.. hindi talaga kami nagpapansinan! as in! and then after nun, na discover ko na parang meron na siyang ibang girl? pero sabi naman niya friends lang sila.. Now I'm confuse.. feeling ko mahal ko pa yung EX ko.. or selfish lang ako dahil ayaw ko siya mapunta sa iba? hindi ko din alam.. nalilito ako.. hindi ko alam kung sino pipiliin ko since binabalikan pa din ako ni EX..   hope matulungan mo ako..

[hotchokey]

hi mga sis.. ahm mga sis have you felt na you have someone nga pero parang alone ka na?

am so depress..i want to cry kasi mahal na mahal ko yung taong yun then naiisip ko maybe give up na siya for our relationship..

the last time that we talk over the phone nung monthsary namin jan.19 and last kita nung bday ko..
lunch date lang kasi he needs to buy some stuff for his work.. actually i have plans that day na i treat him a movie because its my bday and spa together kaso may lakad siya..

nalungkot ako nun na pinili pa niya yun kesa mag spend ng time sa akin.. kaso before pa ako makapag sabi na kung pwede bang tom na lang niya bilhin nasabi na niya kaagad na importanteng mabili so yun umuwi na lang ako..

3rd day after my bday i have work to do.. i work for my mom kasi as her personal model for her couture shop.. then he said feeling artista na naman ako..sabi ko hindi.. kasi mga sis kahit ayoko yung pinapagawa sa akin parang ano na lang parang pakonsuelo na lang sa mom ko kasi naman mahal kaya magbayad ng model to do pictorials and ramp..

then the 4th day another pictorials..half day lang naman..i know may mali ako kasi i told him na sasamahan ko lang ang dad ko magpa-check up kasi if sasabihin ko na another pictorials issue na naman.. so yun ang sinabi ko. then hindi ko naman alam na may rotary ek ek ang mom ko that day pero nagsabi na ako na ayoko kong sumama and if hindi ako maihatid dahil matrapik that day sabi ko magtrain na lang ako mom said no and sandali lang naman daw..

pero that day iba na yung pakiramdam ko sa kanya.. its like parang may something then the following day no paramadam so hindi na muna ako nagparamdam din ..  then the next day i text him just the usual text na " morning " although its already 11:30am hindi ako makatiis na hindi siya i-text kasi mahal ko siya and natatakot ako mawala siya sa akin.. nag reply naman siya na morning then after nun whole day no text..no tawag.. no anything

then yun nakaramdam na ako na mag isa na ako sa relation namin..

[crybaby05]

^hi sis. bago lang ako dito. actually may mga issues din ako pero mababaw lang. super sensitive kasi ako. so napadpad ako dito para someone can help me din whenever i have problems.

btw sis, yung nangyayari ba ngayon sainyo ni bf eh napapadalas na? o nagstart sya nung bday mo, until now ganun pa din? its almost a month na kasi diba, jan.19 pa nagstart. what happened na sis?

[iamshiela]

^^ sis, there could be really something wrong on your relationship. did you ask him why he's not calling or even texting you? ask him first para malaman mo yung dahilan.

[hotchokey]

Hello mga sis..

Nagkita kami nung v-day (pinapunta niya ako sa house niya) we had lunch together kaso may work pa din siya..  pero nag-usap naman kami regarding sa ganung asal niya.. kasi daw if iisipin niya yung problem namin ( as usual regarding my mom again ang issue niya ) sasakit lang daw ulo niya so he just keep himself busy by doing his work..

we only have 1 problem which is my mom being a warden ( calling 24/7, asking where ako, what time will i be home and etc ) ang hirap kaya maging bunso plus unica ija pa..

yun..balik tayo kay boyfie.. sabi ni boyfie hanap ako ng work para maging independent naman ako so that si mom ko makapag isip na " ah yung daughter ko marunong na maghanap ng work " or if i can say no to her daily ek ek thing..

sabi ko il find a work after the semester para hindi naman masayang yung pinang-enroll ko and about mom sabi ko kakausapin ko again regarding sa mga gusto niya na ayaw ko..

para kasing ayaw niya maniwala na wala akong ginagawa for our relationship..

[ettevyvi]

My forever fear of losing him para makamove on na ako. He doesn't change eh.

[momentum]

puwede bang makisawsaw dito ?

[crybaby05]

yes naman sis. kahit sinong may problema and may mga maiaadvice

[ysa.belle]

everybody is welcome here!

sayang at natransfer na ang thread na ito. sa old 'house' ng thread na ito super dami ng posts...

[momentum]

kaya nga eh. napaback-read ako sa mga posts ninyo before, super active kayo. kaso parang di na ganun ka-active now  nawala narin yung MASTER hehe

[ettevyvi]

He is cheating on me.( Ang sakit mga sis, for 5 years, ipinagpalit nya ako sa isang workmate nya. Sobra sobrang sakit talaga. I felt betrayed, ipinakilala pa nya sa family yung girl last December e alam ng lahat na kami pa. I ended it the relationship two weeks ago kasi two weeks ago ko lang nalaman. A friend of his told me na dalawa kami and the relationship had been going on for a long time. Hindi daw sya makapili dahil di nya alam kung sinong mas mahal nya. WTF. Now, hindi ko talaga sya tinetext, and since we broke up, hindi na talaga nya ako kinontact.

Hay.

[klengmorales]

^Sis, somehow pareho tayo ng situation. Kwento ko later...

[ysa.belle]

@sis ettevyvi

ang kapal naman ng ex bf mo. if ayaw na niya, he should have said so, hindi yung ganyan. and hindi ako naniniwala na hindi niya kayang mamili. ayaw lang niyang mamili sa inyong dalawa. yung workmate niya, malaki ang possibility na she knows about you & yung relationship niyo with your ex bf.

tama lang na hindi mo siya tinetext. hayaan mo na siya. hindi mo deserve ang isang lalaki na ganyan. makakarma rin siya sa ginagawa niya sa iyo...

[FOURever]

^^^nakakagigil!

[evilwoman]

di ko matiis magcomment. haha..

@ettevyvi and klengmorales - would you take comfort in the fact na you will both survive? later on kakadirian nyo na lang ang mga ex nyo at magpapasalamat na may umampon na iba sa kanila. di nyo na kailangan pagtiisan ang askad ng ugali nila at dahil din sa kanila mammeet nyo yung taong nakalaan talaga para sa inyo. trust me, been there done that. chos! cheer up girls! hayaan nyo na lang magsama-sama ang mga pangit. ang evolution dapat paabante di paurong. wag tayo pumatol sa unggoy. 

[sweetsorrow]

^ayan na humirit na.