if you let him be, will he come back to you?

[_AiaH_]

[StrawberryJammy]

sabi mo you did something that hurt him, so it was your fault he acted this way, what comes around goes around.

talk to him about your situation, ask him how he really feels, the truth hurts if negative man sasabihin nya, kelangan mong tanggapin dahil unang una, it was your fault.

he's very cold towards you and and if this continues your relationship will go nowhere. masasaktan ka lang.

goodluck.

[norms]

hello sis aiah,

sis wag mo dibdibin, kasi kung ayaw naman niya, aalis na yan sa relationship, pero nanjan pa siya di ba. so, keep the faith. but, if you cant tolerate the neglection anymore, decide to leave or to stay.

[shopaholic18]

^^you can't make a person do this and that, gagawin niya yun ng kusa. kung dahil sa kasalanan mo kaya siya naging cold,accept mo nalang na ganun. wag mong ipilit na ibalik niya yun, kung di mo na ma tolerate yung ginagawa niya at kinausap mo na siya ng masinsinan, i'm sorry to say but i think you should get out of the relationship before its too late. baka kasi ikaw lang nag eeffort ayusin eh kung ayaw nung isa walang mangyayari.

[caterpillar-girl]

I remember this episode in Sex and the City, when Aidan and Carrie got back together after she cheated on him and Aidan was treating Carrie like shite. He would make her walk his dog, he'd flirt around. The final straw was when Carrie was walking his dog around and it had diarrhea and pooped all over her! Then she saw Aidan was flirting with some waitress. Napuno din sya. And then she goes, you HAVE to forgive me! She just kept repeating it. She was like, you can't keep punishing me.  And that's true for you din, IF that is what's really happening. Whatever you did, that's past na. If he got back together with you, it means he should have forgiven you already, completely. If things aren't the same, and you're not happy anymore, then accept it as the consequence of your actions, and either live with it, or just leave. Good luck sis.

[daria]

i went through something like this with my ex.
obviously, di namin nagawan ng paraan.
it takes maturity and real love to survive the "honeymoon" stage.
good luck to you. sana di tayo pareho ng outcome..

[shatteredchick]

OMG. i remember carrie when she was crying to aidan. I really loved her to be with aidan, he was PERFECT! and yet she settled for mr big.  TSK.

[shopaholic18]

^sorry to hear about your breakup, you'll be fine, acceptance nalang siguro.

[gurlzat03]

^^ hugz sis! i know how hard it is to end a relationship na you thought will be forever na... pero that's part of life, i really love the line na "life is all about moving on and letting go"... you made the right decision sis, enjoy mo lang ang buhay. God has a better plan for the both of you, which you both won't realize kung hindi kayo nagkahiwalay.. Just what I've said in my previous post, "time heals all wounds"... just savor every moment in your life. good luck!  

[gurlzat03]

i know what you feel sis... i've been in your situation 6 months before and i know how hard it is.. advice ko lang sa 'yo is to let the pain sink in. kasi later on you'll realize na unti-unti din syang mawawala. kapag kasi masyado mong minadali ang pagmo-move on, lalo mo lang papatagalin ang moving on stage kasi you do not let in the pain happen. based yan from my experience, pero it depends on you on how you can cope up with what had happened. basta after those painful moments, don't forget to step on the next stage which is acceptance. do something for yourself, mag-enjoy ka lang. anjan ang family & friends mo to support you all the way. Also, don't forget to talk to God as often as you feel talking to him. This really helped me little by little move on. last thing, pain will always be there. hindi yan mawawala, but acceptance can happen at the right time.

[angelme888]

Talk...yan lang yun only solution sis...speak up...sabi mo hindi siya nakikinig, have a heart to heart talk, ask him kung ano ba talaga ang gusto niya mangyari sa relationship niyo...it's hard na mabalik yun dati but it will take time kung talagang love niyo ang isa't isa, maayos din yan...

[lesters_gal]

sabi nga nila kapag second time around it wont be the same anymore.meron naman sa iba mas nag wowork out yung second time...sis just keep on praying.you will get through that pain soon.tama si sis gurlzat03 feel the pain,cry your heart out.. wag mo madaliin makapag move on kasi nga mas lalo ka lang matatagalan.you have to accept the fact na wala na kayo,then let go and finally moving on...ive been in your situation sis....goodluck sis... keep on praying...

[angelme888]

kaya nga nagkahiwalay kayo kasi it means hindi talaga kayo nagowork out in the first place kaya move on girl...madami pa diyan na mas deserving ng love mo at hindi ka lolokohin...

[Serena.]

I think he still remember the things you did. Masakit pa din siguro sa kanya. O kaya nawala na talaga amor nya sayo kasi nga he couldnt understand why you did such thing e mabait naman sya. Or baka Karma yan sis. Nangyari na din sakin yan, i regret those things until now. Lesson learned kaya bait na ko sa partner ko. Sana maging ok pa kayo. Saakin nagwork ang sinasabi nilang "2nd time around".