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@klienne: oo iba feeling pag sa girls specially if you love that person right?
hi mga sis.sana someone here can understand what i'm going through.hay, wala lang talaga ko mapagsabihan.first of all, i'm a straight girl and never had any romantic connection with the same sex. i'm worried right now that i'm beginning to feel different about a girl sa office. thanks in advance for any opinion you may give me.it all started as a joke. hindi kami close nun, she has her own set of friends, i had mine and i didn't really care about her. nung una i didn't like the way she seemed weird at times. yung parang may sariling mundo, she could laugh over silly things. mababaw lang ang kaligayahan at pag nagcrack ng sarili nyang jokes minsan nakakaasar kasi parang ang weird. she was bizaare in some way.boyish sya. no one can confirm whether she's a les or sadyang boyish lang. she doesn't wear any accessories, she loves shirts,pants and sneakers. she's very plain. tapos bigla na lang i started to consider her as my crush. nung una naisip ko kasi siguro boyish sya, that's why. so i didn't mind. then i started to notice some of her qualities, mabait, tahimik lang pero matalino. same qualities na nagugustuhan ko sa isang guy, yung tahimik lang pero pag nakausap mo sensible pala. but still, i didn't mind. dedma lang ako. di ko sineryoso. it began to be an inside joke among my friends and we just laugh it off. one time, we both attended a party. i was a bit tipsy and i saw her. tapos iba yung nafeel ko. i walked to her and asked her to join the dance floor (my friends and i were dancing the whole night) so parang wala lang, simpleng invite lang na "tara, sama ka samin, sayaw tayo" then she said "ayoko, wala naman guwapo". my heart sank. nagkatinginan nga kami nun isa kong friend. sabi ko sa friend ko, busted ako. pero nagtawanan lang kami. sabi ko, lalake pala ang gusto ni ate. pero after a little while she was there with us, dancing na din. everytime a guy danced with her, tinutulak ako ng friends ko to get her. and i did. naloloka ko sa eksena.recently, we started to get closer kasi parang yung set of friends nya and mine, parang naging isang group na lang. then nagsimula na mafeel ko yung weird feelings, yung kinikilig na ko when i see her, when i talk to her. i always try to act normal when with her pero deep inside, hindi ako mapalagay. madalas mga simpleng gestures lang nya, napapansin ko na. pag nagshare kami sa isang cup of coffee, ang saya ko na. recently din gusto ko palagi na sya kasama. malungkot ako kapag wala sya. nappraning na ko. minsan naiiyak na ko kasi parang nakkwestyon ko na sarili ko. bakit ganun? everytime naghahanap sya ng gwapo, nasasaktan ako. sometimes i convince myself na props lang nya yun to hide her own sexuality. or maybe i'm wrong. sobrang special na sya sakin. nappraning po ko kasi first time in my 20 something years naramdaman ko to sa same sex.
nowadays, normal is underrated. how did you feel about it?
pumpkin13- sis, I totally understand your situation, I've been with 3 relationships with the same sex for 7 years already and I know exactly what you want to tell us.- 1st, YES! tama ka, na ma-praning.... I have to tell you na nagkaroon kayo ng connection talaga based on your story, babae din siya at sensitive din sa mga bagay bagay na nangyayari sa paligid. - Please talk to her, kahit na anong ways.. I know na masasabi mo na sa sarili mo if you really LIKE her, and when confirmed that you do, please don't waste time and talk to her. Talk to her about your feelings, as in tell her that you like her, and don't be afraid to be rejected, mas matakot ka sa fact na until now hindi pa rin niya alam, what if she feels the same way? sayang naman yung mga panahon na sana "kayo" na?-Still depende sa'yo sis kung kaya ng didbdidb mo, either daanin mo sa text, letter or yayain mo siya mag coffee or lasingin mo! bago mo lasingin siguraduhin mong nasabi mo na sa kanya. Everything will fall into their respective places if the feeling is mutual.-GOODLUCK! i message mo ako dito if may questions ka pa sis.
