House For Single Momma Part 5

[soulace]

tnx.. hirap maging single mom.. pero mas mahirap kng kasama mo naman un tatay ng anak mo tapos niloloko ka [textspeak!] nya at pinagmumukhang t****... naniniwala kc ako pag mahal minamahal at hindi sinasaktan...

[chiqmom]

^ay true ka jan sis.

[purple_girl]

hi sisses! joining...

i'm also a single mom to my 2 year old daughter.

[finally]

finally found this thread again...
it's nice seeing some old  nicks here and welcome to the new ones.

My kid is turning 2 this December,till now i haven't really talked to her dad, hopefully before the year ends i would find a way to tell him myself about her.
Mahirap single mom lalo na sa sitch ko since im still supporting my sibling to school, sometimes i cant help but think if i made the right decision to work abroad. On the other hand  sayang din kasi yung opportunity ko to save for her future, which sadly this contract didn't happen as most of my income went to fixing our house and family support.
I cant help but cry whenever i think of this line " you can't turn back time"

[chiqmom]

^we can all go through this sis. This may not be the perfect time, but we'll get there

[lovely.iccah]

hi mga sis, siguro nga malas tayo dahil sa sakit na naranasan natin..
pero if may mga nakakausap man [textspeak!] na same situation natin, mas madali [textspeak!] maka move on,
so hard to move on talaga pero sabi nga, nasa mind set lang natin yan..
masakit at mahirap sa umpisa, totoo yon..basta iyak mo lang..umiyak ka ng umiyak pag kailangan mo umiyak..till time comes na you'll cry no more..its better na ilabas natin than to pretend na were okay..
ako sobrang nasaktan sa lahat ng pangyayari pero i guess "in time" lahat ng sakit at hapdi na nararamdaman natin ay mapapalitan din ng kaligayahan..

masakit na ma realized mo minsan na "i never found someone na magmamahal at tatanggap sa akin..yung masasabi mong AKIN talaga"

pero kahit hindi ko ma siya makita or talagang wala na..
sana help ako ni Lord na maging masaya sa kung anumang meron ako ngayon...
wag tayo susuko mga sis..hindi man tayo panalo ngayon..mas maliit naman ang chances na masaktan pa tayo ulit kasi were very cautious na..basta wag tayo matakot na makakilala ng ibang tao..hindi tayo papabayaan ni Lord..

nandito lang din ako para sa inyo mga sis kahit hindi [textspeak!] personal na magkakakilala

[CHLayson]

hello.
i wanna ask po [textspeak!] gagawin ko kung ang papa ko ang lumalayo samin at sa mama ko??

[france0220325143]

haay... sobrang hirap maging single mom lalo na kung hindi ka financially stable. I consider myself a single mom kahit na regular pa rin kami nagkikita ng father ng anak ko. Though tinanggap ko sya ulit after ko manganak, it's not like it was before. Hindi na talaga tumitibok ang kung anuman sa akin para sa kanya but since tatay sya ng anak ko, ok na rin kung gusto nyang sumali sa buhay namin. Pero for me, anytime mawala sya, or may gawin lang syang hindi karapat-dapat, he's out of our lives for good.

[slickchick]

hello mommies! musta na kayo? ngayon lang ako ulit nakapasyal sa thread natin.. hope everyone's ok.. 

[finally]

hi slick and to rest single momma's out there.

My girl is now 2 and half  years old, she's in school, na rin nursery pero no pressure [textspeak!].
Now ko [textspeak!] narealize how hard to deal with the father issues, she'd started to wonder about the word daddy , papa and father in her life.sabi asa abroad which i believe is true the last time ive heard but still i know it wasn't the truest thing to say at all.

[beau]

pwede ba single dad dito?

[slickchick]

hello mommies (and daddies if meron)! musta na? buhayin natin yung thread. hope everyone's doing fine. BER-months na lapit na christmas. any plans in mind para sa mga chikiting nyo? 

[zooom]

be strong mga sis. single dad here.

[slickchick]

hi mga sis and bros! share ko lang.. last Saturday, my son had their Family Day sa school nila. this is one of those events that I dread but have no choice kasi required mag-attend ang mga bata and their parents. i heard one of my son's classmates asked him "bakit palagi mommy mo ang kasama mo? wala ka ba daddy or papa?"... my son (who's 6-yrs old) seemingly shrugged off the question with a smirk while saying "eh ano kung wala akong papa.. mas madami naman may love sa akin.. andyan si mommy, si yaya, si ninang (my cousin), si ninong (my brother), si lolo at lola ko... syo ba, ganun kadami ang may love??"... nakaka-lift lang ng spirit kasi despite his young age, he is smart enough to answer those kinds of questions.. sana hanggang paglaki nya ganun sya ka-strong... 

[momentum]

hello fellow single moms and dads

I am 27yrs old and my daughter is 3yrs old. just recently separated from my husband. we're married (sad). It's been quite tough dealing with the daily challenges alone and with no support from ex. I also thought that I am beginning to heal but recently he texted me with hurtful words and I started to fall apart again

I try to block my mind from thinking about him already and start being happy with my friends. nakakalungkot lang kasi wala ako masyadong "me time". I feel so alone sometimes. I wish i could have someone "real" beside me throughout this. meron akong close friends but kakatakot to be too close wiht some of them kasi may isa na male and may pamilya narin. hays..kelan kaya ako suswertihin sa love

[yannah]

hello fellow single moms!! its been ages since I posted here kamusta na? anyone thinking of creating a group na nag meet together para makatulong sa mga fellow single moms natin

[freelancer_babe]

may thread palang ganito!

akala ko may single mom na naghahanap ng bahay... as in bahay talaga.

 

[isabelle16]

  Hello singles

[sweetwitch]

hello everyone! Soon-to-be single mom here... i'm on my 7th month and excited na ako sa pagdating ni Bambino sa buhay ko... He serves as an inspiration to me, sya nagbibigay ng lakas ng loob sa ken. Keber ko na sa mga chismosa naming kapitbahay.


back reading pa ako... nakakaiyak yung ibang mga stories dito kasi in one way or another may nakakapareho ang story ko...

as early as now, iniisip ko na kung pano ko sasabihin sa baby ko ang sitwasyon namin. but i know naman na hindi kami/tayo pababayaan ni Lord...

[yssayjayla]

count me in. singlemom for a more than a year. mommy to a 3 year old girl.