Adding your ex in Facebook

[WandaWits]

Would you accept it if your ex sent you a request to add him in Facebook?
I have this ex bf from the same company we used to work with years ago.. i saw him in FB na through our common friends but ignored adding him. We have our own families & both of us are based in a different country. Just recently i got a request from him..yes, i fell in love with him years ago, but niloko niya ko and after i broke up with him he made effort plenty of times to be friends with me. Kayo mga sisses, have you added your ex bf sa Facebook niyo?

[hon3ykow]

hi sis post na din po,ang malimit na gumagawa  niyan mga ex's nating guys,sa ating mga gurls malimit we're timid to do that.sa akin po depende din kung andun ang respect nyo after the broke up,mga bang ex's guys di na din sila request kasi alam nilang sila ang may faults (may pride din kung baga) meron din parang jerk sis they dont mind.kung hindi naman na ok para maging frnds mo forget it gaya sa ex ko.   tama na siguro ang may magbalita sau o makibalita na lang.

[ysa.belle]

Would you accept it if your ex sent you a request to add him in Facebook?

Depende sa ex. If paano kami naghiwalay.
And YES, I accepted a Friend Request from my ex. He was my Ex during my high school years and wala naman kaming formal break up. We just drifted apart. We saw each other 2x pa after we drifted apart & kinda tried if we would work out again pero still, we drfited apart. Maybe we were never meant to be because of what happened before.

Pero Im not mad at him naman at ganun din siya sa akin. We talked na naman before.

We both have our own respective relationships...
BUT lately nagpaparamdam siya. Nasa ibang bansa kase siya eh. Pero I told him already na masaya na ako at wala na akong feelings sa kanya, Saka sa mga nangyari noon na parang fate na ang nagpapahiwalay sa amin eh dapat gets na siya na hindi talaga destined na maging kami.

[pumpkin13]

my exbf and i ended 4 years ago. wala pang fb nun. pero we ended in a good way. nagtatawanan at iyakan pa kami nun. LOL.  naging special friends kami as in parang best friends. may new gf na sya nun and may new bf na ko. we gave pieces of advice to each other, things na we should have done nung kami pa. pero after a little i decided to stay away nung nalaman ko na sobrang naiinsecure yung gf nya gawa ko. tapos nag-aaway sila pag nalaman ni ex na inaway ako ng gf nya. so i stayed away and lost our communication for years.

now came fb. common friends namin yung mga kapatid nya and a few friends we met along the way during the relationship. recently, he added me up. i did not accept pero i did not ignore. i just clicked on "Not Now". then he sent me a PM asking bakit di ko pa inaaccept. sabi ko kasi baka malaman ng gf nya awayin na naman ako. sabi nya wala na daw sila dati pa. i guess may bago na sya. then he asked me kung magagalit daw ba bf ko pag naging friends kami sa fb. sabi ko i don't think so. di naman yun seloso and di din nagccheck ng account ko. then he sent another PM nangungulit na i-accept ko na daw para naman maka-catch up kami sa isa't isa. But then I declined. sabi ko makibalita na lang sya sa mga kapatid nya at friends namin. then he said okay.

pero mga sis ang toto, alam ko kasi na pag naging fb friends kami, magiging curious ako sa naging buhay nya the past years. maiintirga ako and everyday iccheck ko ang profile nya. ayoko din mabasa ang mga pamatay nyang status na alam kong not perrtaining to me. ayoko hanapin yung dati. not the relationship, but the friendship we built after break up. ayokong maging complicated na naman. ayun. 

[camsicle]

OO. ok lang naman kasi parang tropa nalang in person pero ayoko ng makakachat pa sa FB or YM. dahil ayoko maging issue smen ni hubby ang mga ex. pero [textspeak!] ex ni hubby naging kaibigan ko pa. cool!

[prettyness]

HINDI. ayoko ma update sila sa nangyayari sa life ko.. manghinayang pa sila joke! 

[sweety_paige]

Y :)up 

lahat ng ex ko ka fb ko, nakakausap ko naman kasi sila, we parted in good terms 

[^kaedee^]

HINDI. ayoko ma update sila sa nangyayari sa life ko.. manghinayang pa sila joke! 

sis, sayang walang like button dito. i like your reply

for me, it depends on how we ended. kung good terms, why not?!

[prettyness]

^teehee

parang friend invitation lang yan eh, bakit kaba iniinvite ng mga friends/ old friends ay para maging updated sila sayo or para magka hi hello han kayo diba  so pag accept ko yung mga ex ko parang yun din yun, ma uupdate sila, ma uupdate ako sa life nila, magkaka hi hello at baka magkaron ng getting to know each other again yay! joke ulit 

[twelvth_goddess]

I'm over all my ex'es kaya ok lang saken na some of them nasa FB ko.

If adding your ex in your FB account will bring back harsh memories, wag na lang sis.

[pinkpotato]

i had 1 ex added sa FB ko at dun ko napatunaya he's gay! omigosh! tumbling talaga! hahaha.

i wanted to. pag nahanap nila ako masaya. pra magkaalaman na! watch me! haha. joke lang. friends naman kami ng mga exes ko kaya keribels.

[ebiko]

hindi na kailangan, friends naman kami. we update each other naman, everyday kung ano nangyayari. 

[iristacey]

wala kasi akong ex, but siguro i will not. kasi i would not want my curiosity to bloom and end up looking at his profile again and again. mahirap na. and isa pa, siguro i would want to concentrate on my present na lang.

[Aien0728]

hmm... i don't think so? it's kinda awkward don't you think mga sis? i'm trying to avoid it kasi basta hindi ko feel haha! fyi mga sis me and my husband was sharing FB and we name it after our daughter hehe yun na din siguro isang dahilan hehe. pero husband ko meron siya inadd na ex niya nung HS hmmm i feel kinda bad about it but dedma na lang anjan na eh? haha!

[WandaWits]

@prettyness: i like your answer too. if im going to accept his request im sure pag nakita niya mga pics ko dun, it would send him the mesage na.."Eat your heart out!". hahaha!

by the way, my hubby has his exes in his FB too and he's always telling me na sobrang hinayang ng 1 gf na nanloko sa kanya. siguro through that nakita rin niya importance ko kaya lagi nya sinasabi sakin love na love nya ko. thanks for your opinion sisses! Siguro it would bring back memories, painful memories, but the important thing is the present and that i'm happy. hindi ko pa siya ina-add, mag antay siya. hahaha!

[reb_woods072683]

Yes. I actually have an ex on my friends list. He was my bf for almost 6 years. My hubby doesn't know him because he doesn't want to know all about the my exes so ok lang naman. Plus, he's married and may baby na.

[Chantzy]

he sent request too many times and ignored every time 

[reb_woods072683]

^^ I have that kind of ex. We parted ways na super saklap and he always and always adding me up sa fb and even messages me, greeting happy 3 kings. dyos ko, napaka papansin. i always reject the invite.

[Chantzy]

ako hiwalay kami because he was cheating on me, tapos nag message sa FB and added me, nangungutang ng pera, kapal ng mukha 

[pumpkin13]

^ ay sis parang hindi ko naman kinaya si ex mo. LOL.