The One that Got Away -> just wanna share this article =)

[italiandoll]

I remember my favorite films with this -  Before Sunrise & Before Sunset. 

I had a "the one who got away too" and met him at my first job many years ago.  He's different from any guy I know, he's a kindred soul (we share the same zodiac sign so I guess that's a factor) and we never had a chance to have a closure about what really happened to us.  We're still in touch and sometimes I wonder about what could have been.  

[hot@pink]

nakarelate ako dun sa mmk.. minsan talaga need nating magsacrifice..been together with my ex for 5 years, so happy cant ask for more,  but everyhting changes when my ex got this girl pregnant and even if i promised i wont let him go wag lang niya pakasalan yung girl.. but he did mary the girl pa din just for the baby.. yes it's true kasi never sila nagsama as husband and wife.. but i decided to let him go para mabuo na niya yung family niya.. it was so hard for me.. kahit ano gawin ko at ipilit sarili ko sa iba during that time siya lang talaga love ko.. it was 3 years after god gave me all the answers to my question..  last year he died due to kidney failure.. he tried to reach out to talk to me and ask for forgiveness.. i just talked to his sister and told them, nothing to ask for forgiveness, and if meron man i already forgave him the moment his been a good father and husband.. somehow i'm thankful god knows i can't bear it kung maaga niya ko iiwan.. i am happy now with my partner..

[minikeyklush]

nakarelate ako dun sa mmk.. minsan talaga need nating magsacrifice..been together with my ex for 5 years, so happy cant ask for more,  but everyhting changes when my ex got this girl pregnant and even if i promised i wont let him go wag lang niya pakasalan yung girl.. but he did mary the girl pa din just for the baby.. yes it's true kasi never sila nagsama as husband and wife.. but i decided to let him go para mabuo na niya yung family niya.. it was so hard for me.. kahit ano gawin ko at ipilit sarili ko sa iba during that time siya lang talaga love ko.. it was 3 years after god gave me all the answers to my question..  last year he died due to kidney failure.. he tried to reach out to talk to me and ask for forgiveness.. i just talked to his sister and told them, nothing to ask for forgiveness, and if meron man i already forgave him the moment his been a good father and husband.. somehow i'm thankful god knows i can't bear it kung maaga niya ko iiwan.. i am happy now with my partner..

@sis hot@pink

awww... that was sad sis  God has ways talaga na alam nyang mas makakabuti sa aten. Atleast sis you're happy now.

[kahnhurl]

*sigh* wala akong ibang masabi kundi "haaayyy"

that "the one that got away" really made me think and that MMK episode..
take the risk if you think its worth the fight, kaya lang nakakatakot talaga mag-risk hehe

[whitelady17]

iyon ang pinaka rewarding feeling eh, once na nag risk ka and nag succeed panalo, pero kung nag risk at hindi naman maganda ang resulta, panalo pa rin kasi walang regrets wala ng what if's. If ever kayo mga sis, may communication pa with your exes why don't you try to ask them, the questions that kept bugging you? Let say, do you really loved me noong time na tayo? etc. It will help us kasi in our personal  healing, mamaya masyado nating sinisisi sarili natin because of the lost iyon pala wala sa iyo ang problema.

@sis pink, wow  you are very strong

[anirazc anasor]

Just read the article.
Im thinking, hmmm..does he think of me as the "one who got away"

Ikaw kasi. Ive warned you di ka pa tinalaban,now your running after me.
Hai

[Churvakels]

Days ago I was thinking of someone that got away, I met him when we were in college. He got away because I push him to go away. He searched and found me years ago, pero I refused to meet him. Iniisiip ko kasi para saan pa, ganun din naman yun. Might as well kill the moment. Just recently I found him in FB, I saw their pics, he finally marry the girl after their second child was born. Wala lang, nakaka kilig lang to reminisce the old days. Pero hanggang doon na lang yun. Period.

The article is so nice, I wonder what was the author thinks while he do this. Is he thinking of the one that got away too?

[serena06]

diba may kanta din si katy perry na "The One That Got Away"

[chichi88]

Super nakakarelate ako with this article. *sighs* Ang hirap talaga ng may what ifs. I had a friend way back in college who told me that he loves me. I also did love him that time, pero may gf sya nun. Back then He always made me feel how special I was to him. But he never again told me how he felt for me. Until I had a bf, got pregnant then got married. There were moments in my married life that he would came accross my mind, and I would just think.. WHAT IF? My husband just got separated early this year. Recently, i got in touched with this friend again thru facebook. We exchanged numbers and had been texting since then. He told me that way back in college, he really wanted to court me but thought he was "alanganin" then. He did have his own what ifs about me. The sad thing though is that he currently has a girlfriend. Laging wrong timing. Di talaga namin matyempuhan ang isa't isa. We both wanted to be together, but I know he loves her girl and I don't want to ruin their relationship. Might as well let go of the feeling muna.. Someday. Maybe.. hehe..

Next lifetime siguro ang biruan namin. Hehe.. Next lifetime na nga [textspeak!]..

HAAAAY!

[pixiedust]

wow. this puts things in a whole new perspective

[thestargazer]

In time you will realize why he got away and why he is not meant for you...

I just did... and I am happy that we did not turn out to be together.

Have patience mga sis.

[Aria_]

Inspiring.  Naiisip ko yung long time crush ko after reading it. pero, impossible. hehe. Nice read, though. This happens in real life.

[chimei_17]

hay nako... mas mahirap ang sitwasyon namin ng the one who got away dahil we're from the same circle of friends. kahit na nung ok na kame as friends, di maiwasan na tuksuhin ng group kaya nagiging awkward    so para kaming mga kabute na pasulpotsulpot depende kung pupunta yung isa hehe. tsaka ang hirap din kasi kahit ayaw mo malaman, magkakaroon at magkakaroon ka ng balita tungkol sa kanya, if he's dating someone new or kung nagaask sya about sayo.

and now na bumabalik sya, although may spark pa din talaga, ang hirap magisip ng matino lalo na at lahat ng friends mo e halos i-pressure ka to get back together. ayoko lang magrisk at masaktan ulit. tinake for granted nya kasi ako before. hay.

[a.k.a. HELGA]

The only man I have loved deeply. The one that got Away.

We had no closure. We just stopped seeing each other. Things were complicated right from the start, I just came from a break-up while he was struggling with his girlfriend who's attempting suicide everytime he will try to break up. We used to work together. I was the only girl in the department, everytime we will have gimiks, siya ang lagi kong kausap, funny we realized na siya din pala ang tumutulong sa akin everytime we had overnight (asikaso ng pagkain, etc.). I would admit I was on the wild side back then. Lakas magyosi and gumimik. I would go out for a drink until 5AM kahit may pasok the same day. He knew that and yet he still loved me. What we had was so wonderful and until now, I still keep every love letters he had given me and all our memories I could still recall vividly. But now I understand that perfect timing plays an important part in making a relationship works. We had the perfect love but kalaban namin ang panahon at sitwasyon back then.

[x-y]

Nakakarelate ako. Feeling ko ako yung the one that got away. hrhr

[sakura_bloom]

Nakakarelate ako. Feeling ko ako yung the one that got away. hrhr

^True!

^^Meron akong mga binasted na guys kahit may attraction ako sa kanila dahil hindi ako ready. Dati nanghihinayang ako, pero after sometime na-realize ko na tama yung decision ko. Hindi kami bagay at tama para sa isa't isa. Hormones lang ng puberty yung narandaman ko! 

[shoppefloor]

I just saw my "The One that Got Away" early this morning.
Apparently, my ex works just beside our office building & we have the same exact schedule!
I know it's weird but I felt excited when I saw him 

[Alucard]

Siguro kung ako.. "Im Happy to get away" haha!! pero I won't be thinking of the same thing if my current partner gets away from me. siya yung taong nagpasaya sa akin at nagparamdam ng maraming unforgettable things at nagturo ng maraming bagay para sa akin.

Respeto nalang sa isa't isa. Why think of that kung mahal mo talaga ang current partner mo diba?

[Saint_Sinner]

the guy that i love, he's the one that got away.


it's so hard for me. like magkakaron ng something sa amin tapos mauuwi lang sa wala, ilang taon na kaming ganito. and when we are together, madalas nag-aaway kami, nahihiya na nga ako sa friends namin kasi nag a argue kami kahit anjan sila (pero di naman malala).


sabi nga nung common friend namin kung mag-away kami parang "kami" daw.

[jaded1025]

I an relate! haha! So wrong timing lang kasi magulo na yun relationship ko that time and about to end na, sya din kakabreak lang.

But I got her back! Nyahaha!! Just got lucky siguro! Kasi nung maayos na ang lahat sakin, nagparamdam ulit ako then sya ready to start again na.