matatawag ba akong kabit kung single ako and then nakipagboyfriend ako sa lalaki na may pamilya na pero hindi pa sila kasal nung babae (and there's no intention of getting married)?
so ang nangyayari ay umuuwi ang lalaki para lang sa mga anak niya kasi maliliit pa ang mga anak niya. parang ganon. kabit ba ako?
yon.
Legally no, hindi ka kabit, IMO.
What are you? The Spare Tire.
Look, darling, he still goes home to her every effing night. How can you say he is being truthful that all he goes home for are the kids? Yeah, right, UNTIL -- you find out the mother of his kids is pregnant again. Hindi ka naman siguro pabobola na immaculate conception yon.
The thing is, whatever keeps him going home every night is what is keeping you 2 from getting into an orderly relationship. As long as he is tied to that home, where are you?
Haaynako, you best look hard at what is in your best interest. Mahirap kung after so many years, and after a kid or two (maybe) eh, hindi naman ikaw ginawang legal wife.
Why am I so obssessed with just some piece of paper (as what others label a Marriage Contract as?)
Well, darling, that piece of paper is what is gonna give you what is due you and your legitimate kids should Life throw you a curved ball.
I do not mean to be harsh. But if you are my dearest sister, eto lang ma say ko sa situation mo:
You are paying a big price now and even hocking your future happiness and security heavily for a little pork.
(Yan ang reverse ng mga sinasabi ng mga guys: Why marry the cow when all you want is some milk?
Or, the cruder version: Baket mo pakakasalan eh puede namang i-por kilo? Susko)
Oopz, 2011 pa pala ito. But the above applies to LITTLEKINSELLA's friend.
