Author Topic: What should i do -_-'' (Read 14168 times)

PrincessKitty · « **on:** February 08, 2011, 11:25:34 pm »

i'm 24.. turning 25 in any months time.. i have a son.. he is turning 4... his dad and i have been steady for more like 4years (dahil may anak na kami) but bf/gf mga 6 yrs...

i really love him kasi sa lahat ng naging bf's ko sha lang nagmahal sa akin ng ganito... now.. hindi ko na alam kung mahal pa nya ako.. but thankfully.. mhal na mahal nya anak namin... sinasabi nya he is getting tired of me kasi masama ugali ko.. palaging pinapahiya ko daw sha... Jan. 11,2011 pinakamalas na araw ko.. i know sumthing was going on.. and alam ko masama mag sneak in so.. when he was asleep.. 1am kinuha ko usb sa bag nya..

kaya pala hindi nya pinapahiram sa akin kasi.. i found out.. he had an affair with his boss... boss nya may asawa na at mga anak... ang masakit nito.. nakita ko sa mga pics dated Feb 2010 pa... hindi pa kami mashado nagkakanda gulo gulo nun...ang sakit nung makita ko.. 3 pics dun.. naked sila... the worst.. sa kwarto pa ng bahay namin dun (in-laws) sa manila, ginawang magchorva... 1st time nya akong niloko ng ganun... then sinabi nya sken "binabalik ko lang mga ginawa mo sa akin noon" ang nasa loob ko.. kaya mo lang sinasabi yan dahil nahuli kita...

i admit nung wala pa kaming anak nung 2yrs plang kami.. i admit.. naging bi@tch ako pero tinigil ko din at till now pinagdudusahan ko parin un... then sabi nya.. hiwalay daw sa asawa un.. pero nalaman ko sa isang source na hindi pala hiwalay...

call center agent partner ko.. Operations Supervisor sa Teletech Roxas yung babae... name nya? d ko nlang sasabihin F.B initials (name at surname [nya yata nung pagkadalaga or idk..]). other FB account nya yan... kaya sigurado may main yun. grabe, at least alam ko na bakit sha gumawa ng isang fb account. sabi pa nya sken e for deletion daw.. pinalabas nya akong break na kami dun at ginawa nyang in a relationship sa babaeng yun...

sabi nya... break na daw cla about 2months ago at FRIENDS nlang daw cla(Jan nia sken sinabi so.. Nov 2010 wala na sila) pero may nagsabi sken na hindi pa daw.. ewan ko ang gulo... di ko na alam iiCpin ko.. kakaiCp ko.. i'm having delusions na cmula nung inCdent dahil sa kakaiCp ko. like nung nagouting kami nitong Sunday.. swimming.. akala ko may kasusap shang babae at hinawakan nya mukha ng other girl... hindi pala...

i talked to his mom... kahit mom nya nashock.. kc wala tlaga clang kaalam alam... pero napag usapan na namin nung Jan.16... sabi pa nga nya... "sa kanya ako humihingi ng pera kapag gipit ako at napupunta sa mga nid nyo.." sabi ko pa nga.. "edi utang na loob ko pa un? dapat ba sabihin ko.. Hi Ate Friday! salamat nga pala ha? katawan ng bf ko kapalit?"

di ako manhid para hindi masaktan.. pero in the 1st place i shudn't sneaked in sana... haiz ano na gagawin ko?... =/ nung una.. gusto kong pumunta ng office nila para ipakita pics.. kaso bf ko naman mawawalan ng work... kawawa naman bebe namin.. what shud i do to surpass itong prob na to.. baka ma2luyan na akong macraan ng ulo...

i need a psychiatrist.. >_> may alam kayo? how much kaya starting consultation... i need to deal with my problem too..

chiqmom · « **Reply #1 on:** February 08, 2011, 11:34:16 pm »

sis, would you still want to pursue your relationship with him? are you willing to fight for him? how about your boyfriend, is he willing to fight for you?

detach yourself from the mess. look at yourself, your son. think about your future, what do you see? pray hard. pray like your desperate for answers. kasi this is what i did after discovering the nude photos of husband and their HR. let God show you what to do.

PS. you are stronger than you think. take care.

PrincessKitty · « **Reply #2 on:** February 08, 2011, 11:40:59 pm »

^syempre naman.. kahit masakit... kasi nung nag usap kami ng bf ko.. sabi nya hiwalay nalang daw.. pero sa kanya yung bata.. dalw dalawin ko nalang (how dare ha?!.. nung nanganak ako he wasn't there.. kc may arguement din kami bago nun.. tapos ano? sa kanya?)

pero no matter... i still want him.. and hindi ko na sya papakawalan.. subukan lang ng babaeng yon sirain ulit relasyon namin.. at hahanap ako ng paraan para makontak asawa nya... now.. i hate Fridays..

Staying_me · « **Reply #3 on:** February 16, 2011, 11:04:06 pm »

sorry i sis i don't know how to react
nakakatakot situation mo, ayoko maranasan
just pray hard

showermist · « **Reply #4 on:** February 17, 2011, 05:45:09 am »

is it the letting go part that is making it hard for you?! because as i can see, you're in a mess. you're relationship is a mess. assess your relationship. is the relationship moving forward or not? you think it is worth the sacrifice sticking with him?
are you so financially dependent on him? if not, ngayon pa lang build yourself financially. para pag dumating ang time na he'll ditch you, you wont be sulking at the corner. at hindi maging kawawa ang anak mo at ikaw.
IMO, he doesnt respect you, he doesnt respect the relationship ninyong dalawa para magawa nya ang ganun sa iyo. i hope mali ako.

have the courage to make the first step. kasi pag nagawa mo yun, tuluy tuloy na yan...sana yung step na yan eh para sa ikabubuti mo at ng anak mo.

pray.

iristacey · « **Reply #5 on:** February 18, 2011, 03:56:27 pm »

reading your story sis, nakakapanlumo talaga. i could never imagine the pain you are suffering right now and maybe, whenever the thought of the picture comes to your mind, the nalulungkot ka pa din. basta sis, be strong on your choice. in the end, it will still be upto you if you choose to stay or let go. just stand up for your son. he will be your best source of strength.

prettykhae · « **Reply #6 on:** February 21, 2011, 05:13:21 pm »

sis TS, kausapin mo kaya yung girl? hehe... wag away a... grabe, talagang nakatago pa sa USB! at di man lang naisip na pwedeng mawala yun at kahihiyan nilang dalawa yun.

PrincessKitty · « **Reply #7 on:** February 21, 2011, 05:54:21 pm »

Quote from: showermist on February 17, 2011, 05:45:09 am

is it the letting go part that is making it hard for you?! because as i can see, you're in a mess. you're relationship is a mess. assess your relationship. is the relationship moving forward or not? you think it is worth the sacrifice sticking with him?
are you so financially dependent on him? if not, ngayon pa lang build yourself financially. para pag dumating ang time na he'll ditch you, you wont be sulking at the corner. at hindi maging kawawa ang anak mo at ikaw.
IMO, he doesnt respect you, he doesnt respect the relationship ninyong dalawa para magawa nya ang ganun sa iyo. i hope mali ako.

have the courage to make the first step. kasi pag nagawa mo yun, tuluy tuloy na yan...sana yung step na yan eh para sa ikabubuti mo at ng anak mo.

pray.

-di ko kayang mag let go sis.. i really love him. t@nga lang talaga ako pero lahat ginagawa ko.. at nagdadasal ako na sana si God magpadala ng isang malaking miracle stone at ipukpok sa ulo ng lalaking yun >_<. para makunsensya.

Quote from: iristacey on February 18, 2011, 03:56:27 pm

reading your story sis, nakakapanlumo talaga. i could never imagine the pain you are suffering right now and maybe, whenever the thought of the picture comes to your mind, the nalulungkot ka pa din. basta sis, be strong on your choice. in the end, it will still be upto you if you choose to stay or let go. just stand up for your son. he will be your best source of strength.

- di ko na nga sinama yung nagbreak kami b4 when i was pregnant. tas nagkaroon sya ng ibang gf and got her impregnated.. then nung he wants me back... ayun, nakipagkalas sya dun sa isa at binalikan ako.. ok na yun kaso it's really annoying kasi kinukulit sya ng ex nya.

tama ka sis, nalulungkot pa din ako.. hindi ko alam kasi kung nagbago na ba sya.. but i'm still here.. hoping...

@prettykhae
-kausapin ko yung girl? hay naku sis.. sadyang malandi talaga yung babaeng yun. palagay ko nga yun yung nagtext sa akin sa ibang number. kung ano ano pinagsasaasabi. talagang pinagseselos ako.

prettykhae · « **Reply #8 on:** February 21, 2011, 06:00:12 pm »

sis, ano sabi sa text? ireport mo sa HR nila

illicit affair!

PrincessKitty · « **Reply #9 on:** February 22, 2011, 07:21:41 pm »

Quote from: prettykhae on February 21, 2011, 06:00:12 pm

sis, ano sabi sa text? ireport mo sa HR nila illicite affair!

wala akong work sis... parents ko hindi ko maaasahan dahil "yan kasi nag asa asawa ka!) yung needs ng anak ko sa kanya galing. at kahit magwork ako... ayoko naman na masira ako sa family nya.. kahit now ko lang nalaman na yung family nya nagsinungaling saken kasi i texted him na "nung may nangyari ba sa inyo dyan eh for sure nakita kayo ng mga tao dyan sa bahay.. imposible kasi eh" sabi nya "yup"

grabe pinagtutulungan ako... T___T

iristacey · « **Reply #10 on:** February 23, 2011, 12:36:25 pm »

^huwaaaat??? talagang kinunsinte pa siya.. haaay naku.. nakakawindang talaga yun sis. just be strong. kung madali lang kasi sana maglet go, kaso hindi rin eh. super hirap talaga kapag mahal na mahal mo na..

prettykhae · « **Reply #11 on:** February 23, 2011, 01:21:18 pm »

sis TIA, uu nga pinagtutulungan ka. just pray na lang.

PrincessKitty · « **Reply #12 on:** February 23, 2011, 04:35:03 pm »

@iristacey
-tinext ko nga sabi ko..
me: "kc imposible talaga.. feeling ko pinagtulungan niyo ako eh ^_^"
him: "feeling mu lang yun"
me: "e ano ba sa palagay mo? hindi po ba ganun yun?"

i asked an advice sa trusted friend ko for years.. sabi nya.. ignore ko nalanag daw at magsasawa din yun. as long as di nya kami pinapapabayaan... kahit na.. di ko matanggap na may kahati ako sa katawan nya?! hahaha XD

@prettykhae
-ayun nga eh.. i'll pray to god nalang siguro... sana magpadala sya ng isang pagkalaking MIRACLE STONE at ipukpok sa bungo ng hubz ko >_<

iristacey · « **Reply #13 on:** February 23, 2011, 04:44:38 pm »

ako parang hindi ko kaya na may kahati.. and siguro, ganun talaga, kamag-anak niya yun eh. hindi mo mai-impose sa kanila na isumbong nila yung kamag-anak nila kahit pa may ginagawang kalokohan. sana sis you find more strength during this course of your life.

PrincessKitty · « **Reply #14 on:** February 24, 2011, 12:30:57 am »

sisiies... [textspeak!] itsura nung girl.. 3 anak nian at may asawa.. "pero hiwalay na daw" at sa source ko na trusted and true "hindi pa" tignan mo sinungaling!!!

kasama jan hubby ko jan.16 sa Genuis Bar bday party ng kaoffice mate
http://i134.photobucket.com/albums/q87/kittymode/Bitches/friday.jpg

http://i134.photobucket.com/albums/q87/kittymode/Bitches/friday3.jpg
http://i134.photobucket.com/albums/q87/kittymode/Bitches/friday2.jpg

itsura ko...
http://i134.photobucket.com/albums/q87/kittymode/personal%20pics/kuting13.jpg
and btw mag 2 25 na ako...

alam ko wala sa pagandahan or sexyhan pero.. mga sissies.. tignan nyo naman!

ylisza · « **Reply #15 on:** February 24, 2011, 12:54:13 am »

hi sis @PrincessKitty.. nakakaloka ang sitwasyon na yan.. ako talaga, hindi ko keri yang ganyan.. basta ang mase-say ko, ipaglaban mo yung alam mong tama pero siguro dahan-dahan kase ang selan e.. siempre ayaw naman natin lahat ng 3rd world war.. tas nakasa-alaala pa ang trabaho ni boyfie.. naman di ba? wawa talaga si bebe..

pakahinahon ka, unang una.. isipin si bebe.. tsaka gamitan mo ng diplomasya si boyfie.. maaayos din yan.. tsaka gaya ng sabi ng mga sisses natin, dasal lang.. tsaka magpakabait..

PrincessKitty · « **Reply #16 on:** February 24, 2011, 01:04:48 am »

Quote from: ylisza link=topic=238647.msg6273202#msg6273202
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hi sis @PrincessKitty.. nakakaloka ang sitwasyon na yan.. ako talaga, hindi ko keri yang ganyan.. basta ang mase-say ko, ipaglaban mo yung alam mong tama pero siguro dahan-dahan kase ang selan e.. siempre ayaw naman natin lahat ng 3rd world war.. tas nakasa-alaala pa ang trabaho ni boyfie.. naman di ba? wawa talaga si bebe..

pakahinahon ka, unang una.. isipin si bebe.. tsaka gamitan mo ng diplomasya si boyfie.. maaayos din yan.. tsaka gaya ng sabi ng mga sisses natin, dasal lang.. tsaka magpakabait..

^i'm doing almost everything...grabe tulad nyan.. nung last saturday daw umuwi sa kanila ng hapon, kasama yang babaeng yan, andun yung grandparents nya.. then umuwi ng gabi "syempre dahil uuwi sya sa akin"

ylisza · « **Reply #17 on:** February 24, 2011, 01:16:01 am »

Quote from: PrincessKitty on February 24, 2011, 01:04:48 am

^i'm doing almost everything...grabe tulad nyan.. nung last saturday daw umuwi sa kanila ng hapon, kasama yang babaeng yan, andun yung grandparents nya.. then umuwi ng gabi "syempre dahil uuwi sya sa akin"

over...... matitiis mo pa ba? garapalan na yata..

Pretty_ava · « **Reply #18 on:** February 24, 2011, 02:51:23 am »

to TS: naku sis, let go and find a job para ma support mo si bebe nyo.

sinungaling yan si bf mo, matitiis mo bang lokohin ka nya ng matagal? wag ka magpaka t@nga sis. ang kapal nila, HB ako sa mga ganyan lalaki,

PrincessKitty · « **Reply #19 on:** February 24, 2011, 06:40:22 am »

mahirap mag let go sis.. esp... 7yrs na eh. for the 1st [textspeak!] he cheated on me...

saka mahal na mahal ko na eh.. wah ant@nga t@nga ko

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