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[blackgreen]

^Tama ka sis. Minsan kasi kung sino yun gusto mo ayaw sa iyo, yun may gusto sa iyo ayaw mo naman

[shopaholic18]

^you can actually make a guy fall for you,but then its not always that way. you can do things and all but not really sure if he'll fall.

[blackgreen]

^share some tips and advice sis

[shopaholic18]

^flirt with the guy but not too much, ride ka lang sa kanya. if he spends time with you wag mo deadmahin, don't send mixed signals be straightforward, if he happens to call you in a term of endearment call him that way too. be a good listener, be a best friend, make him feel special and make him miss you once in awhile. pero sis effective lang to kung in the first place malinaw na interested siya sayo. kung start from scratch i don't know lang kung gagana yung ganito. i've been with this guy for sometime, we started of sending interests to each other then nag bloom sa like and still on the process of should i say MU. taking things slow until we move on to the next level of being a couple.

[luisacart]

actually, there's a book by Helen Fisher called Why We Love: The Nature and Chemistry of Romantic Love. She did research on the neurochemistry of romantic love and she suggested a list of possible factors to why people fall in love. One of them is "Proximity". In short, pag palagi mag-kasama, nagkaka-developan. Another one I remember is the "Excitation Transfer". Ang example niyan is kung magkasama kayo na na-experience ang isang event where you're adrenaline is pumped, yung feeling of excitement is transfered into a feeling of affection/love. So, kapag daw mag-dadate kayo, make it exciting. Ride a ferris wheel, roller coaster, watch a very scary movie.. etc. Ganun. I don't know if it works but her theories are spot on.

[shopaholic18]

^thanks for sharing sis.agree ako sa proximity na yan.

[blackgreen]

^^, ^ thanks sisses for sharing. Mukhang agree rin ako sa proximity. Ang pangit lang ako yata ang nadedevelop.

[shopaholic18]

^naku sis try not to. teka para di masyado ka ma fall magpaligaw ka din sa iba. sakin kasi di applicable yun eh personal preference lang. pero try mo lang, para mapag isipan mo din ng husto feelings mo di yung nadadala ka lang. wala pa naman kyong commitment eh. kasi mahirap yung ikaw mauuna, if you can control yourself then go kalang with the tactics pero kung hindi look for other options.

[blackgreen]

^thanks sis. Siguro nga nadadala lang ako kasi palagi kami tinutukso ng mga kasama namin sa office. Buti nga tapos na yun account namin so hindi na kami palagi magkasama. Pwede ko na siya maiwasan.

[shopaholic18]

^wag naman iwasan totally, what if you two are meant to be, will you let him slip away? take chances pero alalay lang sa feelings.

[blackgreen]

^i'll reconsider, but siya na mismo nagsabi hindi kami talo eh. Tapos yun mga gusto niya sa babae eh opposite ko. Hayy..

Btw, kikita ko posts mo sa ibang thread, happy naman me for you

Sana ang puso napoprogram..

[shopaholic18]

^yan ang mahirap sis, kung sinabi na niya mismo na hindi kayo talo and iba ang type niya. medyo sabit tayo diyan.

thanks, im happy where we are right now. now i understand the power of taking things slow and getting to know a person before jumping into something na you two both weren't prepared, pangit nga talaga ang rush.

ang puso hindi man na poprogram pero nadadala yan, with each heartache comes a lesson that you should only give your heart to someone whose really worthy of it. you get to be wiser next time you fall in love.

[blackgreen]

^sis, hanggang ngayun may tuksuhan pa rin sa office kasi napapansin nila na madalas daw sumasama sa group namin yun guy but then feeling ko bagong barkada lang turing niya sa akin. Nagkkwento pa nga siya about dun sa present girl niya. Weird lang last week, nagkwento siya na meron daw siyang nagugustuhan na girl kasi gumagaan na daw loob niya sa girl na yun. Tapos napaisip tuloy ako kung ako ba yun. Hehe.. Feelingera naman ako. Ngayun madalas kami magkasama lumalabas with our officemates. Siyempre nabibigyan ng kulay, palagi sinasabi ng ibang tao di niya gagawin yan kung wala siyang something for you, pero wala naman siya sinasabi. Kapag talaga may feelings ka sa isang tao,kahit maliit na bagay napapansin.

I can't make him love me na nga yata drama ko..

[shopaholic18]

^if its meant to happen it'll happen sis. yun nalang isipin mo.

[trisha]

for girls, mararamdaman mo talaga pag gusto ka ng guy

[shopaholic18]

^yeah true, you'll know it wag lang mag send ng mixed signal si guy you'll pretty much know if a guy likes you.

[craziestqueenever]

for girls, mararamdaman mo talaga pag gusto ka ng guy

WHat if naman kung feeler ang girls? Mahirap kasi mag assume eh

[JHAZbewithyou]

Ahmmm.. Do all what she wants.

[Girltalker2]

pag babae ka, mahirap ata to make him fall for you.  ang lalaki kasi short-sighted. unless siguro ikaw nalang ang babaeng natitira sa mundo na kausap nya, puede pa siguro. haha

seriously, pag babae, I do not know if it is likely. maybe possible pero very slim ang chance.

pero ang lalaki, madali lang, hindi ba?  be there everyday, as in every day paramdam. kulitin mo for dates. figure her out what she wants or does not want. what turns her on and not. shower her with your attention. then may nagsuggest nga na magpamiss ka din for a while.  dun mo malalaman na hinahanap hanap na ng girl yung presence mo. 

[phoebe1811]

for me be yourself lang. don't pretend someone you're not kasi lalabas at lalabas din
kung ano yung totoong ugali mo bakit papakahirap kang magkunwari. hindi ba dapat
mahalin ka niya kung ano ka talaga?!

hindi naman ako nahirapan sa ganitong aspect lol 
be extra sweet to them and thoughtful and eventually make them feel wanted.