sudden rush of hate

[clei]

i don't know if its just me or everybody experienced it at one point or another. but whenever i see this person, i just feel a sudden rush of hate. i want this feeling to end. we used to be friends.

what am i gonna do to keep this feeling away? is something wrong with me?

if there's an existing thread regarding this, please do delete mine. TIA

[ficklemind]

^^ sis, sudden rush of hate towards another family member? relative? 

[clei]

actually sis, friend.

[passionfruity]

Baka may nagawa syang mali sayo in the past at di mo pa yun naoovercome.kaya nakakaranas ka ng recurrence of hate sa  kanya..kung wala naman would you consider yourself jealous or envy with her? try to assist yourself.nasa sayo din ang sagot nyan.So ikaw lang din makakapagbigay ng solusyun.

But I donnu if yours is similar as mine..kasi ako my feeling din ako minsan na kahit bago ko palang kakilala parang i dont like the person na agad kahit la naman syang ginagawang masama.Its like I feel they cant be trusted.at yun na nga di nagkamali ang intuition ko..
I donnu maybe this is what they call third eye?haha

[clei]

^ something happened nga in the past. i didnt know im still affected by it even if 5yrs ng nkalipas un. back then, i ignored the way she's always competing with me. we used to be friends. but now, hindi ko maalis mainis sa kania. kasi she always make it a point na she has everything i have. much more pa nga kung minsan. like when i had my braces, the next time i saw her mron na din cia. she even copied my business!

[yang]

hmm i feel you sis, i have  those fleeting feelings too.

[passionfruity]

yeah.now gets ko na.nakakairita nga yan.tho yung nangyari naman sakin is pag nagkukwento ako merung frend na magkukwento din ng similar story at sempre mas yung sa kanya.haha..that even sakit ng anak ko maikwento ko hihirit padin sya at mas pa yung sakit ng anak nya sa sakit ng anak ko..hahaha..funny pero nakakirita..di mu alam kung nangaasar or talagang nagkataon na lagi kaming my similar stories..

You really cant get rid of envious people..enjoy mo nalang mga ginagawa mo.hayaan mo silang forever maging copycat mo..basta make sure na lahat ginagawa mo is nakakapgpasaya sayo.di lahat ng ginagawa  mo eh magiging swak sa ibang gayagaya sayo.so who do you think would end up the winner?

gets moko sis?

[clei]

^ yes sis! im trying to ignore her na nga eh, kaso every post ko sa fb mega comment cia. then repost repost, kaloca! 

[showermist]

i hear you.

i also hate this someone--and she used to be my friend.  (enk, di ba family related thread to?)

i just hate her--maybe her guts, i don't know... or maybe that  word she said to me back then that really pushed my limit.

i totally blocked her on my fb, block her on my phone. at pag naaalala ko siya kumukulo ang dugo ko

[prettykhae]

^ yes sis! im trying to ignore her na nga eh, kaso every post ko sa fb mega comment cia. then repost repost, kaloca! 

sis, inggit yan.  OBVIOUS... hayaan mo sya. hehe... at least sya yung naiinggit sayo, kesa ikaw ang mainggit sa kanya di ba? hehe, baka pati bf/asawa mo e like rin nya magkaroon ng ganun? or worst, agawin pa nya....

[clei]

^ actually sis, my bf cia. super sa pangiinggit, pati text na ni boyfie pnopost na sa wall nia (dapat private na yun db?). tingin nia naman siguro maiinggit ako sknia! my bf din kya ko hahaha

i hear you.

i also hate this someone--and she used to be my friend.  (enk, di ba family related thread to?)

pag naaalala ko siya kumukulo ang dugo ko

sorry sis! sa sobrang asar ko sa knia that day, hindi ko na napansin na sa family thread pala ko nakagawa ng topic 

and yes, kukulo talaga dugo mo sa mga ganun na tao 

[carlijn]

Guy cousin ng hubby ko super duper hate ko to the max, hindi ko na kelangan makita pa dahil marinig ko lang name nya kumukulo na dugo ko.  Sa sobrang hate ko sa kanya gusto ko na sya ibuko sa asawa nya para tigilan nya hubby ko ng kakaimbita ng inuman sa kanila at gawin kakonchaba ang asawa ko sa pambababae nya.

[proudmama]

i do pangalan pa lang ng MIL at sister ng hubby ko naiimbyerna at kumukulo na dugo ko.

[PrincessKitty]

pag naririnig ko word na "Friday" nabwibwisit ako, parang gusto kong
pumatay ng tao dahil sa kanya nasira yung feeling of sweetness sa akin ng hubz ko

kaya nagsasabi akong Biyernes. now i hate that day!

[ylisza]

i don't know if its just me or everybody experienced it at one point or another. but whenever i see this person, i just feel a sudden rush of hate. i want this feeling to end. we used to be friends.

what am i gonna do to keep this feeling away? is something wrong with me?

if there's an existing thread regarding this, please do delete mine. TIA

bakit parang nakakarelate ako dito.. haha! this person, she's not a friend nor a relative whatever.. i just knew she exists pala, ewan ko.. hindi ako suplada, pero sya ayokong pansinin ever.. got a chance to talk to her ng makasama siya minsan, "somewhat ok".. i was feeling kinda like she's not true, kaya todo kabig ako.. ewan ko ba, pero deep within me, there's "kaplastikan" on her and i just couldn't explain what i feel.. basta may something.. at pag nakakaengkwentro ko sya, kumukulo ang dugo ko.. argh!

kalaunan, napapansin ko na lang, mukhang ginagaya na niya ako.. it's like "ngiiii".. don't know what's with her pero #1 gaya-gaya ko na sya.. at naiinis na talaga ako sa kanya.. pati pananalita.. oh, come on.. pwedeng maging original ka naman minsan? kaloka! tapos nitong huli, na-prove ko, plastikera nga ang mahadera.. tsk! may pamention-mention pa ng name ng the ONE up above, makita-kita ko ang bruhang ito kung ano-ano ang sinasabi sa kanyang "kakampi".. LOL!

pangalan pa lang niya teh, ayoko ng makita.. gusto kong mawala yung hate na ito, pero i can't blame myself.. siya naman nagumpisa e.. ok, well.. bring it on baby..

[mooncake and leaves]

I feel this way for some people, relatives included. But no friends. Pretty much just people who can drop dead any minute and I won't feel any sort of remorse. Sama eh no. Pero ang hirap. Eventhough we weren't close or they're not really a major part of my life, masakit kasi when I think of the times they've hurt me. Then again, that's the thing-thinking about the past over and over again nurses that hatred. And at some point, you just get tired of being angry. Ako na mismo sumusuko. Napapagod na akong magalit eh. And when I think about it, I've hurt people in the past as well. I'm light years away from being a good person. And I don't want anyone to hate me. Maybe that's a selfish motivation for forgiving other people but you gotta start somewhere.

[tiggerlily]

i have this feelings too. isang friend who was mayabang before and then ngayon mas lalong mayabang. nahawa sa asawa nyang mayabang. ayun malamang yung anak nila ganun din.

and isang relative: who keeps on copying me too. college school, course, work. kaso inunahan nya ko magkaanak e hindi sya pinakasalan nung guy kasi pinikot nya lang. i mean balak pikutin pala. ayun. ngayon naman ipinagmamalaki nya na hindi raw call center yung pinasukan nya kahit alam kong ganun ang work nila - obvious naman sa shift hours nya. kasi daw yung call center daw nakakapasok magwork kahit hindi tapos ng college kaya ayaw nyang matawag na call center yung company nila. btw, i worked as a TSE sa sykes before. at marami pang ibang kainggitan. baka umabot na ng page 30 itong thread kaya hanggang dito na muna. hehe!

[camsicle]

i do pangalan pa lang ng MIL at sister ng hubby ko naiimbyerna at kumukulo na dugo ko.

meron akong kilalang ganyan... would you consider it at Angst feeling? Ganyan ako dati, pero bata pa ako non... di ko na maalala. ngayon kasi, awa ng Dios ay wala na akong nararamdamang ganyan.

[rianne_mallows]

ako dalawa.. ang panganay na anak ng nanay ko at asawa niya..

hindi ko matawag na ate at bayaw ! kakasuka ! kakawalang respeto mga ugali nila!

[aquacharly]

Oh, I have those sudden attacks or rush of hatred for specific people... when I see them, they call me, or napagusapan sila.  It's perfectly normal, kasi hindi naman ako aamin na AB-normal ako, so, Darling .. pareho tayo normal!  lol

Let me count:  2 SILs (1 each per side:  sister of hubby, and 2nd wife of my brother);
                     3 female cousins of  hubby (1 is convinced she is another Venus Raj, another thinks
                               her 38E makes her Ms Universe; another suddenly views Pinoys as pathetic
                               nang makapag asawa sya ng Frenchman)
                     1 "bilas" - SIL of hubby -- who pretends she is a Forbes Park matron with her lol
                               fake inventory of bags from Korea & Greenhills tiangge

After minding my manners when forced to occupy the same party site with them (beso beso air kisses ha) -- I ignore them the rest of the time.  Major ignore.   I do not return their calls...I do not  go to their parties or lunches or invitations to whatever... como busy ako kuno... I do not think about them.  Inggit lang yan, I live well.  hehe