On Paying for MotMot

[ryan22]

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Yeah. Kahit nga food ayaw eh. Kaya recently nasabihan ko na "pagastusin mo naman ako minsan". bumabawi na lang ako sa gifts.

hayaan mo na lang sya magbayad ng room. enjoy mo na lang yung time with him. hahaha. kahit ako di ako papayag na girl ang magbayad ng room.

[mc21]

...Di ko kayang pagbayarin ang girl ng mot-mot fee namin
...Sukdulang isangla ko ang CP or Watch ko sa front desk
...I will never do that to a girl, ever!!

[hornboy]

Well, it never came to a point naman that i asked the Girl to share, or accept her offer to share the bill.  Unless she already reserved a room, paid for it and she just call you for the session.  In this case, Bring food na lang.  hehe.

Seriously, dont go to Motel if you doesnt have the paper to pay for the bill.  I guess this applies to Guys who are working already.  In some cases, girls just offer to pay for the food na lang if she really want to share, and just let her do this.

...Di ko kayang pagbayarin ang girl ng mot-mot fee namin
...Sukdulang isangla ko ang CP or Watch ko sa front desk
...I will never do that to a girl, ever!!

Wag ka naman sana aabot sa point na ganito brother, if you have a partner, save paper for this activity. 

[t_r_i_s_h]

I don't mind paying sometimes specially if I'm the one who initiated hehe

[lblackcat]

There are those times na nagvovolunteer na magshare si girl when going to the motmot pero I turn it down most of the time. Pero if walang wala na din talaga ako pero we still went there and she was the one who initiated it despite knowing that I'm short, hinahayaan ko na lang din sya magshare. Pero that rarely happens. 

[11bernadette28]

Samen naman ako ang nagbabayad lalo na pag wala syang work as in BUM pag my pera naman sya galing sa parents or aunt nya sya nagbabayad or kundi man sa motmot sya nagbabayad ng fare, foods at kung meron akong bibilin na kaya nyang bayaran. Pero pag my work naman sya ayaw nya na ako ang gumagastos gusto nya sya lang ang maglalabas at magwiwidraw ng pera.

[simang]

We rarely check in, siguro 2x pa lang in a year that we've been together. Usually sa bahay lang kame eh.

[mrgrey]

I was in a long-term relationship dati and a girl asked me out and she paid for the room even when i insisted to pay. Sakto lang tlaga money ko that time for a week's budget kasi binibigay ko entire salary sa ex ko. Kung ako nagbayad that time im sure magtataka sya kung san ko dinala ang pera, it was a posh hotel in makati and the girl chose it. I dont want the girls na gumastos pero meron din naman akong naging gf na laging nagiinsist na hati kami so hinahayaan ko mag-share para lang wag na humaba pa ang usapan.

[nixiquita]

Wow. I never wanna experience this. I just might walk out if he'd let me pay or suggest we split the bill. Oh no.

Kahit sa boyfriend ko, wwalkoutan ko. Though i was never a fan of going to a motmot just for the deed. So i probably wouldnt even agree to go to one.

[baliwsayo]

I've always insisted to share pero buti naman the guys I've been with eh puro maangas. Lol! Thinking about it now while reading the answers on this thread, parang turn off nga na hindi kaya ni guy ishoulder yung bill. Not because I did not enjoy but I would feel more feminine lang knowing that he can take care of me.

[k_fine]

nung bf-gf pa lang kami ni hubby, we went to a motel once lang talaga and he paid for everything (room and food). i had one ex na we split the bill. nung simula siya lang then nung nagtagal i offered to share since both of us are working. with my 1st bf, he paid for everything kasi student pa lang ako nun. 2nd bf, though we were both students, siya lang din nagbabayad.

on my opinion, dapat si lalaki talaga haha. oo nga both enjoy it but still parang it's more advantageous naman sa kanila na nadadala nila ang babae doon. ah basta. you know what i mean 

[simang]

Women fight for equal rights, pero we complain when our guys split the motel rent.

[budzwhiz]

^ My thoughts exactly. Especially kung yung girl ang nag-initiate o nagpumilit, wag namang iexpect na yung lalake ang magbabayad. Lol. Always bring pambayad nalang para safe.

[mischa04]

Swerte naman ng mga ayaw pagastusin..hehe..
Ako naman, i always offer to share pag ayaw talaga yung food sagot ko na, di na pwede kumontra..haha.. Mas ok kasi sakin when i share, ewan ko ba, kaya kahit food ako na basta may share ako..

[Naughty^GuRu]

with my current FUBU, mas madalas siya yung nagbabayad sa motmot  pareho naman kaming may work and pareho din naman kaming nagbebenefit with what we do. so tama lang na pareho kaming magbayad. and it's just FUBU so hindi ko kelangan magpa impress na kaya ko siyang gastusan.

[av]

Hey Naughty^GuRu! Buhay ka pa rin? Wow! Bilib talaga ako sayo.

[Naughty^GuRu]

@av: yeah, buhay and active pa naman 

[winnie_the_martian]

Personally, it's a big TURN OFF for me if ako pinagbayad ng motmot ng guy or pinagshare... coz in the first place, di ako ang nag iinitiate, mas pref ko kase to wait pag di na nya ako matiis and invite me.. kapal na nun if ako pinagbayad.. unless i offer to pay or split the bill.. it has to come from me, not yung sasabihin nyang kaw muna pay.. susme! my libido will have a nosedive pag ganun... nababadingan na ako sa guy if that happens.. that's just for me tho..

I totally agree!!!!!!!

[imyourangel]

Never naging problem to sa amin ni bf. Since we have no choice but to do the deed outside, we share. No problem.

[MsAphrodite]

Ako same kami ni sis imyourangel, no problem to since both naman naming decision yun. So share kami sa bayad. Pero most of the time, sya lang. Hehe.