On Paying for MotMot

[straykatski]

I think ok lang if they take turns. 
Kung girl magbabayad mas ok kung masabi na at first pa lang.

[jaymejorrol]

Hahaha! ang kukulit kami ng gf ko may usapan about this..

nagkasundo kami na kung sino yung sabik at may gusto.. siya ang magbabayad! end of conversation! hahaha!

kaso ang problema.. kilalang-kilala ako ni gf.. alam niya na hindi ako makatiis.. tutuksuhin niya lang ako.. tapos ayun.. wala na ko magawa hehe..

but sometimes kung sino talaga ang willing mag bayad or nakakaluwag sa amin, siya na yung sasagot.

[markyy]

as long as na walang wala si guy at gusto ni girl i think walang problema. pero kung lagi si girl nagbabayad i think di na tama yun. kahit papano its a gentleman's account pa rin ang motmot.

[jaymejorrol]

^ agree din ako dyan. minsan nararanasan din namin ang ganyan

[ant0ni0_02]

I've actually never been to a motel, but man if a girl's going to spread his legs for you, you should at least foot the bill. It's narrow-minded not to really. Cheapskates don't get repeat performances.

[redhead69]

I've actually never been to a motel, but man if a girl's going to spread his legs for you, you should at least foot the bill. It's narrow-minded not to really. Cheapskates don't get repeat performances.

This! <3

[bear_touch]

ako nga feeling ko naTT.O na ko sa bf ko kasi napapansin ko na i always pay the bills.

Well if it is always, medyo hindi na po maganda. Unless walang work si guy. Talk to him and tell him what you feel.  Everything would be fine if you deliver it in a nice way

[jaymejorrol]

As a guy if first motmot nyo. The guy should pay including in the future motmot nyo ulit. Unless nagkataon na wala ka na that time na gusto nyo magmotmot you can talk to her baka pwede sya muna magbayad. Kesa magpretend na meron tas pagdating ng bayaran short ka or d ka makabayad.

i agree.. most of the time talaga dapat guys ang magbayad.. kasi isipin mo nalang kahit gusto ng girl, sila parin ang mas nag ma-matter sa ganyang situation.. kung talaga naman wala, sabihin.. as long as ok kay gf.. lalo na pag nasa mood din sya.. give and take lang naman yan.. negotiable naman.. hehe..

ako nga feeling ko naTT.O na ko sa bf ko kasi napapansin ko na i always pay the bills.

parang hindi tama.. pwede kung sagot mo motmot then kanya yung rest expenses kung may lakad pa kayo (dinner, malling, etc..) kumbaga at least share mo nalang yun.. pero kung motmot lang talaga.. parang di nga tama.. ako kasi minsan si gf sa motmot, pero the rest ng lakad sagot ko.. or vice versa..pero minsan ako naman talaga lahat sumasagot sa expenses, kaso gusto din talaga ni gf na may share sya.. depende sa usapan namin.. nagkakasundo naman kami.. magusap din kayo ni bf mo.. malay mo next time mag-effort sya..

[emma04]

ako we usually split the bill. ayaw nga ni BF, ako lang ang mapilit . i dont mind, sa panahon ngayon di na uso na lalake ang lahat mag-shoulder ng gastos

[heaven_charm]

my rule din is kung sino ang nagyaya siya ang magbabayad. hehe. although may mga ex din ako na kahit ako ang nagyaya sila padin ang willing magbayad. madalang kasi ako mag-initiate 

[jaymejorrol]

^ yah kahit kami.. kung sino may gusto sya ang taya.. pero syempre mas madalas talaga ako.. depende sa sitwasyon at budget

[theycallmethin]

same here with boyfie kung sino ang nagaya siya magbabayad pero more on half kami sa payment, hassle naman din kasi sa boys na sila palagi magbabayad db?

[pancitkanton]

hmmm for the first time, ALWAYS ako except for this one time na nacorner ako ng longtime chatmate ko.

Ilang linggo ko na kasi na iniiwasan na magmotel kameng 2 pero naubusan ng excuses eventually.
The reason I didnt want to go with her is wala kasi akong budget at that time.

When we met up, the plan was just to have dinner at a fastfood joint which i offered to pay for.
Nung nandun na, ayun nacorner na ako.

TBH, there was a certain feeling na parang ang dirty ko since I didnt pay for the room pero i think of it as both good and bad.

[Observer54]

personally its an insult for me if the girl will pay... just me 

[glacy_rein]

i prefer split bill lalo kung wala namang work si bf but syempre ego nadin naman nila yan so they always pay.

one time i played a game with my partner sabe ko let's just tease each other kung sino unang bumigay dahil gigil na, sya magbabayad, matagal din tapos sya na bumigay then sabe kahit naman ikaw ang bumigay ako pa din magbabayad.

[sugardrop]

What we do is he pays for the place, I buy the drinks and food so as to not hurt each other's ego.

[insanelypurpleprincess]

I think I also have my thing with being weird. I will not mind having to foot the bill for a lot of other stuff and places and activities, but not for the motel.

If with bfs naman, laging the guy pays. I would never offer even. Luckily, I don't have any experience wherein the guy is quite challenged with finances, so di rin nila kelangan mag ask.

However, if it so happens to be someone that I am not in a relationship with and we have decided to share the bed, then I would always, always, always offer to split the bill. And, among all, only one ever accepted. All the rest would always say, it's on me. So, kaya din siguro in my head, I feel that the guy always pays for motmot at least

[ryan22]

What we do is he pays for the place, I buy the drinks and food so as to not hurt each other's ego.

we do this. okay naman ako yung room, sya sa food. di masakit sa budget

[sugardrop]

^
I think it's more practical too. And not make the guy feel like a credit card.

[ryan22]

^
I think it's more practical too. And not make the guy feel like a credit card.

tama. tsaka mas-appropriate naman na lalaki ang magbayad ng room.