On Paying for MotMot

[sweetylicious143]

basta ako kung sino ang nag aya sya ang magbayad hehe!

[caloy168]

different opinions yet it all depends on the couple. kung sino nag aya sya dapat ang magbayad...and it is always a general rule to everything....yet, kung matagal na kayo na partners then you can compromise siguro...split the bill....

it's not applicable this days na dahil ako ang babae, si lalaki dapat ang magbayad...well pareho naman kayo nagpapaligaya at nagtatrabaho para ma attain yung needs nyo  unless si babae lahat ang nagtatrabaho sa loob hehe

[jpsv72]

Hi pa share ng sexperience....
Kami ni Hubby kahit ganun lang yun nung gf/bf pa kami sya ang nagbabayad, that was way back 1995 and then we got married at 1997, nag motmot pa rin kami pero sya pa rin nag babayad ( medyo may pagka conservative hehe (daw), once lang ako nagbayad last 2009, wala syang cash(working na kmi both OFW) CC ko ang ginamit namin, i gave it to him then he used it, pero pag uwi namin sa haus binayaran nya ko ng cash with a big smile, nasarapan ang loko  eh!!!!!
Yun ang na mimiss ko kaya dapat na talaga akong umuwi.....

[yam05]

back in college, share kame sa lahat. pero siya sa motmot, akin food.
pero ngayon na may work na kami pareho, sya lahat. 
ang rule nya kasi, kung anong meron sya, akin din. and never kaming nagkaproblem re kung sino magbabayad. 

[beijhing]

sa kin, no biggie kung girls ang magbayad. basta sya dapat nag-initiate, pero kung nagpaparamdam si guy na hindi sya ang magbabayad (kamot ulo, tagal dumukot ng wallet) or diretso nyang sinabi na ikaw na muna ha, kapal muks na yun. gusto lang maka-score at makalibre.

sa min kasi, split din ng bill. nung bf/gf pa lang kme, akin example food and movie then motmot always sya. but now that we're married, kung sino meron sya taya 

[ana mimi]

haha.. my bf always pay for the tab sa motmot..

pero minsan syempre pwede naman mag-ambag diba??

kahit papano, makikinabang ka din naman.. LOL

[BAISANAN]

hahaha...trulili nga naman, dapat kung bf mo palang at pagpupunta sa ganyang lugar,  pogi points para sa guy kung pinaghandaan nila at wag umasa sa share ni gf. pero kung married na oks lang no big deal.

hanubayaaaaaaaan!

ikaw na nga ang sinakyan, ikaw pa magbabayad ng pamasahe?

sorry for the term... bakit, may tumaas ba ang kilay dito?
sinong may sabi na masyadong 'bulgar' ang term ko?

fotext! matagal na akong parokyano ng bahay-TIRA-han, ang alam ko lang na nagbabayad maliban sa TUNAY na lalaki, kung di bakla, MATRONIX BYUTI.

[reese**]

yaiks. nung bf/gf palang kami ni hubby NEVER akong nagbayad or kahit chip in. food pwede but dun lang.

parang i will feel so degraded kung niyaya ako tapos ako pinagbayad. well i cant imagine myself na ako ang magyayaya kaya definitely siya dapat noh. there are other things na pwede ko siya treat or hati kami, but definitely not sa pag check in..

[angeleigh]

Hmm, kung bf/hubby okay lang siguro na split the bill. Pero I would prefer na siya ang magbayad. Hello, siya na nga naka-score, ako pa magbabayad. Swerte??

[Stella R.]

kung mag asawa, okay lang. kasi what's yours is his and vice versa.

Meron kasi akong inaya dati, hindi magcheck in, inaya ko lang lumabas. Hindi siya pumayag dahil wala siyang pera at nahihiya siya. As in, hindi [textspeak!] siya pumayag.

Nung nagkapera siya, saka niya ako inayang lumabas.

Ganun ang lalaki.

[lady_butterfly]

for me ok lang na hati na kami, nagtatanong kasi ako eh and besides parehas naman kayong naka-score

[loveme.hateme]

its still better if guy ang magbabayad ng bills for that motmot thingy
pero syempre, there are really times na dapat split talaga sa bill =)

it doesnt matter to me din
same lang naman kayong nag enjoy eh, haha!

[rarefinds]

What if ikaw nagyaya then your bf is really hesitant, not in the mood,has to work early or something, tapos sobrang napilitan lang sya, is it still fair for him to pay?

I believe in women rights and equality as well. Split the bill. If one of you offered to pay for the place then the other should take care of the food, booze, masage , spa etc.

[simply_janee]

in my case, hindi ko pa natry na magbayad for the motmot, pero ok lang din naman sakin if he suggest to pay the bill.. Yun lang hindi ba affected ego ng mga guys kung girls magbayad?!

[Paulo]

^
If the reason why the girl shouldered the bill is because the guy doesn't have enough cash to pay for the motel then maybe it can affect him ... then again, maybe it'll even make him feel good about it. I mean if we take into consideration the last few arguments that claim that guys should shoulder the bill because sila ang "naka score" or "ang sumakay", then perhaps we can twist that a bit and say that maybe a good "service" from the guy warrants the same ahm "reward".

And oh, funny but ... I think Matronix is seriously a very old term popularized by gay guys nga. Which makes it kinda Ricky Reyes Old and Gay.

[zidane]

nung mg bf palang kami ni hubby, minsan ako nag babayad lalo na pag ala siyan pera...  pero kung bago bago lang kmi mg bf tapos ako mgbabayad nek nek nya...

[mikey_mouse_219]

when my husband and i were dating, we share the bill. or sometimes cya lang nagbabayad. i haven't experienced paying for it noon. kahati lang ako but never the entire bill.

now that we're married ganun padin, depende kung sino may dala ng cash. since i handle our funds, saken galing. but it came from both our earnings naman na. cympre pera ko pera nya, pera nya pera ko rin.

i guess nowadays naman it doesnt matter. as long as lalabas kayong heaven ang feeling! hehe!

[emma04]

i don't see anything wrong with splitting the bill. with my hubby now, hati kami sa bayad nung mag-bf/gf pa lang kami. ako ang nagvolunteer na ganun ang set-up namin. wala lang, para walang sumbatan sa huli. or kung mag-iinsist sya na sya ang magbabayad, ako ang mag-oorder ng food namin.

ngayon na married na kami, ako ang nagbabayad. kasi ako ang humahawak ng pera namin pareho. binibigyan ko lang ng allowance si hubby.

[geotolentino]

Ideally, meaning if you want to do the Chivalrous thing, then you don't let the lady pay the same way that you open the doors for them, pull the chair for them, and wait for them outside of the public restroom. But all of that are things of the past. WOMEN EMPOWERMENT comes with a downside in case you failed to take that into consideration. Equality of the Sexes means that you women are just as liable to the stuff you do with the men.

So to answer your Q, I say in this day and age, men and women split the bill on everything with the men having first crack at it, should be assigned with most of the cost, but never expected to shoulder anything OUTRIGHT just because he happens to own a set of balls.

totally agree.

[geotolentino]

I find it not a big deal though. Sa mahal kasi ng gastusin ngayon, hindi kaya ng isang tao lang unlike before na super mura lang ang accomodations. In 5 years with my boyfriend, before he insist to pay for the accomodation and food plus gives me the sukli pa.. but now, since lahat ng bagay nagtataasan na and given na sweldo nalang ang di tumataas, ang usapan nalang namin ay kung sino ang nagyaya siya ang gagastos..

Pero syempre, mas madalas pa din siya mag-yaya.. hehe..

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