On Paying for MotMot

[hedonista]

Hi Guys,

What's your take on guys making the girl pay for checking in sa motmot or hotels?

If hindi naman, he will ask to split the bill.

First time I paid, I was really T.O.

What's the protocol for this?

[mariedairy]

Same question.

Iba naman kasi ito sa experience ko with my asawa. Before nung hindi pa kami mag asawa, I used to pay talaga. Laging ako - ako na lang palagi pero I never complained. Wala lang talaga siyang pera at miss lang namin isat isa. HAHAHAHAHA!!!!

Pero yung mga mape-pera kong ex before my asawa, sila nagbabayad!!!! Wala akong share!!!

Pero what if may pera ang guy, ano naman kaya ang dahilan kung bakit babae ang magbabayad? Kasi kung may pera naman yung guy, tae niya na lang kung ako pa magbabayad. Hindi na mauulit yun! Iiwanan ko siya right then and there!!!

[hedonista]

LOL

ako rin naman, no problem pag ako nagbayad lalo na pag ako nag initiate!

Kaya lang I wanna know what's the guy's point of view on this. Nagtitipid ba sila?

[menice]

^ kapag walang pera syempre no choice kayo, kayo magbabayad.

pero kung may pera naman kame. kame magbabayad.

yung nagpapalibre sa babae, kapal ng muka na yon. hehe kahit may pera sila? ibig sabihin non ginagamit lang kayo. ingat lang.

pag hati ayos lang din, for sure wala na din pera si BF.

in my experience, minsan lang ako nagpalibre sa ganyan, kase walang wala talaga akong pera kahit pamasahe pauwi. dahil.. naubos sa inuman bago mag motmot. hehe

[carmilina]

^ kapag walang pera syempre no choice kayo, kayo magbabayad.

pero kung may pera naman kame. kame magbabayad.

yung nagpapalibre sa babae, kapal ng muka na yon. hehe kahit may pera sila? ibig sabihin non ginagamit lang kayo. ingat lang.

pag hati ayos lang din, for sure wala na din pera si BF.

in my experience, minsan lang ako nagpalibre sa ganyan, kase walang wala talaga akong pera kahit pamasahe pauwi. dahil.. naubos sa inuman bago mag motmot. hehe

--ah kaya kaya pumyaga mag motmot kasi nakainom ka n ganun??hahahaha@!!

[menice]

^ haha always naman e, minsan lang ata yung rekta na don ng walang inom.

mas ok yung may spirit of liquor yung katawan nyo para mas matagal ang battle. kesa pag wala parang wala lang. hehe hindi masyadong wild. LOL!

[carmilina]

kya pla

[Paulo]

Ideally, meaning if you want to do the Chivalrous thing, then you don't let the lady pay the same way that you open the doors for them, pull the chair for them, and wait for them outside of the public restroom. But all of that are things of the past. WOMEN EMPOWERMENT comes with a downside in case you failed to take that into consideration. Equality of the Sexes means that you women are just as liable to the stuff you do with the men.

So to answer your Q, I say in this day and age, men and women split the bill on everything with the men having first crack at it, should be assigned with most of the cost, but never expected to shoulder anything OUTRIGHT just because he happens to own a set of balls.

[Frankie_G]

I agree with Paulo on this issue.

Just split the bill or kung sino nagyaya, siya yung magbayad.

[ashleyhan]

I've never paid for a motmot, ever.  I mean, I've experience paying for dinners or lunch and sometimes even taxi fares but never for Motmot. And I dont think I would ever do that.  I wont initiate it as well...lol sorry just talking based om my experience.

[iloveshoes88]

Two years with my bf, I only paid for motmot twice. First is nung wala siya COH and second is last December, was so in the mood that day, bonus nun so I told him I'll pay for the motmot and the food. 

Re the food, we buy outside (JB, KFC, McDo). He is 6 years my senior so when I was still in college ako na bibili since he will be coming from the office pa, wala pa ko pera nun kaya he would just pay me back pag pauwi na, nakakailang yun pero ganun talaga eh wala pa ko money nun. hehe. Pero minsan din naman when he has the time he buys na.

Now that I graduated and I'm working already, set up is he pays for motmot, I pay for food. Hindi napagusapn pero understood na yun.

[1choi_ko9]

NEVER ako pinagbayad ng bf ko, asawa ko na now during may bf/gf palang kami....eh that was mga 5 years hehe....ano yun, ngayon lang ba nauso na babae nagbabayad ngayon? Ang kapal naman ng face nung lalake!!! Hindi ko yun magets na babae magbabayad kahit na pa babae naginitiate.... its just soo obvious na wala balls etong si guy at puro sarap lang hanap at wawa naman etong si gurl kung sya pa pagbayadin! Girls, next time wag nyo na patulan etong guys na ganto...obviously ginagamit lang kayo para maka score ng libre!

[carmichael18]

i don't see it a big deal if the girl pays for the motmot.. especially kung bf or asawa mo man siya.. kung nag-share kayo sa ibang bagay why not sa motmot na pareho naman kayong mag-eenjoy? hehe.. pera na lang kung ONS tapos ako pa magbabayad ng motmot, tae niya.. manigas siya, iiwan ko siya dun, maghugas isya ng pinggan o maglaba ng kumot sa motmot, pero hindi ko babayaran yun... hehe...

kami kasi ng bf ko nung nagsimula kami magmotmot, kakalipat lang niya ng work.. so wala pang sweldo.. may pera siya pero siyempre he's saving it for his daily expenses, kaya hindi rin kadalasan mag motmot nun... pero pag- ako nagbabayad, he makes up for it, like he picks me up from work instead of meet up na lang.. or buy niya ako ng scramble or donuts... hehe ang babaw no... hindi lang kasi talaga big deal sa kin ang sharing expenses.. kahit na ngayong ikakasal kami.. hindi kami hihingi sa mga parents namin, kaya mag share din kami ng expenses for our wedding.. hindi ko siya inoobliga na dapat mas malaki yung share niya dahil lalaki siya.. kung ano lang ang makakaya namin yun ang pagkakasyahin...

[teAsingDov3]

Personally, it's a big TURN OFF for me if ako pinagbayad ng motmot ng guy or pinagshare... coz in the first place, di ako ang nag iinitiate, mas pref ko kase to wait pag di na nya ako matiis and invite me.. kapal na nun if ako pinagbayad.. unless i offer to pay or split the bill.. it has to come from me, not yung sasabihin nyang kaw muna pay.. susme! my libido will have a nosedive pag ganun... nababadingan na ako sa guy if that happens.. that's just for me tho..

[IronLady]

dapat pala ako magbayad kasi ako lang naman ang nagaaya? haha!

hmm.. sa pagkakaalALa ko lage kami hati, i mean ako food sya yun o kung hindi naman sa date namin dinner at movie sa kanya tapos motmot ako.. hehe! i insist din kasi on paying kasi ako nga nagaaya..

[choco_pie]

we always slpit the bills pero most of the time siya ang ng babayad basta treat ko siya ng lunch, snack or diner once lang ako ang ng bayad kasi short siya sa pera

[mixeeplikstick]

In my experience I'm the one who always pay when ever we check-in in a hotel and never pa kasi kame naka try sa motel. Most of the time I'm the one who pays for the food too. This is because my GF is still studying and it's rational naman na I'm the guy and I'm employed so dapat ako ang magbayad. But sometimes hati rin kame sa payment ng food but [textspeak!] pagcheck.in ako talaga ang ngbabayad.

For me kakahiya kase na lalaki pa ang magpalibre pa sa hotel/motel expenses sa babae. Kahit na ako or si GF pa ang mag.initiate.

[bravo86]

hanubayaaaaaaaan!

ikaw na nga ang sinakyan, ikaw pa magbabayad ng pamasahe?

sorry for the term... bakit, may tumaas ba ang kilay dito?
sinong may sabi na masyadong 'bulgar' ang term ko?

fotext! matagal na akong parokyano ng bahay-TIRA-han, ang alam ko lang na nagbabayad maliban sa TUNAY na lalaki, kung di bakla, MATRONIX BYUTI.

[J2]

^what you are saying is true back in the late 80s and the early 90s.  matronix was a funny word during those days but we're in 2011 living outside of a cave. women and men now share responsibilities . judging their capabilities by their practices in activities like taking the tab.

i subscribe that its not an ideal practice nakakahiya & rude but to those who want to pay matronix was a good term back in the 80s which today only parlor guys use

[bravo86]

^so ano na ang new term ngayon bro? di pa ko nakakapasok ng motmot nung 80s eh. luma na rin ata ang MAMA at PAPA eh (virgin pa ko nun ginagamit na ang term na yan)... you may have a better, more funnier term for it... yung pang conyo ang dating, pang jologs yung MATRONIX eh.

Hi Guys,

What's your take on guys making the girl pay for checking in sa motmot or hotels?
If hindi naman, he will ask to split the bill.
First time I paid, I was really T.O.
What's the protocol for this?

it seems regular guests kayo ng bahay-tirahan sis, ayt? pero nung first time na nagbayad ka na-TO ka, ibig sabihin nun, di talaga appropriate ang ganun. DI TAMA!

pano yon? ikaw nagbayad sa counter?
umabot ng pera sa roomboy?
nagyaya pero sinabing wala syang pera?
nasa lobby kayo, ikaw dumukot ng pera at inabot sa kanya?
after the deed, sinabi na lang sa yo na wala syang pera?

di nalalayo sa pagbili ng condom yan eh.
have you encountered girls/women buying condoms in convenient/drug stores? kung meron man, malamang patago pa.

kahit 2011 na, malayo na sa 80s and 90s, mas dumami na ang mga bahay-TIRAhan pati sa probinsya... ewan ko if you sisters keep in your wallets discount cards ng mga motmots.
kung meron man, tinatago nyo ng husto di ba?
napaka-unlady-like kasi makitaan ng discount card ang babae eh.