NO CONTACT RULE AFTER BREAK UP (THREAD 2)

[im fine!]

Sobrang hirap ng rule na to. Change number na lang.. deactivate fb tapos mag hibernate forever ☺

[junetwentythree]

With the advent of cell phones, my ex's phone number was just recorded on there so I never knew it by heart. So a few days after he broke up with me, he called my best friend -- we had a trip planned and he wanted her to tell me all the details since he wasn't going anymore. I was with her at the time and that was when I decided, before I do anything stupid, I better delete his number from my phone. So just like that, I did. Went to my contacts, exhaled, and hit DELETE. Did the same for Facebook.

Haven't looked back since. (3+ years ago now)

[swim_fatale]

nagagawa ko naman tong no-contact-rule, kahit memorize ko pa yung number niya, di na ako natetemp na itxt pa siya or tawagan. Ang kinakatakot ko lang, pag siya yung naunang magparamdam, baka di ko mapigilan yun sarili ko na mag-reply. Pero naisip ko din na malabo naman na ikontak pa niya ko since siya yung nakipag-break eh.

I'm in the exact same situation sis. Siya nakipag break and sya nag-block sa akin sa FB. He was the once who said na wag na kami mag communicate para di na namin masaktan ang isa't isa. Nag apela pa ako once, pero when he replied na i-respect ko na lang decision nya, napahiya ako and hindi na ako nag reply. That was 25 days ago. Never ako na-tempt i-contact siya pero nung first week araw araw talaga akong umiiyak. Ngayon masakit pa rin pero mas functional na ako. May mga days na bigla akong umaasa na balikan nya ako, pero pinapatay ko agad yung pag asa kasi malabo naman na yun at ako lang ang msasaktan kaka-asa. KAYA NATIN 'TO!

PS: Hindi ito jowa, best friend na guy/gay. It was a very complicated friendship.

[TomHansen]

^ Good for you glowing00, my gf broke up with me 3 days ago and sobra sakit ngayon im not sure hanggang kailan ito.. This may sound weird pero takot din ako na mawala yung sakit na nararamdaman ko because that would only mean hindi ko na siya mahal.. The idea of bumping into her with a new guy baka ikamatay ko or kahit mabalitaan ko lang na meron na siyang iba..

Well guess what it only took you 4 months to get over this girl, kahit ako hindi ko ma-imagine possible pero nagawa mo - congrats!. Ang dami mo pang drama dati makakamove on ka rin pala agad hahaha. Now wala ka nang paki kung nasan si ex or kung ano ang ginagawa niya hahaha..

Enjoy life and start rebuilding yourself para kapag dumating na si the one mo you're ready..

Good luck!


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[mysterioza_me]

^Good for you! So magiging Merry na na ang Christmas mo

[junetwentythree]

Well guess what it only took you 4 months to get over this girl, kahit ako hindi ko ma-imagine possible pero nagawa mo - congrats!. Ang dami mo pang drama dati makakamove on ka rin pala agad hahaha. Now wala ka nang paki kung nasan si ex or kung ano ang ginagawa niya hahaha..

Enjoy life and start rebuilding yourself para kapag dumating na si the one mo you're ready..

Good luck!


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Proud of you, bro!

[iam_me]

ok talaga pag no contact after ng break up mas madaling makalimot