INTROVERTS - You're in!

[kenjiekenj]

Introverts, do you have this scenario na kapag na disappoint ka or nagkatampuhan kayo ng isang tao parang ang hirap mo ng ibalik yung dating treatment mo towards the person, parang at the back of your mind iniisip mo parin yung nangyaring misunderstanding kaya parang naiilang ka na to approach normally the way you did before?

[Razzy]

Hi mga sisses. I am an introvert too. Good thing I learned to become a good actress, hehe. That is how I coped. Libro at tsokolate lang masaya na ako

[jtansanco]

^^ Depends on what was the cause of it. But if it's something na, I relied on you but you weren't able to do your part, then yes. If it's "relying" on someone and they failed, I'd rather do it on my own. But if it's just a misunderstanding, since we're guys, I think we can just forgive and forget faster than women do.

[angelzero]

Now that you brought this up, I'm just wondering... For the ladies out there, is your bf/husband an extrovert? Are there any ladies who's in a relationship with an introvert? Parang lahat kasi nagpost extrovert yung guy partner e...

i think mas bagay ako sa extrovert. kasi i had an introvert ex. hindi nag grow yung relationship namin kasi nagpapakiramdaman kami lagi. kahit yung usual na pinag uusapan ng bf-gf hindi namin napag uusapan like yung emotions namin, future namin, going out of town/vacationing na kaming dalawa lang, or just the general topic of sex. hindi naman sa nilalahat ko pero generally dapat mas may aggressive sa relationship, and usually extroverts yun, para ma-push nyo yung isa't isa mag grow. with my bf right now na extrovert, mas naeexpress ko na yung sarili ko whether i have to say something positive or negative kasi natuto ako sa kanya.

[vainwriter]

^^^with me it depends on the level of relationship with the person. for immediate relation like hubby, parents, siblings im easy to forgive and forget. pag close friends, forgive but not forget. pag di ko masyado kaclose i cant forget talaga. i nurse grudges and sometimes feeling ko ang sama ko na kasi i sometimes have the tendency na gumanti or mangdeadma talaga pag may nagawa sakin yung di ko naman kaclose. parang feeling ko i choose the people i trust tapos i trusted you and you failed me? you're out!

[gil12]

how do introverts express themselves when they are mad?

ako kasi I'm softspoken, I rarely get mad but when I do I usually breakdown and cry. weird ba? my ob asked me before I gave birth, nagagalit daw ba ako??? feeling niya siguro I can't deal with labor pain pero I'm the type kasi na titiisin ko hangga't kaya ko and when I was in labor sabi nga sakin ni doc na mataas pain tolerance ko.. meron pa kong mild pre-eclampsia when I was pregnant, my BP was normally 140/90, takang taka talaga ob ko bat daw taas ng BP ko pero sobrang kalma ko raw tignan. hayy.. minsan naiisip ko tuloy kaya siguro antaas ng BP ko kasi I keep it all in, yun galit, stress imbis na ilabas ko.. ako rin I find it hard to forget, kung may naging alitan man kami ng kahit sinong close sakin I tend to bring it back.. hayy.. buti nga my baby boy is very active, buti at hindi nagmana sakin..

[jtansanco]

^ Before, when I get mad, I go berserk. Smashed a glass once and got stitches on my knuckles in the process. After that incident, whenever I get mad, I just look at my scar and just tell myself it's not worth it. "Don't do things which you'll regret just because you're mad at the time being"


Went to the club last night and I can finally say I've graduated from it. Not having fun anymore in that scene. Nalagpasan ko na rin ang party stage of my life. Great, going to be ang boring lifestyle from now on..

[gil12]

^ ako rin, kapag nagagalit ako nagiging physical din. tulad kanina nahulog ako sa chair sinapak ko yun printer kasi yun pinakamalapit.. buti hindi naman ako nasaktan and hindi naman nasira printer.. dati rin kasi asar na asar ako sa electric fan aba binugbog ko, nasira yun fan pero nagka-pasa naman ako
baka naman hindi mo na gusto yun crowd sa club?

[jtansanco]

^ Nako, for sure, ikaw commander sa bahay. Battered husband.... Hahaha joke.

Parang hindi na masaya e. I don't know. Can't seem to mingle in the clubs. Can't explain. Mas prefer ko na yung chill or dinner-type kaysa sa party scene. Or maybe, it's called "getting old". Hahaha

[vainwriter]

re getting mad, i keep silent. di ko papansinin yung tao, or iiwasan ko. pag si hubby, sa ngayon ive learned na to just tell him the magic phrase *can we talk* kasi di yata talaga nagwowork sa guys ang patahimik effect you really need to tell them whats wrong and what yoi need from them.

at worst, i post passive aggressive quotes or photos sa facebook. just to let it out.

[jtansanco]

Hmmmm... It seems for the introvert girls, extrovert guys work for them.. Kawawa naman kaming guys..

Paging introvert guys, do you like intro/extro girls? Share your experience!

[clouds_1028]

Hmmmm... It seems for the introvert girls, extrovert guys work for them.. Kawawa naman kaming guys..

Paging introvert guys, do you like intro/extro girls? Share your experience!

Ako mas gusto ko yung introvert guy kasi yung personality ko makulit and madaldal/makwento pero yung mga activities na gusto ko yung mga chill lang like watching movies, pasyal pasyal anywhere, etc., basta yung kami lang dalawa nung guy ko yung nagbobonding.

[angelzero]

re getting mad, i keep silent. di ko papansinin yung tao, or iiwasan ko. pag si hubby, sa ngayon ive learned na to just tell him the magic phrase *can we talk* kasi di yata talaga nagwowork sa guys ang patahimik effect you really need to tell them whats wrong and what yoi need from them.

at worst, i post passive aggressive quotes or photos sa facebook. just to let it out.

I can relate! Pag galit ako sa bf ko tumatahimik lang ako which he hates! Feeling kasi nya i'm walking away from the problem at iniipon ko daw lahat at baka sumabog na lang daw ako one day. Mas gusto nya pag uusapan agad yung problem. Pero ako di ko kaya kasi gusto ko malamig na yung ulo ko bago pag usapan yung problem. We'll end up fighting about bigger things kasi.

[vainwriter]

^ganyan kami when we were gf-bf pa lang. ako din nahihirapan kasi sabi nga ng mga books hindi naman manghuhula ang guys so nung naging hubby ko na natuto na ko to communicate my thoughts. pero sa kanya lang. sa ibang tao deadma lang ako para maramdaman nilang hate ko sila lol

relate din ako sis about escalating the fight to bigger things. ganyan nga pag naiipon...sasabog ng isang malakas. kaya masama galitin ang introvs imo kasi tahimik lang tayo but alot goes on in our minds.

[px17]

Pag galit ako tahimik lang talaga. Tas pag lagpas lagpas na galit o gigil ko sinisipa ko yung malapit sakin or susuntukin ko. hahaha! Ang mga na aalala ko na "madalas" ko ginagawa pupunitin ko papel, pang gigigilan ko yung ballpen, susuntukin ko yung unan, sispain ko yung sapatos. Tapos iiyak na. Pag saktong galit lang nagalalabas ako ng galit through writing sa diary tas pag tamad mag sulat sa private blog ko.

Extrovert yung bf ko pero kabisado niya na ko. Alam na alam niya paano ako ihahandle (parang baliw lang e noh) ewan ko kung anong magic ginagawa niya..after ko mag break down na aayos niya mood ko e. 

[angelzero]

ok kaya basahin ito?

http://www.nationalbookstore.com.ph/quiet-the-power-of-introverts-in-a-world-that-can-t-stop-talking.html

na-curious ako.

[jtansanco]

^ Not sure but, before you try and buy it, try to search online if you can download for free.

[kenjiekenj]

^I was about to buy it. But searched online and found a free pdf version

[kiaramae_0403]

Introverts, do you have this scenario na kapag na disappoint ka or nagkatampuhan kayo ng isang tao parang ang hirap mo ng ibalik yung dating treatment mo towards the person, parang at the back of your mind iniisip mo parin yung nangyaring misunderstanding kaya parang naiilang ka na to approach normally the way you did before?

nakakarelate ako dito... pag meron ako hindi nagustuhan sa ginawa or sinabi ng isang tao nakatatak na sa utak ko yun. tas parang ang hirap ibalik nung dating treatment dun sa tao. actually meron akong experience sa isang officemate until now kahit tingin hindi ko sya tinitignan. iniiwasan ko rin sya makasabay sa elevator or kahit sa cr...as in deadma ko siya.. parang hindi sya nag eexist.. feeling ko nga sobrang lalim na ng galit ko sa kanya.. one time nagprapray ako iniisip ko kung ano ba talaga problem sa akin kung bakit ganto ako.. pero nung nabasa ko itong thread hindi pala ako nag-iisa.. meaning normal parin ako. 


sobrang bihira ako magalit.. pag galit ako naiiyak ako sa galit yung tipong gusto mong gumanti at dahil hindi ko naman kayang gawin physical kaya naiiyak na lang ako... ang madala tahimik lang ako pag galit.

[kenjiekenj]

^ we're very same. As if ayaw mo ng plastikin [textspeak!] tao kaya you're just treating the person na parang hindi siya nageexist. I too, was thinking kung ano bang mali sa akin at bakit ganito ako parang iba sa kanila (extroverts).