not married sis, nag iipon pa pang annulment.
I've known him for 4 years, when we decided to be together, as in together agad with his kids, instant mommy ako.
the difference between my two step sons, when you ask the younger boy what's the name of his mom, he'll say my name, ask him again the name of his real mom he'll say for him I'm his real mom, kulitin mo pa sya he'll say, he doesn't care about his real mom.
But the the older son when you ask him ofcourse he'll say his real mom's name.
We used to be ok, but unfortunately nakikialam ang mga sisters ni hubby.
They don't like me. they used to take care of the kids so they get the kids allowance that they don't spend for the kids. When I came into the picture of course and the kids stayed with me. the money stops. And all there kalokohan was unraveled when we found out that the tuition fees were unpaid, that the kids doesn't get their lunch money, etc... Hubby wanted to turn his back on his family but i told him, kadugo sila, ang asawa napapalitan pero kapatid mo hindi. So after awhile nagpupunta na ulit yung kids dun sa bahay ng tita nila to play with their cousins, yung older son ang mahilig pumunta dun kasi he was allowed to play computers as long as he wants.. yun pala, as per my younger step son's sumbong, the tita we're brainwashing them. So my younger step son doesn't want to go to his tita's house anymore.
starting noon, wala na talagang sinusunod s step son, eh wala naamn akong pinagbabawal na hindi naman para sa ikabubuti nya.
About sumbong sa tatay naman, mahirap mag sumbong pag nasa barko sis kasi pangit na nag woworry sya habang nandun. last year, hindi na talaga ako nagsumbong kasi naawa awa ako kay hubby kasi sya ang maiipit. iniisip ko lang na kahit wala ng respect yung older step son, hayaan ko na lang importante ok kami ni hubby.
Yun lang nitong huling vacation nya sya na mismo ang nakakita sa ugali nung son nya, hindi ko na kailangan isumbong.
To the point na sabi nya idedeport daw sya kung hindi titino.
Ayoko naman yata nun kasi wala na nga syang mommy mawawalan pa sya ng daddy.
pero nga dahil walang respect sakin yung older so kahit anong sabihin ko wala rin namang mangyayari
sabi ko kay hubby, he should find a way na masuheto nya yung bata, dahil hindi kami darating sa point na papipiliin ko sya between me or his son. Pag hindi ko na matake, ako at yung baby namin ang aalis.
medyo mahina rin kasi yung older son eh, laging pasang awa sa school, maybe he doesn't remeber how they were treated when they were living with his tita, pero that younger son who is an honor student, hindi nya nakalimutan how badly they were treated that the thought of him moving back to his tita scares him..
Hindi naman mahirap magmahal ng bata mga sis, medyo nasa phase lang siguro tong older step son ko.
sometimes na isip ko, kung wag ko na lang kaya sya pansinin, wag ko na lang pakialaman, just let him be, as in bibitawan ko na lahat ng responsibility sa kanya. pwede kaya yun.
