How long were you together before you started talking about marriage?

[Serena.]

1 year.

[christina39]

@gt76: kamusta na kayo ng bf mo? same sakin gusto ko lang ng anak pero ang bf ko gusto kami magpakasal ayaw ko naman maging part ng family nya kasi meron syang anak sa una pero hindi sila kasal baka isipin ng family niya iba at una sa lahat ibang lahi pa siya.

[cookielmo]

Christina39 - Do you really love your boyfriend or anak lang talaga gusto mo? Dahil para sakin, you are so lucky that a guy wants to marry you. Ang dami daming babae na naghahangad ng lalaki na pakasalan sila. Hindi mo ba tanggap na may anak na siya sa una? Dahil hindi mo dapat iniisip kung ano sasabihin ng family niya. Kung natanggap mo anak ng boyfriend mo, malaking factor sa family niya yun. Mas mamahalin ka nila dahil hindi biro sa babae na tumanggap na lang ng anak ng ibang babae as her own. Pagisipan mo. You just have to accept and I assure you, you will be the happiest. Pero kung hindi talaga kaya, might as well let go and find your true happiness. Isipin mo din paano mo sasagutin sa anak mo yung mga tanong na nasan ang daddy nila at bakit kayo hindi kasal... lalo na kung ipapasok mo ang anak mo sa Catholic school (if you are a Catholic). Dahil dati ang thinking ko, I don't mind kung mabuntis ako at hindi pananagutan ng ama, kaya kong buhayin anak ko. Pero napahinto ako thinking of those questions my child might ask me. Macocompare niiya yun sa mga friends or classmates niya sigurado. How will I respond? kakayanin ko ba? Then again, mas masaya if 2 kayo bubuhay sa anak niyo. I found mine. Accepted him for who he is and his daughter. We got married and expecting a baby. Again, find your true happiness.



About the topic..

In a month. Cliche as it may sound pero totoo na mfifeel mo na he/she is the one. A year after he asked me again to marry him. I said yes pero hindi kami pwede pa magpakasal dahil nasa graduate school pa ako. He promised my mom na pagkatapos ko na lang. After 3 years of a roller coaster ride, we got married and very much happy.

[jeninajenina]

My partner doesn't believe in marriage sabi nya sakin pero he's into having kids.  (I am honestly not okay with that, sinabi ko naman sa kanya)

Well we're dating for two months already, wala naman concrete conversations about marriage, random conversations arise like pag may kasalanan anak natin sino pupunta ikaw ba or ako. And since moreno siya, sabi ko ayaw ko magmana sa kanya, stuff like that.

I know little things pero keeps me happy.  Yung the one feeling, i have no idea how to gauge that one yet, madami na kong palpak na the one. haha
Let's just say this guy i'm dating right now is just mr. right now, definitely unreliable.

[det060403]

2 years

[Ms. Right]

3 months. Medyo mabilis sya pero considering yung age namin (he's 30 while im turning 27 this summer), okay naman na. Before my present SO, i had a 5-year relationship. He, on the other hand, college pa yung last gf and after nun puro mu or flings lang. Swerte lang kasi we met sa time na okay na kami magsettle down. 

[TysLolakins]

We started dating in our mid teens so 7 years later when we decided to get married. That's including 3 years of LDR (us/phil).

[three8one]

4 years kami ng wife ko...

[donzski_doinks]

A week after ko sya sagutin, he already asked me to marry him.

[djctapalla23]

We became a couple on Jan. 15, 2014 even though online lang kami nag-uusap as he was based in Saudi & I'm in Manila. Napasagot ako and nagsabi ng I love you too sa kanya but I never regretted my decision. Pinayagan siya magbakasyon ng employer nya & so we met personally on May 28, 2014. It was on our last out of town trip together on July 7-10, 2014 we were at Puerto Galera & nag-usap kami about marriage. Nagustuhan ko yung feeling na di kami nagmamadali & that it was easy for us to talk about the subject. Kahit ako in the past ay nanginginig at kinikilabutan sa idea na ikakasal na ako pero when it was the two of us talking about it, sobrang okay for me. Walang nginig factor then I knew from that moment on na siya na talaga.

[manhattanite]

2 months pa lang kami when he said na ako na ang gusto nya pakasalan. At the time tumawa lang ako kasi naman, pano nya masasabi yun eh bago pa lang kami? Plus, I was never the type to dream about weddings and stuff like that. Parang naaasiwa ako pag pinag-uusapan ang kasal and settling down dati LOL. Nung 3 years na kami, saka ko pa lang in-entertain yung thought and we started talking about it.

[simang]

More or less one year yata when we started talking about marriage. Pero always casual conversations lang. Then a few months after ang proposal.

[j.adore]

2 months but it was more of "when I get married" talk. After 2 years, saka naging "we". He's my husband now

[Miss Taken]

We started talking about getting married and our future plans just recently and we've been dating for 1 year and 4 months now. Since sabay naming narealize na we have to step up our game when it comes to saving money for our future.

[mebpa]

9 years