Author Topic: How long were you together before you started talking about marriage? (Read 21467 times)

Prunella · « **Reply #40 on:** June 28, 2011, 09:52:16 am »

About 3 years.

binggay · « **Reply #41 on:** June 28, 2011, 10:14:06 am »

Right after I agreed to be his girlfriend. Really. I was 19 and he was turning 24. The next day after naging kami, he went, "So kelan tayo magpapakasal?" Kala mo patawa lang pero sabi niya sakin part-serious daw siya kasi he didn't want to get married late kasi gusto niya daw ma-enjoy ang magiging mga anak namin.

We then settled on three years from that date...... and ending -- we got married 1.5 years lang after kasi na-preggers ako, hahaha.

Two weeks ago we just celebrated our 9th wedding anniversary. =)

Kady_14 · « **Reply #42 on:** June 28, 2011, 11:14:47 am »

^ nice story sis,

Parang sa amin din, we also talked about getting married early, kasi mahilig kami pareho sa mga babies. Yun nga lang sobrang early kasi 20 pa lang kami nuon.

School age na kids namin ngayon and totoong masaya na bata mag-anak. ka-jive namin sila kasi siguro bata (isip bata) pa din naman kami.

IMHO if the guy has serious intentions and he sees you in his future life, i-oopen up nya talaga ang topic about marriage, or his future plans kahit new pa lang ang relationship.

bellapot · « **Reply #43 on:** June 28, 2011, 11:17:50 am »

We were together for 5 years before we started talking about getting married.

17arci · « **Reply #44 on:** June 28, 2011, 11:19:57 am »

1 month? I dont really remember. T_T

Periwinkle25 · « **Reply #45 on:** July 01, 2011, 06:03:18 am »

yung first year nmin was not that serious..we even broke up for me to focus for my board exam..after we patched things between us and we got to know each others family(abut 1 1/2 yr), ayun nagdecide kmi mgpkasal..but i had to go abroad kaya nakahang lang yung plans..but in God's will, uwi ako on october for our simple yet most awaited wedding..by the way 5 1/2 yrs na kami..3 yrs LDR but i go home yearly..it was hard but worth the wait=)

len_choi · « **Reply #46 on:** July 05, 2011, 09:50:10 pm »

in my case with my fiancee now, wala pang 1st yr namin as bf & gf napag uusapan na namin.
then last may, namanhikan na sila dito ( 1 yr & 7 months kami)

FayeP · « **Reply #47 on:** July 20, 2011, 03:15:16 pm »

HI Sisses,

My husband proposed about two months after meeting him. kasi friends lang kami nun una, mga two months pa bago naging kami, tapos ala pa kami one week mag BF, nagyaya na magpakasal. so syempre ayoko pa, 25 pa lang kasi ako noon, back in 2008 at ala pa sa isip ko.

eh makulit cya, so after 3 months of meeting him ( at ala pa halos kami two months mag BF), we got married na...civil nga lang, kasi di gusto nun church na sinisimbahan namin lagi, eh 3 months before the wedding date, nakapagpass na kami requirements, eh maiiba un date ng kasal namin kaya civil na [textspeak!].

we've been together since and we are now expecting our first baby...a baby boy!!! i'm 7 months pregnant

=)

marbleslice · « **Reply #48 on:** July 24, 2011, 05:38:16 am »

i can't even remember the exact time we have first talked about marriage because we've been together for several years na.

share ko lang..naalala ko lang dati,first attempt ko na i-bring up sa kanya ang settling down; hala napressure ang lolo, parang wrong timing ako.

then lately, we have several friends who tied the knot at napapahapyaw na pag usapan yun, parang ang dating niya most of the time e nagjo-joke. pag sinasabi ko gusto ko tumira sa ganito or gusto ko ganito sa magiging bahay ko, sinasabi na lang niya "madali na yan" it's my way of fishing for details or para makita reaction niya pero ewan.haha

i just hope he has plans of marrying me. kaya din naman kami nandito di ba? probably he's not yet on the marrying stage, ako gusto ko na magplano ng real plans (not just yung "drawing" hehe) sabi nga nila, patience is a virtue. sana lang di ugatin itong patience ko

blaire.witch · « **Reply #49 on:** July 27, 2011, 03:35:33 am »

tanong ko lang, ok lang kaya tayo ang mag-open up sa topic? meron kasing ibang guys na nape-pressure pag inumpasahan na natin ang topic. like yung ex ko, pakiramdam ko talaga nun, he was pressured kasi my friends and our family kept asking him when we'll get married. siguro sa dami ng nagtatanong. but hindi kami nagkatuluyan kasi we had issues between us na hindi namin na-resolve. well past na yun. with present bf naman, everytime i open up the topic, biglang mag-iiba ang expression niya ba para bang napakalaking problema ang marriage. sasabihin lang niya, "baby, it's not in our hands... in God's time" Almost a year na kami, at wala pang signs na gusto na niya magpakasal. on my part, hindi rin naman ako handa para dun, pero at least eh sana may mga senyales ba..

venusglee · « **Reply #50 on:** July 29, 2011, 11:09:11 am »

nung una textmate lang kami. after a week sa pagiging [textspeak!] sinabihan niya ako na " pakasalan mo na ako" kapal talaga ng guy pero ngaun we ended up on marriage.. hehe...

mooncake and leaves · « **Reply #51 on:** August 02, 2011, 01:26:39 am »

The day we became a couple. Hehe. But I think it was driven by the high of getting together and it's easy to talk about marriage when it's too far off into the future. We've had discussions about it after that but no concrete plans pa.

Pink_Sugar · « **Reply #52 on:** September 16, 2011, 08:05:47 pm »

parang mas nagiging sensitive na ako ngayon pag ganito ang topic ngayong malapit na ako mag 30. I dont know kung kelan mangyayari yun at kung mangyayari pa. 9 years na kaming bf-gf.

pretty_in_victorian · « **Reply #53 on:** September 18, 2011, 11:38:35 pm »

we're 8 years in and di ko na maalala kung kelan namin inang napag usapan yan. pero definitely napagusapan narin.

DaintyMe · « **Reply #54 on:** September 19, 2011, 08:44:36 pm »

Less than a month. Atat sya magpakasal noon, balak kasi nyang magwork abroad, di naman natuloy. 4 years bago kami nagpakasal.

felicityinlove · « **Reply #55 on:** September 23, 2011, 09:57:51 am »

We started talking about marriage like a month after we went steady. We had thoughts on how it would be like if we lived together as husband and wife and I guess we both loved the idea of spending our lives together. We got engaged in 6 months and will be getting married early next year.

ChefKrissie · « **Reply #56 on:** October 04, 2011, 03:30:25 pm »

just want to share mine =)

We are not "officially" together like boyfriend girlfriend yet but we already know we loved each other kasi sinasabi namin sa isa't isa =)....anyway we already talked about marriage on our 3rd date ( so mga 2 weeks pa lang kami mag kakilala). It all started, when i told him na I'm already in settling stage, if siya ndi pa, then wag na namin sayangin ang oras ng isa't isa. then un na tuloy tuloy na. lol =)

isobel · « **Reply #57 on:** October 06, 2011, 07:53:04 pm »

a day

we're not married yet, though! gosh, no! haha! siguro next year pa or the year after that

simplecathy143 · « **Reply #58 on:** October 07, 2011, 08:38:13 am »

haha, di ko na din matandaa eh.. on off kasi kame before..

pero ngaun better at stronger na yung relationship namen madalas na niyang
inoopen yung tungkol jan.. gusto na nga niyang mag ipon kame para sa bahay namen eh.. haha

tas minsan pag nagseselos ako bigla nalan sya hihirit ng
"PAKASAL NA KASI TAYO PARA LAGI NA KITA KASAMA"

mstina · « **Reply #59 on:** October 07, 2011, 10:05:00 pm »

my soon to be ex-husband wanted to marry me after 6 months of dating. we got married after only a year of being bf/gf coz we were soooo in love! after 7 years together, naghanap siya ng iba and he chose the girl over me. ang sad noh??

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