How long were you together before you started talking about marriage?

[caterpillar-girl]

^Sorry to hear that, Ashleyhan. I hope things work out well.

I guess iba iba. Some would talk about it right at the start, while some would take years. My married girl friend said, even if you just talk like "Pag ako kinasal, ayoko tumira kasama ng ibang tao..." or like "Pag ako kinasal, gusto ko ganito yung kasal ko...." that's already a signal na you ARE thinking about and kumbaga you're JUST "feeling" the reaction from the other person. You're "testing" the waters and trying to see whether you're on the same page about your preferences in life. So that's a start. Eh pero kami, wala pa kami sa ganun. Haha.  Kahit yun lang. Although we do talk about other couples. Haha! Especially strangers.
 

[aiden]

first week of relationship? technically we were friends before so we talked about marriage na dati but I didn't know I would be marrying him.lol

[empress]

with my ex, i think less than a year then almost 5 years of being together and still no marriage. there were high hopes at the beginning but later on, the convenience of living together swallowed us whole til we separated. good thing we didn't get married or else, my status is either separated or divorced which is harder to deal with going thru the whole process

[caterpillar-girl]

Hay girls, he made ANOTHER joke. Or half joke. Just today! And itong post talaga na ito ang naalala ko bigla. So we attended this wedding last night, and then today he said, pag tayo kinasal, gusto ko may mumbaki. I was like, ano yun!? Yung Igorot priest, parang sa kasal nila Robin and Mariel. My bf kasi has Ilokano blood.

Ewan ko kung nagloloko na naman or what. First dance daw namin yung sumasayaw kami tas sya nakabahag lang habang may manok na pinuputulan ng ulo. Can you imagine, sa hotel daw yung reception tapos dun kami sa gitna. Hay. Nakakaloka ang bf ko.

[StephanieOMG]

Before starting about marriage we were together like ....
hmm .. 2 years maybe? Because I want to see what a boy's behaviour is and how he acts in different situations

[zazytka]

after one year. dati, he would always be scared kapag napupunta sa future ang usapan. pero recently napapadalas yung hirit nya like..."kapag kinasal tayo..." or "gusto ko yung anak natin..." yung last na semi-serious usapan, sigurado daw sya na ako papakasalan nya. problema lang nya e hindi pa nya ako kayang buhayin. let's see what will happen in the future, baka 50years old na ako wala pa rin syang pera pampakasal.

ang hirap sa girl, lagi tayo on the receiving end specially sa ganitong usapin. ang hirap mag drop ng hints or mag fish sa guys.

[chocobaby]

hay ako din. oo n lang hinihintay ko Di ko na tuloy alam iisipin ko. Lagi siyang nagsasabi na, pag kinasal tayo dito titira; pag nasa mall, sasabihin nya eto gusto kong couch natin; asawa na tawag niya sa akin, etc. E napakaimpatient ko pa naman and now that we're near the 3rd year mark, pag tinatanong ko kung kailan nya talaga gusto, laging 'malapit na'. Hay naloloka na ako kakaisip kung kelan talaga!

[caterpillar-girl]

^^Haha I know right???  Ayoko mag drop ng hints. Di talaga ako nagmamadali. Kahit 3 years down the line, it doesn't matter. That would be ideal for me, in fact.  It would just be NICE to know kung may pinatutunguhan ba to or wala. Naiinis nga ako na puro joke tong boypren ko. Talaga, palibhasa comedy sya eh. Pag usapang wedding na, puro kalokohan! Di ko tuloy alam if it's just his way of saying na he doesn't see anything in the future, kaya dinadaan sa joke, or he's half joking, half serious. Ewan. Bwisit. Hehe.

[gt76]

Nalala ko tuloy yung ex-bf ko, napressure daw sya sa akin kase akala nya gusto ko na magpasakal.

Yung bf ko ngayon after 2yrs. of our relationship sya yung laging oopen-up about sa kasal at kung san maghahoney-moon. Ako nakikitawa lang  kase ako naman anak ang sinasabi ko dahil gusto ko sya ang ama ng magiging baby ko. 

[LycheeMartini]

We started talking about it on our 3rd year of being together and we seriously talking about it kasama na din ang planning on the 5th year. 

[chang0505]

3 years na kame and lately we talked about it, we planned it maybe 2016 pa, were not yet ready but we had plans for it, hehe

[purplesassy]

Nung bago pa lang kami we talked a out it na although parang mushy talks lang pero a after 1 year nagpropose na siya then we got engaged for 1  1/2 year and now married Ü 7 years na rin naman na kase kami magkaibigan eh kaya what's the point na patagalin pa Ü

[Mizz.Cee]

4 or 5 months ata kami nagmemention na sya about this.. Til now palagi pa ring napag uusapan and about anak tas pag sinasabi ko naman na "Di ka pa nga nagpopropose nagpaplano ka na" then he'd just say "Maghintay ka lang malapit na!" Lol 3x na ata nya nasabi yan..
I can wait naman, di pa rin naman ako ready magpakasal.. Mag 2 years na pala kami this June 

[17arci]

Simula pa lang pinag-uusapan na. Hehe.

[a_y_e_n]

kahit nung bago pa kame we talk about marriage and wedding na pero light lang, casual talk.  we started taliking about it seriosly nung 3 years na kame. tapos dun na nagstart yung wedding preps namin na inabot ng 1 1/2 years. more than a year na kame married and expecting our first baby in 2 months.

[LVoeDane]

My boyfriend courted me for 2 months, and nung naging kami na, he started talking about marriage and stuff. And I'm like "whooaaaa, SLOW DOWN!" haha! 
I was 20 when I first got married and I don't want to make the same mistake again. Medyo natrauma ako sa kasal eh.
But yeah, he and his family wants us to get married as soon as ma-annul ako, but I told them that I am not ready yet.

[shopaholic18]

to be honest, we aren't a couple yet but we talk about marriage a lot, basically he's stable and wanted to get married in the next 2-3 years or so ako naman plan ko in 2-5 years so umpisa palang planned na,maganda lang kasi honest na talaga siya with what he wants and so am i kahit nasa datng stage palang kami. nakakaexcite tuloy, we both see it as an adventure, really lahat ng nangyayari samin unexpected, and shall i say destined.

[SweetieNela]

3 and half year na kami at naguusap na kami about it. pero syempre kahit my plan na kami. hindi pa namin sinasabi sa parents namin at saka naghihintay ako na magproposed siya sakin . hihi

[cuppie_cake]

We were together so young pa kasi, I guess napagusapan namin about it mga 1 1/2 years into the relationship, not the serious stuff naman but yung mga plans lang namin sa future. After graduating from college, we lived in together and then he went to the states and I got pregnant, so when he came back after 6 months he was ready to propose sadly the plans did not push thru bec. of my complicated papers (I'm going to work overseas) so ayun na moved ng namoved. Now Im still abroad, though we have kids na when I get back we'll tie the knot though civil ceremony lang muna kasi biglaan and in 2 years time well be doing our "big" wedding na. All in all, 10 years into the relationship na kami. 

[vincris16]

hmmm last 3rd anniversary namin pinag uusapan na namin sya.
pro nagproposed siya e ika 5th anniversary kasi want nya totally ready na ang lahat pati kame ready na..
so now masasabi namin ready na ready na talaga kami yun tipo magkakilala na kami talaga.
at masasabi na namin sa isa't isa na ready na kami at want na namin macommit as couple