What do you do, while moving on with your breakup?

[chuvaeklavu]

Hello:

We are planning to have a dinner bonding with other FN girls this coming January 3rd weekdays.

The purpose of this dinner is:
1. To meet new friends ofcourse!
2. To have fun while moving on with the break ups
3. To talk about out upcoming activity this Feb 14 2011...

Para naman di mga mukhang kawawa mga walang date tulad ko... hehe....

FN girls, please PM me if you are interested para makapag set na ko ng place para satin lahat...

Thanks!

[rapids]

^sis can I join?

[iCleverClogs]

Ang saya niyo naman! Sayang di ako taga Manila..


Ang ginagawa ko lang magwork, mag-internet all the way!


May utang sakin ex, 1k. Ano ba yan. Coins lang naman yun sa kanya. Doesn't matter kung may money ang involvement pwere lang kung 3k pataas. 

[chuvaeklavu]

sana nga maging masaya! cos excited na din ako talaga to meet other Girl Friends,..

I will mass email the schedule tonight girls..

[allychkins]

Hi Im new here. Just broke up with my bf din.  We were supposed to get married na but his mom got in the way.  He said he still loves me and he still wants to marry me but for now he needs time to make her family accept me.  We have not seen each other in a months time na but he always texts me.  Im so miserable becoz Im used to having him around and then suddenly we cant meet.  I still love him but then i dont know if he can fight for our relationship with his family thats why i decided to broke up with him although he did not approved of that.  I just dont want to feel sad and lonely. 

[yvaine]

develop new hobbies... spend time with friends...pray....

[cherub.rock]

broke up with bf recently. mag 3 years na sana kami. i miss him so much though.

anyway.. what do i do while moving on? to focus on myself more. i want to improve myself in all aspects--physically, emotionally and most of all, SPIRITUALLY. as of now, i'm still so LOST eh. drama.

i will go to the gym, spend more time with friends (which i almost never did since nagkaBF), develop new hobbies, start reading books again, and work work work so that i'll have money para magpaganda ng todo2x. hehe.

[bathbodyandbeauty]

Find an outlet, immerse yourself in friendships, reach out to your family, focus in bettering yourself and always pray for strength and guidance.

The main reason why it's hard to move on is because we keep on feeding ourselves with memories. So it's best not to look back; instead, think of what needs to be done in today, set goals, work on them and look forward to a happy tomorrow.

[chuvaeklavu]

Hi Im new here. Just broke up with my bf din.  We were supposed to get married na but his mom got in the way.  He said he still loves me and he still wants to marry me but for now he needs time to make her family accept me.  We have not seen each other in a months time na but he always texts me.  Im so miserable becoz Im used to having him around and then suddenly we cant meet.  I still love him but then i dont know if he can fight for our relationship with his family thats why i decided to broke up with him although he did not approved of that.  I just dont want to feel sad and lonely.

Hi Sis,

I think you made the right decision...
You assess the situation and you felt sad no effort sa part ng Guy.
All you need to do now is to pray cos our God is the one who creates favor for us in the hearts of man, not us... and also to his family...para tanggapin ka nila...

If there is something wrong in the relationship from the start what more if after marriage...God just took you away from a big trouble..
But still pray cos we never know whats ahead of us...

Be thankful to your situation now.... Marami pang mangyayari.

[chuvaeklavu]

broke up with bf recently. mag 3 years na sana kami. i miss him so much though.

anyway.. what do i do while moving on? to focus on myself more. i want to improve myself in all aspects--physically, emotionally and most of all, SPIRITUALLY. as of now, i'm still so LOST eh. drama.

i will go to the gym, spend more time with friends (which i almost never did since nagkaBF), develop new hobbies, start reading books again, and work work work so that i'll have money para magpaganda ng todo2x. hehe.

Good for you Sis...
Everybody is lost here actually... haha
But finding the right friends will help you out..

Im conducting a dinner Tomorrow para sa lahat ng mga broken hearted.... If you want to be part please PM me.

[chuvaeklavu]

Find an outlet, immerse yourself in friendships, reach out to your family, focus in bettering yourself and always pray for strength and guidance.

The main reason why it's hard to move on is because we keep on feeding ourselves with memories. So it's best not to look back; instead, think of what needs to be done in today, set goals, work on them and look forward to a happy tomorrow.

CORRECT SIS!

Kaya ako i want to go out talaga and meet new friends...
tapos uma-attend ako sa spiritual retreat.

Grabe ang hirap kase pagkagabi na... andun na yung PAIN...

Pero its a matter of choice pa din if you want to think of the pain or
to be happy...

[bathbodyandbeauty]

CORRECT SIS!

Kaya ako i want to go out talaga and meet new friends...
tapos uma-attend ako sa spiritual retreat.

Grabe ang hirap kase pagkagabi na... andun na yung PAIN...

Pero its a matter of choice pa din if you want to think of the pain or
to be happy...

True sis. Pinakamahirap sa gabi before going to sleep and in the morning upon waking up. Nung first month after break-up, masaya ako buong araw because I surrounded myself with friends and positive things. I always psyche myself that nothing can ruin my day. Pero pagdating sa gabi maaalala ko nanaman, there were times na hirap ako makatulog because i was so bothered and kept asking myself why we broke up and kung ano kulang sa akin. I would even torture myself listening to music (malungkot or masaya na music naiiyak ako). In the morning naman, sometimes ayoko bumangon. I just want to go back to sleep kasi naiisip ko, another struggle nanaman yung araw na to. Every morning naiisip I'm back to zero. But I realized it's not true, nagpoprogress ako kahit nung una hindi ko maramdaman. Now I'm okay and doing well.

It's very important to keep your head strong kasi kung hindi, maloloka ka talaga. 

[Oblina]

Nagpapaganda ako ngayon, spending on mga skin supplements, and skin care products.
I bought rose quartz bracelet pa
I go shopping, pero hindi naman bongga, I buy stuff that I need also like new clothes, perfume, make up
I pray, I go to church, pray the rosary
pero most of all, I'm prettifying
I'm so sad sa totoo lang, pero dahil lage na lang ako umiiyak, napagod na din ako, yung dagan na sakit sa dibdib ko e manageable na, paulit ulit ba naman na love problems e
And most important of all, I don't communicate with ex, bagkus, I think about his flaws ALL THE TIME.

[iCleverClogs]

magpaganda... yeah, looks does matter sa mga lalaking hambog at makapal ang mukha! Kala mo naman kung sinong maputi, eh parehas lang tayo.

[ana mimi]

i worked hard..

kumita ng malaking pera

bilhin ang mga bagay na di nya kayang bilhin

magpaganda ng bongga'

makipag-socialize sa ibang tao

at mag boy hunting..

ano gusto nya, magmukmok ako??

HALLER..

[daria]

kamusta yung dinner girls?

[cherub.rock]

CORRECT SIS!

Kaya ako i want to go out talaga and meet new friends...
tapos uma-attend ako sa spiritual retreat.

Grabe ang hirap kase pagkagabi na... andun na yung PAIN...

Pero its a matter of choice pa din if you want to think of the pain or
to be happy...

thank you sis. if i was in manila, i'd really LOOOVE to go out with u girls! too bad i am from Cebu.  it really does help if you have an outlet to focus all your efforts and attention on. diversions kumbaga. right now, all i want is to be super busy. right now, i am trying to reconnect with my friends. it really helps if you have a trusted friend you can confide to. it really takes some of the pain away. yung situation ko right now is very complicated. it's all my fault kasi. naku naman.

[chuvaeklavu]

Hi Sis Daria,

Ok naman the dinner... onti lang kame... medyo intimate nga eh..
Pero happy naman....Sayang di pa kita nameet.

We are planning to go to SPA this weekend 29 January meet up sa trinoma maybe you want to come...

Announcement:

FN Trip for 2 Days!

Location: Baguio City
Date:     March 11 to 12
Time:          00.15 -- am ng March 11
Objective: To encourage everyone to move on and enjoy life to the fullest!

Hello,

For everyone who wants to join, this is just a view ng
main expenses going to Baguio.

Transportation:   Victory Liner Cubao P 860 x 2 (back and fort)
Transient:   2200/6pax  ---> 366.66 per person
      2400/8pax  ---> 300.00 per person

Total: 1300 food not included.

Just so you know so you can estimate na your expenses ahead of time.

The amount is subject to change depends on the transient na makukuha natin -- so wag kayo magdala ng kasya lang.. hahaha.
So, file your leave now!


Thanks
ChuvaEklavu!

[justgirl]

well i hang out with my friends. indulge my self with sports. it really helps. also do things that you  don't usually do.

[iCleverClogs]

sinimulan ko ng mag hang out with friends. so far cooperate naman sila kasi sila din mismo nababato na... will looking forward for another group activity next month.