guys who still go for girls who are already TAKEN?

[cherub.rock]

what do you think of guys who still go for girls who are already TAKEN? has anyone experienced being in a relationship but nililigawan pa din ng ibang guy/s?

do you lose respect for that someone knowing that he knows you are taken but still.. he goes after you? or kahit hindi formally nanliligaw but expressed his feelings for you?

what if you like him back?

[Amphitrite]

Parang ganito story namin ni hubby

Ganito nangyari...
My relationship with my ex has been on the rocks for a few weeks, as in no communication at all. Honey(hubby) came into the picture and started texting me. I told him that I still have a boyfriend and he apologized and then backed off.

I tried to make my relationship with Ex work, but I failed. So after a few days, I texted Honey, and now we've been married for 5 years - going on 6.

[Kady_14]

Nakakabastos para sa akin. Knowing that I'm happily married. Ang dating sa akin eh, Mukha ba akong papatol sa kanya at iiwan ang asawa ko? Sino sya si Brad Pitt? lol

Sa totoo lang, nasa babae din yan if papatol ka. If you like him too, there must be something wrong with the current relationship you're in.

Nasa'yo if papatulan mo ang mga pahapyaw, papansin or even allot time and energy for these people. Shempre pag pumatol ka or even if you say "you are just being nice" some would assume that you're leading them on.   

[santita]

di papossible sa girls yung parang fling lang, pero dun pa din sya sa asawa nya?

[StrawberryJammy]

that happened to me, take note, yung mga guys na nangungulit may mga gf na din.  habang kami ni fiance ko, there were 4 of them, 2 of them was my exes, 3 of them has GFs.

i lost respect for them, the fact na may gf sila , i feel sorry for their GFs, hindi nila alam na gumagawa ng kalokohan mga bf nila. 

[ms.holly]

me too and may gfs or married na the guys which makes me think gusto lang talaga nila makascore. lalo na nung nalaman nila bf and I were having troubles aba andameng nagparamdam but I know they're in long term relationships na pero deadma lang hehe. hayaan ko lang sila diyan

[spacemonkey]

ruined a pretty good friendship with a guy because of this.

WE (my bf and i) were good friends with him, and we were also very, very close with his girlfriend.

he's already tried hitting on me one time, but i did my best to distance myself from him. (thing is, if i were single, i would've gone out with him in a heartbeat. i had a crush on the guy, and my bf knew and was cool with it.)

my boyfriend wanted to beat him up, but i stopped him, and we chalked the whole thing up to him being very drunk that one night.

then... less than a month after him and his girlfriend broke up, he tried asking me out. i tried to be as nice to him as possible, letting him down gently, and trying to humor him, because it was soooo awkward for me.

we broke our friendship with him, which kinda sucks, because he was a pretty cool guy. the whole thing though, was just so creepy and gross. we've totally lost all respect we had for the guy.

[rychel07]

for me dalawa lang yan eh:

either si guy is just going after the girl who's already in a relationship, to please his ego. pag naagaw nya si girl dun sa bf, eh di feeling nya super gwapo na nya and all that, pag hindi naagaw, okay lang, hindi kawalan

OR

talagang gusto and mahal nya yung girl and hindi titigil hanggang siguro hindi kasal yung girl. pero pag kasal na girl at ayaw pang tantanan, sumbong na yan sa husband at ng maka-heart to heart sya ni hubby, baka may pinagdadaanan lang. lol.

[cuppie_cake]

I've had one which turns out to be a big jerk! style na pala niya yun sa mga girls he was making paawa effect pa making kwento about his previous ex that left him, he was nice at first pero nung I know he has another motive na and was starting to asked me out, I distance myself na, I dont wanna ruin my fam bec. of him.

[_ariadne_]

They are plain aholes. They don't have respect and should be banished from the face of the earth. LOL. Ang O.A.

[ana mimi]

I don't respect them lalo na kapag alam nilang may bf ka na nga at buntis na kamo ako ha.. wala man lang respeto sa buntis lalo na at 4 months na akO..

saka to think pa kamo na yung iba e friend pa ni bf.. nakakaloka talaga.. simula nun, i told my bf to stay away with those friends

[katthee]

I experience something similar. Ang nangyari naman samen nung guy was when our respective relationships were on the rocks, he came to the picture. Mas nauna maging magulo yung relationship nila then afterwards yung amin na nung ex ko. At first, he would always call to confide to me his problems. So I let him be. I didn't tell him that while he was suffering from a heartbreak eh on the rocks na ren kmi ni ex. So confide confide, advise etc. Then one time nadulas ako nasabi ko na on the rocks din kmi ni ex pero I expressed my desire to fix the relationship..Dun nagstart na maging makulit saken c guy. Ang nakakainis lang even if Im very vocal with him that Im trying fix my relationship w/ my ex, patuloy pa ren sa pangungulit..Ang ending nainis ako..Binara ko..Pero the truth is, gusto ko din naman sya bigyan ng chance that time kaso lang I got afraid to be a "rebound girl"..

[coo]

kasi --> good girls are already taken  kaya guys still go sa mga taken na.. and kung bibigay ka, well i dont think your good enough for your partner.. 

[17arci]

May kasabihan, "Pag ang manok nakatali, mas madaling hulihin." Yun ang parati kong naririnig sa mga friends ko na guys nung college. Hehe.

I find it weird but not really unnerving. Kasi ganun naman talaga e. Sometimes you can't help it kung may mang-aagaw. Nasa kanila na yung kung papayagan ba nila na mangyari yun o hindi.

[cosmochick]

Guilty naman both me and my fiancée for this. We were both involved with someone when we rekindled our feelings for each other.He was my ex kasi. Naging kami officially when he broke up with his gf.. tapos ako, parang napagsabay ko sila coz I couldn't find the perfect time to tell my then boyfriend that I wanted out. Until he caught me na lang and made me choose. 

[annd]

May kasabihan, "Pag ang manok nakatali, mas madaling hulihin." Yun ang parati kong naririnig sa mga friends ko na guys nung college. Hehe.

I find it weird but not really unnerving. Kasi ganun naman talaga e. Sometimes you can't help it kung may mang-aagaw. Nasa kanila na yung kung papayagan ba nila na mangyari yun o hindi.

i think totoo yung kasabihan na "Pag ang manok nakatali, mas madaling hulihin." ako taken na and very very very happy ako sa relationship ko, although sometimes, medyo bored. pero ok naman. parang mas nakakaattract daw yung taken na lalo na kung marami naririnig na "good" things about you. parang gamit lang, pag meron nagsabi na "okay" itong gamit na ito, bibili agad or magiging interesado ka, and pagnatest mo na, gusto mo na agad bilhin. pero iba naman yun sa babae kasi tayo, may feelings. sira ulo kasi yung mga staff ko, masyado nila ako binibuild up dun sa top supplier namin, ayun, nainlove ata. kaya nahb na si bf ko. gusto sapakin.

[shopaholic18]

eto ang kinaiinis ko, the moment we posted in a relationship sa FB, mind you mas naging persistent mga guys who wants to go out with me lalo na nalaman pa nilang LDR kami, but syempre i've no intention of going out with them.

[annd]

^hi sis! tama yan

[pretinnes]

i think totoo nga iyong sinasabi niyo na mas na eexcite at na cha challenge ang guys kapag taken na ang girl. siyempre dagdag pogi ponints din iyon kung naagaw niya ang girl. pero if married na ang girl na pinopormahan ng guy, parang off na ata iyon.

[shopaholic18]

^^mabuti na kasing malinaw sa kanila, tinanggihan na nga sige padin, nag post na nga sige padin, sana pang makuha sa isang salita. i politely declined naman, kala lang nila siguro may chance kasi LDR, and dun sila nagkakamali.