GT with Foreigner Hubby/Fiance/Boyfriend thread 2

[120515]

the charges on bank transfers depends on the u.s. bank. as far as i know, u.s. banks always charge for bank-to-bank transfers regardless of who owns the account.
try opening a citibank account. there are several citibank atms in the philippines and there's no charge if he withdraws from them even if he opened the account in the u.s.

[120515]

^ amazon! has tons of products and they'll even ship it with a message from you

[ms.bumbay]

Hirap na makahanap ng matinong foreigner ngayon. Kadalasan hindi na seryoso. Di tulad noong penpal times pa sa time nila mama. Pero meron pa naman matino chamba chamba lang yan. Huwag agad magtiwala marami scammer ngayon.

[bipolarbear]

any struggles you can share when dating a foreigner? i speak english, fluent, but sometimes may ibang meaning pa rin ang english nila sa english natin..

like when i made him breakfast, he just said "not bad", then may pinakain ako sa kanyang iba, sabi nya "it's good".. so to me, yung not bad means it is not good, pero i dont wanna be rude so i will say not bad

kasi sabi ko if it is good, he will say it's good just like that other food i had him try and he said it is good.

LOL he explained to me na it means the same pero minsan masyado ako nagreread literal sa sinasabi nya so nag iiba meaning. LOL

[sensi]

hehe sis, based on experience with bf, yung "not bad" niya, he didnt expect that it would turn out good, kaya hehe...but hindi rin naman negative yun sis;)...
 pag siya nagluluto, tapos masarap rin luto niya, siya na mismo magpuri sa self niya, not bad huh? lol ganon...

[cherry_fairy26]

Hi mga sisses,

I met an American guy thru OKC.  Then he is now here in PH for two weeks.  I am already crazy in love with him.  He is divorced.  I am separated with my husband for a year but our marriage is not yet annulled.  Aw! I am in a very difficult situation.   

I cannot go back with him in the US. He has to go back to work for two years.  And I feel so sad right now thinking of what would happen in such two long years of long distance relationship.  Any advices sisses?

[Shadow Angel]

Sa totoo lang mahirap ang LDR better na ayusin mo muna annulment mo para makapag apply ka ng fianc?e visa

[cherry_fairy26]

^ Yeah, I agree with you sis.  Para walang complications dapat ayusin ko muna ang sabit.  Pero one month pa lang mula nang magkakilala kami sis.  Don't you think it's too early for me to rush on things?

[Shadow Angel]

^Kahit ano pa man darating din ang time na kailangan mo talaga ng annulment kung may plan ka pa makipag relasyon ulit. Better na ayusin mo na habang maaga kesa kung kelan mo na kailangan. Ang tagal pa naman ng annulment sa pinas at mahal.

[candacena]

hindi ko siya bf/hubby etc. pero gusto niya ko. at gusto daw niya ko pakasalan. korean siya. when he's studying here simula pa lang daw crush na niya ko. so imagine nagttrabaho na siya ngayon. ganun niya ko katagal na crush. almost all ng pinagtanungan ko boto sa kanya. kaso bumalik korea. tsaka isa pang dahilan ay hindi ako madly inlove sa kanya. gustuhin ko man kaso hindi talaga love eh. sana mag progress tong nararamdaman ko sa kanya coz he seems like a good guy, kaso medyo may pagka flirt medyo lang naman lol.  and siguro dahil hindi ko pa siya kilala kaya ganito lang nararamdaman ko

[Guada_FN]

Hi ladies,

I read this at Female Network and thought it may be relevant to this topic when dating a foreigner. Let me know what you think! http://www.femalenetwork.com/relationships/dating-a-foreigner-a1598-20170125-lfrm?ref=home_feed_1

[sweetpot]

Has anyone of you felt na parang "you and me against the world" ang set up nyo with foreigner bf?

Kasi ako pag nalalaman ng ibang tao na nagkabf ako ng puti nagagalit sila... I dunno why

[kvandenhaak]

^Why would they be mad?

[sweetpot]

^Why would they be mad?

Ewan ko, dito kasi sa Canada parang naooffend yung ibang races, lalo yung mga hindi puti, kasi parang ayaw nila ng interracial relationships sa puti

[kvandenhaak]

I am also in Canada but I have not encountered the same. I actually feel they don't make a big deal out of it. Now your situation, if they do just tell them to stick their noses out of your business. Your life, your rules kamo..lol!

[sweetpot]

I am also in Canada but I have not encountered the same. I actually feel they don't make a big deal out of it. Now your situation, if they do just tell them to stick their noses out of your business. Your life, your rules kamo..lol!

Yeah, I guess... Swerte mo...lol

[Shadow Angel]

^^huh nasa Canada rin ako pero wala naman ako naeencounter na ganyan. Madami rin kami friends na mga Canadian din ang asawa or bf. Paano mo nasasabi against sila?

[sweetpot]

kasi nung nagkaroon ako ng shift sa nursing home, yung isang staff na itim tinatanong kung married na ako or may boyfriend, tapos tinanong niya kung sa "white guy" sabi ko oo tapos nagiba na yung timpla nya

ewan ko ba naman kasi kung bakit kelangan pang malaman ang race ng partner mo

[Shadow Angel]

^actually hindi rin namin type ang karamihan black dito maere sila tinalo pa ang mga totoong canadian tapos malalaman mo kundi refugee immigrant din naman nakatulad natin. Iba ugali nila.

[sweetpot]

^actually hindi rin namin type ang karamihan black dito maere sila tinalo pa ang mga totoong canadian tapos malalaman mo kundi refugee immigrant din naman nakatulad natin. Iba ugali nila.

Yeah, sensitive kasi sila sa issue na ganyan... hindi ko nga alam kung paano pakikisamahan eh