GT with Foreigner Hubby/Fiance/Boyfriend thread 2

[little_princess]

^Vain_Chiq^, nakakainis talaga those instances but it will happen even if your bf is of the same race. may mga tao kasi na no respect sa salitang relationship and commitment.

but then your bf's reaction is very nice, he didn't reciprocate the flirtatious replies. I guess trust your bf and let it be. if you are really bothered about it, you can talk to bf or gerahin mo na yung girl! hahaha kidding.

chiching, what company does your partner work for? parang land based siya so sa forest and mountains and stuff? we're actually exploring a land job for him and madami sa SG and AU though not as lucrative as off shore. my fiance just got promoted, he will be a Chief QC Geophysicist na

[^Vain_Chiq^]

^Thanks for the advice ladies. I already talked to him about this and alam nya na nagseselos ako. I told him I will just write the articles instead (this one is my fault coz I know I'm medyo tamad in writing) instead of contacting that girl again for a next assignment. Aksidente ko nga lang nakita yung email kasi napasilip lang me sa screen nya and then yun ang bumungad sakin. We don't open each other's email although I can access his anytime kaya medyo nagworry ako sa nakita ko. By the way, we're turning 3 years next year.

About our relationship, everything's going smoothly naman. Me mga differences but  it's not a major issue. I'm still practicing on my Dutch so I can converse with his family during gatherings, ang hirap kasi eh his parents doesn't speak English and besides I'm here in the NL so I need to adjust. He loves to travel but we're planning to settle sa Pinas soon. Uwi uli kami ng pinas this October and it's going to be his 5th time there .

[shopaholic18]

^sis di talaga mawawala yung mga flirt, kaya na we need to work on our trust issues with our men para kahit anong flirt pa yan deadma. i personally used to be overly jealous pero in time boyfriend made me realize how important trust is in our set up as long distance couple and soon everything will work itself out hanggang makuha na nya ako dito sa Pinas, we plan to tie the knot soon, sana maging ok ang lahat in God's perfect time.

[*yvainne*]

totoo ba na bihira naghihiwalay sa foreigner ang hubby?
karamihan ba ng foreigner kapag interested sayo, poprose agad ng marriage in a few months time lang? tatawag and puntahan ka talaga nila kapag gusto ka nila?
meron din ba na weeks bago tumawag and months bago ka puntahan?
wala kasi ko masyado idea..may pinakilala kasi sakin friend ko.

[bluegintonic]

totoo ba na bihira naghihiwalay sa foreigner ang hubby?
karamihan ba ng foreigner kapag interested sayo, poprose agad ng marriage in a few months time lang? tatawag and puntahan ka talaga nila kapag gusto ka nila?
meron din ba na weeks bago tumawag and months bago ka puntahan?
wala kasi ko masyado idea..may pinakilala kasi sakin friend ko.

In my experience, I've met my husband personally not through pakilala/referral/reto/internet dating sites and it's a much better experience kasi siyempre makaka-jamming mo,lalabas ang tunay na ugali. Hindi lahat ng guys interested sa pinay have marriage in mind kaagad-majority just want to get into your pants. Kahit naman Pinoy ganyan din eh.Be wary of those na propose agad, kilalanin niyo rin muna baka mamaya nananakit or my personal issues pala. Kung mahal ka talaga, kahit ikaw pa gawan ng visa papunta sa bansa nila,gagawin! Walang imposible sa tunay na nagmamahalan. At kung talagang love, halos daily ang tawag, lagi rin yan magrerequest makipag-skype sa iyo.Hindi naghihintay nang buwan bago kamustahin ka. Barring all impossible thigns for yout to go and visit him in his country, ikaw ang pupuntahan. Hindi rin porke pinuntahan ka eh tuloy na sa altar yun. Depende sa mangyayari sa inyo, minsan ok sa online tapos hindi pala click personalities in person...

[pinkberries]

mga sis, what do you usually talk about? madalas sa mga nakachat ko online, sex lagi nasa isip kaya i easily lose interest. i just find it so boring.  may iba naman dinadaan sa love love pero it boils down to sex pa din.

i have never met someone online na makwento. :-(

[skyrimgal]

@ sis mharickar, I wish I could show you a pic of me and my american husband nang makita mo kung gaano kami ka-normal looking. i think nagkakataon lang na yung mga nakikita mong filipina-foreigner couple is like that.

@ sis chuzzle the adjustment really for me and him was the food!! i LOVE filipino food and he (unfortunately) hates most of our food.    noong una, siempre masama sa loob ko dahil parang nakaka-offend di ba? but i realized din bakit ko siya pipilitin kung hindi nga niya gusto? parang pag siya pipilitin nya ako kumain araw-araw ng american food (walang kanin!) everyday ayaw ko din noh. and adjustment for me is when i cook for the two of us. i always have to make sure na may makakain siya if i want to cook filipino food. kaya ang ref namin laging may lamang frozen chicken wings or fries, etc. dahil madaling iluto. para kapag gusto ko magluto ng filipino ulam na aabutin ako ng ilang oras sa pagluluto eh medyo do-able. hehe.. i love being married to my husband. i have 1 filipino ex, 1 american ex, and 1 european ex and i would say my american bf (now husband) is the best  but i wouldn't generalize anything about my husband or any of my exes though according to their nationality dahil siempre iba't iba rin silang individual at may sari-sariling preference. for example my american husband and my american ex are soooo different from each other even though they both came from the same country.

ang masasabi ko lang for relationships is kahit anong nationality nyo, if it's meant to be.. it's meant to be.

[Amity]

hi guys, im also curious on how to know if your foreign bf is serious about you. I met him online particularly in facebook wherein we played the same fb games. He is american and is 5 years older than me. At first, he was just trying to be nice and casual with me. After ilang months, he tried video calling me through facebook and when I accepted, he then close the cam and apologized that it was a mistake. FYI, I set my profile page private from him, so all he could see is my primary pic. After which, he started to seriously chat with me and told me he wants to marry me.

In all honesty I started to like him. But sometimes, I wonder if he's really serious. He's kind of mushy and naughty at times. According to him, he has been telling his family and friends about me and wants me to meet them. And he plans on visiting me here anytime next year. We communicate everyday be it through email, text or skype.

[bluegintonic]

hi guys, im also curious on how to know if your foreign bf is serious about you. I met him online particularly in facebook wherein we played the same fb games. He is american and is 5 years older than me. At first, he was just trying to be nice and casual with me. After ilang months, he tried video calling me through facebook and when I accepted, he then close the cam and apologized that it was a mistake. FYI, I set my profile page private from him, so all he could see is my primary pic. After which, he started to seriously chat with me and told me he wants to marry me.

In all honesty I started to like him. But sometimes, I wonder if he's really serious. He's kind of mushy and naughty at times. According to him, he has been telling his family and friends about me and wants me to meet them. And he plans on visiting me here anytime next year. We communicate everyday be it through email, text or skype.

That's as good a start as any, if you ask me..at least may common like na kayo, FB games hehe.ang lalaking seryoso pakasal sa iyo,pupuntahan ka even to just meet you first (and your family din)-dating na hindi online...mamya kasi iba ang chemistry sa personal tsaka online.I would recommend taking things slow.Magkilalanan muna kayo maigi kasi isa sa mga preconceived notions ng mga puti basta naligawan ang pinay go na agad....sa dami naman kasi ng scammers din na would do anything to get a green card...wag ganun di ba...

mga sis, what do you usually talk about? madalas sa mga nakachat ko online, sex lagi nasa isip kaya i easily lose interest. i just find it so boring.  may iba naman dinadaan sa love love pero it boils down to sex pa din.

i have never met someone online na makwento. :-(

well primarily guys who come online do go there for a specific reason...TO GET OFF.If I were you, chat in the correct rooms, like for friendships lang muna. I can't recommend any "good" chat sites kasi hindi ako pala-chat, at hindi ko rin sa chat nakilala husband ko. nagamit namin as way of communicating lang nung after maging kami na kasi there are times magkalayo kami coz of work (he's in qatar , i'm in abu dhabi when we first started). try to divert the topics to neutral topics...not sex lang lagi, kaka-TO naman yung unang banat eh sex agad? A guy who won't talk about himself, his interests, his point of views, shouldn't be worth your time.HTH 

[bluestocking]

Does anyone have an experience dating french men?
We went to dinner once, then the succeeding meetings (I couldn't call it dates), I am always the one initiating them. He always text me though, almost everyday, just asking what's up.
Sometimes sweet, sometimes flirtatious, pero nothing freaky lol. We are colleagues but he's leaving soon.

[truthfruit]

Bestfriend ko may kalivein na French, sweet sila talaga, pero moody rin kasi mga French,daig pa babae sa pagkamoody. Lagi silang nag-aaway dahil kahit sa ibang babae sweet siya, tsaka talagang nilalandi sya ng ibang babae sa harap ng friend ko.

[princeza08]

hi mga sis! may masa suggest ba kayo na dating site for filipinas looking for a foreigner bf? or gusto makpag asawa ng foreigner? tia!

[Skuld]

I met my boyfriend at OkCupid. The website is actually pretty cool as you will now if the guy is actually looking for a serious relationship or simply for sex. The both of us just happened to share the same experience during the time that we met: we both got cheated. We decided to take on revenge and be awesome together. We are almost one year now, we still talk to each other especially during our free time. We have skype dates (where you eat together in front of the camera-- I am a chef and he enjoys watching me cooking over the cam lol). Calls me his girl from the future (because we are 14hours ahead of them). I am also well acquainted with his friends and family now. His parents are really nice to me and treats me like their own daughter. He even complains that his parents loves me more than him. <3

I am not encouraging everyone to date online. There will always be bad people lurking around these sites. Let me also give a high-five to those who have successfully evaded these people and is already enjoying their happy ever after with the person they love. 

[bloody_venus]

Never dated when I was in the Philippines, just joined the dating scene when I started working overseas, and since I'm getting old na rin haha, why not give it a shot? 
I'm on my late 20s btw

The guy I'm currently dating is British, a few years older than me,
honestly I'm more attracted on asian looking guys (japanese,korean,chinese,etc), but this guy is nice and sweet (in his own way), that's why I like him 
It's fine, I think you'll knew it if the guy is really into you or just playing around.

One thing I don't like is when the guy wants to shop for you (happens a couple of times) it's ok if you're dating for a long time (a year maybe) but if not, I find that weird, kinda hurts my ego too lol, I have a good job and my pay is ok so I believe I can buy anything I want for myself.

[lonelymiss28]

totoo ba na bihira naghihiwalay sa foreigner ang hubby?
karamihan ba ng foreigner kapag interested sayo, poprose agad ng marriage in a few months time lang? tatawag and puntahan ka talaga nila kapag gusto ka nila?
meron din ba na weeks bago tumawag and months bago ka puntahan?
wala kasi ko masyado idea..may pinakilala kasi sakin friend ko.

*sa mga kakilala ko dito na may asawang canadian, yung pinay ang humihiwalay sa asawa.
*kapag interesado sa iyo, sasabihin nila sa iyo yung iba it takes time yung iba madalian.
*kung sa pupuntahan ka agad, depende sa time nila kung meron or wala, mas priority kasi nila work kesa sa nakikilala nila online or something.

[Shadow Angel]

^any specific reason kung bakit yun mga pinay ang nakikipaghiwalay sa mga husband nilang canadian.
Ako naman choice ko talaga foreigner madali kasi kausap, mas open minded at based sa mga kilala ko na may asawang foreigner hindi broken family. No offense mean pero yun mga pinoy guys ngayon after ilang years nagloloko na dami ko kilala na ganyan marami kasi akong friends na guy at natural daw yun na babaero sila walang lalaki ang hindi nagloloko yan ang sagot ng mga friends ko lalaki. Parang kahit mahalin mo ng todo todo wala pa rin kasi siguro alam din nila mostly pinay hindi iiwan ang husband kahit nagloloko kasi mahal at Family values. Karamihan foreigner ngayon iniiwasan naman nila yun sobrang feminist according yan sa bf ko kaya mas gusto nila raw asian not particularly pinay. Well opinion ko lang naman yan.
About naman sa issues na yun mga pinay na mukhang maid kinukuha nila parang offensive naman yan
Sure ako hindi naman ganyan ang magiging tinggin sa amin at lalong hindi dahil sa financial. Stable naman ako at may konting savings. Basta kung gusto nyo ng foreigner go for it.

[lonelymiss28]

^nagsawa, nag-iba priority, na realize na di sila compatible etc.
ang asawa ko naman french canadian, and kaya asian ang gusto nya kasi sweet daw tayo saka maalaga sa asawa kasi mga canadian na babae di masyadong sweet and lalaong di maalaga.

[Shadow Angel]

^ako rin french canadian ang bf ko. Shy type pero ngayon nadadala ko na sa kakulitan ko. Everyday kami nag uusap before and after work. Pagweekend skype. Ang sarap ma inlove hahaha

[lonelymiss28]

Mababait ang mga french canadian, although ang mga mom nila medyo possesive pagdating sa anak na lalaki. Nobody is better enough for their son kungbaga. But depende rin yan sa lalaki di ba.

[Shadow Angel]

Pansin ko nga mabait well based sa usapan namin palagi. Saka kung ano nasa isip nila sinasabi. Wala ako magiging inlaws pareho na kasi deceased ang parents nya. Pero sayang gusto ko sana kahit ma meet man lang hindi ko man lang mararanasan mag ka inlaws.