GT with Foreigner Hubby/Fiance/Boyfriend thread 2

[planeticymars]

hi! wala na kasi ako nakitang susunod na thread after nito and i just wanted to ask some tips or pieces of advice/thoughts po ninyo re: Foreign SO, kung meron na pong thread kindly delete this one hehe..

Ok, to start off, Im currently interested with foreign men. Knowing me this is a total shock and I'm really a cynic regarding this. Pero I joined a dating site and so far I am liking this british guy. He's a stokie (from stoke on trent) and he's super sweet and kind and overall my type. He told me he's "fond" of me whatever the hell that means and he "fancies" going to the philippines in december. Kaso parang he felt I was cold about it and he's parang backing out pero thinking about it pa rin. The reason I felt cold because I was really FREAKING out! Kasi first time ko and the same time foreigner pa. Nothing serious naman pero kung we hit it off why not diba..
And then we have the norwegian guy who has already settled here in the PI and has a house in pampanga. He'll be back here in dec 1 and is willing to see me daw. He's also fond of me and I like this norwegian guy pero I'm having doubts about his intentions. He calls me Mahal and all I just laugh about it but I get kilig and he makes bola na you know you want me dont be shy lol pero clean fun. IDK what to do lol.. anyways yun lang po hopefully you guys dont think of me as a bad person pero we just chat lang..badly need of advice thank you!

[planeticymars]

^ hi sis thank sa reply po naku im dreading the day na mag meet kami..the brit guy we are still talking pero not that much but the norwegian guy OMG nag cam chat na kami. at first nahiya ako but then he liked me naman and what more daw if we meet. Kaso im afraid lang talaga kasi ang dami niyang red flags sakin. The fact that he lives in angeles pampanga gives me the creeps if you guys know what i mean. Hay we agreed to meet here in manila baka in makati, I still dont know what to wear or where to meet him or what time to meet him. I hope everything turns out ok kasi he's a very nice person. haaay 

[^Vain_Chiq^]

How old is this Norwegian guy anyway?Basta investigate mo muna syang mabuti before meeting him ok?And then kung sa tingin mo safe naman sya and mabuting tao then go ahead and don't be shy to meet up with him basta dun sa lugar na hindi tago ah.

[pandorabattery]

Hi siisss! (makiki-sis n rin ako )
I need help.. please?

i chatted this guy on facebook. actually i don't accept someone i don't know but seeing that he was a mutual friend of my friend, i accepted his friend request, and it turned out my friend doesn’t know him too... tpos ayon nakipagchat n rin ako gwapo [textspeak!] ee..then chat chat, he's pretty decent and he's like well connected in our showbiz, but he's in england. he's 1/4 [textspeak!] 3/4 aussie,(her mother is half Filipino half aussie) same age like me but turning 17 this december. so ayun. then he said last nov. 4 that he was falling for me. and i was like. what?! how can that be, he was really gorgeous and all. why would he prefer to get in a relationship with a girl over the line and not someone within his personal proximity (I kind of freaked out because he’s my first). And during one of our random chat I kind of said to him that I would want someone to be my first and last (is that even possible? But I would really like that) so ayon. And I kind of have high regards of myself. I don’t want to be taken as someone cheap. Parang you need to pursue me ganon. But I think i’m liking him.that’s the problem. I mean isn’t it weird having a future bf you met online? And he has like 7 bestfriends online,all girls, and what if he’s doing all this sweet things to the 7 of us? like copy paste thing hahah. but he said that they are all just bestfriends. This was what he said: “Love, don't choose...all my other bestfriends online are just close friends, consider it like brother and sister relationship..and why you, honestly, I cannot think of a reason, why I slowly fall on you..all I can sense is that maybe due to the course of our chat, I slowly learned to know you, and sometimes, when almost everything feels so compatible, it makes both sides happy and relax to whatever  things that they wanted to talk about..” when he leaves offline messages like this: “Missed me ? Missing you ! Take care..” what should i reply? I honestly i miss him but I don’t want him to think that he got me.

[Marquita]

hmmm.. im not in a relationship with a totally foreign guy. but he is chinese and grew up here in the Philippines.

met him through facebook. now were together and serious about each other. cant wait to get married haha. bata ko pa! 21.

but anyway i can't really tell about total foreigners na di naman dito lumaki or nanirahan. but what i like about that is the kids that we might be having!

im sure cuties! hahah

[pandorabattery]

hmmm.. im not in a relationship with a totally foreign guy. but he is chinese and grew up here in the Philippines.

met him through facebook. now were together and serious about each other. cant wait to get married haha. bata ko pa! 21.

but anyway i can't really tell about total foreigners na di naman dito lumaki or nanirahan. but what i like about that is the kids that we might be having!

im sure cuties! hahah

sissy marquita! nainspire ako dito.. actually i made a name na for "our" kids! hahaha!! wala lang trip lang but we are still kids! as in i'm 16 he'll be 17 soon! hahah!! so it means i could have him as a husband, kasi i'm really worried na baka ang panget ng relasyon since nagstart ang lahat sa FB! we need to thank FB for this hahaha! :>

[mafejordan20]

hi mga sissies,,
i am almost 2 yrs married to an american guy,,and untill now,,our love is just getting more and more stronger,,i met him through online dating site,,to be specifically filipinaheart.com heheh but the thing is,,after 2 weeks we been chatting he decided to visit me here in the phillipines and,,he propose on me,,and after that he get back to the us and sell everything he owned to be with me here in the phil. then we get married,,,there's nothing wrong about online dating,,or something like that,,,you don't know and nobody knows what God wants for you,,foreign man are nice and kind sweet and caring as long as they know that they are talking to a nice woman too,,i wish you luck gurl,,God bless

[Poleng]

hi mga sissies,,
i am almost 2 yrs married to an american guy,,and untill now,,our love is just getting more and more stronger,,i met him through online dating site,,to be specifically filipinaheart.com heheh but the thing is,,after 2 weeks we been chatting he decided to visit me here in the phillipines and,,he propose on me,,and after that he get back to the us and sell everything he owned to be with me here in the phil. then we get married,,,there's nothing wrong about online dating,,or something like that,,,you don't know and nobody knows what God wants for you,,foreign man are nice and kind sweet and caring as long as they know that they are talking to a nice woman too,,i wish you luck gurl,,God bless

wow! awesum! <3
napaka ganda!


erm, i'm not in a relationship with any foreign guy or what, pero i have chat mates. hanggang dun lang talaga kami. kasi sa totoo lang, proximity yan eh. they should look for someone na malapit sa kanila instead of going half the world for me. i'm not belittling myself pero diba, before going out there, take a look around you muna.

IMO, given a chance to meet my chat mates, i'd love to go for it, and kung relationship man ang patutunguhan, then why not! don't hold back nga ika nila. live free, die happy. 

[^Vain_Chiq^]

Sis pandorabattery,like what our other sis said here there's nothing wrong with having a foreign bf but I would honestly say that you guys are still way too young.16 and 17?Sis,madami ka pang pagdadaanan so don't fall hard yet.Kung gwapo lang ang pagbabasehan.madaming gwapo sa tabi tabi sis lalo na pag naexpose ka na talaga sa kanila.Mag-aral ka munang mabuti and finish your studies then work saka intindihin yan.Ako nga I'm already 28 but yet napagsasabihan pa ako na bata pa and too young para magmadali.

[pandorabattery]

Sis pandorabattery,like what our other sis said here there's nothing wrong with having a foreign bf but I would honestly say that you guys are still way too young.16 and 17?Sis,madami ka pang pagdadaanan so don't fall hard yet.Kung gwapo lang ang pagbabasehan.madaming gwapo sa tabi tabi sis lalo na pag naexpose ka na talaga sa kanila.Mag-aral ka munang mabuti and finish your studies then work saka intindihin yan.Ako nga I'm already 28 but yet napagsasabihan pa ako na bata pa and too young para magmadali.

yes po thank you for a wonderful advice sis!! yes, i know we have a long way to go since were still young, enjoy life muna! exposure to guys... mejo tagilid since i really don't have guy friends that much.. do gays count? if ever i have guy friends, theyre really civil. anyway, he said naman na if i wanted he can wait till i'm over studying college (which means he have to wait for 5 years) after that he said that we'll have the luxury of time to see each other (wiih, kilig ako). and i'm still about to see how he fairs with that, after all madaling sabihin, mahirap gawin i'll keep you updated sis! thank you again!

[Poleng]

yes po thank you for a wonderful advice sis!! yes, i know we have a long way to go since were still young, enjoy life muna! exposure to guys... mejo tagilid since i really don't have guy friends that much.. do gays count? if ever i have guy friends, theyre really civil. anyway, he said naman na if i wanted he can wait till i'm over studying college (which means he have to wait for 5 years) after that he said that we'll have the luxury of time to see each other (wiih, kilig ako). and i'm still about to see how he fairs with that, after all madaling sabihin, mahirap gawin i'll keep you updated sis! thank you again!

do update girl! :3

[pandorabattery]

do update girl! :3

opo sis! thank you din po

"kasi sa totoo lang, proximity yan eh. they should look for someone na malapit sa kanila instead of going half the world for me."

--NANINIWALA AKO DITO SIS! :DD kaya nga parang nawiweirduhan lang ako dun sa aking kachat hahaa..

ito na nga ang updation (joke, walang word na gnyan pauso ko [textspeak!] haha) : i chatted him yesterday. he was online in fb and when he saw i was online in fb, he signed out and logged in in YM. i think he's also chatting other girls in fb ee. but i think when he did that, signing in ym, its to chat with me alone.. but thats only my theory haha! masyadong assuming ee no

[^Vain_Chiq^]

Err..hindi kaya sis uncomfortable sya sis kasi me mga kasama kang friends?Pero kahit na,he should have showed up.Now Im doubting his intentions.Badtrip yun,nageffort ka to meet him tapos sya hindi?First ask him what happened ba't ka nya ininjan,but yung fact na nakaswitch off yung phone nya eh nakakapagduda na yun.Nakita mo na ba sya sa webcam sis?

[ooh-la-la]

what if my bf is purely pinoy but born and grew-up in Germany. foreigner pa rin naman siya diba? hehe ang kulit.. lucky lang ako kasi he still knows the philippine traditions and super love pa rin niya ang Pinas.

[pandorabattery]

Err..hindi kaya sis uncomfortable sya sis kasi me mga kasama kang friends?Pero kahit na,he should have showed up.Now Im doubting his intentions.Badtrip yun,nageffort ka to meet him tapos sya hindi?First ask him what happened ba't ka nya ininjan,but yung fact na nakaswitch off yung phone nya eh nakakapagduda na yun.Nakita mo na ba sya sa webcam sis?

omgee sis. go find another one na. i think he's just playing with you.

[pandorabattery]

aww. i'm really sorry sis planeticy mars!

pero we need good news once in a while [textspeak!] di ba?
i'm just happy so i'll just share this

look:

him: when I come to the Phils., I'm no longer going to court you coz instead, I'll talk to your parents to propose a marriage
me: uii nooo!
him: I'll make sure that your parents understand full well my real intention on you..that way, they will feel more sublime to the situation later..

mygahd. di kaya niloloko lang ako nito?! sissies. ano sa plagay niyo?

[carmilina]

aww. i'm really sorry sis planeticy mars!

pero we need good news once in a while [textspeak!] di ba?
i'm just happy so i'll just share this

look:

him: when I come to the Phils., I'm no longer going to court you coz instead, I'll talk to your parents to propose a marriage
me: uii nooo!
him: I'll make sure that your parents understand full well my real intention on you..that way, they will feel more sublime to the situation later..

mygahd. di kaya niloloko lang ako nito?! sissies. ano sa plagay niyo?

--sis, ahm, medyo luma style na nila yan..

look mys tory is NOT exactly like yours pero I have this Korean guy who lives up in United Kingdom..pumunta sya dito nun Dec15, na which is kinabigla ko, dahil nun una sabi nya hindi sya pupunta..

well, kinda LOT of lies..to cut the story short pumunta sya DAVAO to other girl nya, kapal mukha over, napak LIAR nya...basta..wag agad magtiwla sa mga foreigner na yan...

[pandorabattery]

--sis, ahm, medyo luma style na nila yan..

look mys tory is NOT exactly like yours pero I have this Korean guy who lives up in United Kingdom..pumunta sya dito nun Dec15, na which is kinabigla ko, dahil nun una sabi nya hindi sya pupunta..

well, kinda LOT of lies..to cut the story short pumunta sya DAVAO to other girl nya, kapal mukha over, napak LIAR nya...basta..wag agad magtiwla sa mga foreigner na yan...

ayan! prehas na kame ni sis planeticymars.

omygahd ate. comfort meee :C. but i have seen this coming, i was just too confident kasi ewan. siguro gusto ko lang talagang maghold on sknya. so ayon.

edi kagabe ansaya sya. puro biruan pa sa chat. pagtpos kaninang umaga. eto na. bday nya kasi ngayon. so i checked his profile. tpos nabasa ko tong comment ng isang girl (detour: this girl was in his relationship status. as in [textspeak!] sa fb "in a relationship with then name" but he explained to me na yung babae is somehow having family problems and the girl was like being dependent to him na to the point she asked *daw* na palitan na nila yung stat nila so ayon he agreed. and when i started ranting him about that he said that he just took the girl under his wing. pero he said it was nothing more than a friend daw. he said it was advantageous since mrame daw girls na ngppm at nagaaply sknya mging gf. so ayon) tapos eto yung comment ng girl:

It's already 12mn there, right?
Hmm.. HAPPY BIRTHDAY JEREMY!!! xD
Have you received my text message? hehe!
I love you HonHon!

and he was calling me HON. putek. i hate to think that he was saying the same things to me and to her. HONHON?! my goodness. he was calling her hon too? we were 2 honeys?!
buti na [textspeak!] ol sya ng oras na yun so naratrat ko sya. he said [textspeak!] na "i thought you would understand since i explained everything to you. sorry for hurting you" so prang ako watever i'm out.

grabe it pains me terribly. he's good looking.

[blueangel29]

in meeting foreigners online, may success stories talaga and most are not.

what i've noticed is that serious yung mga foreign guys who are matured and ages 40 above. kasi yun talaga wife na ang hanap. yun nga lang oldies na if nasa 20's ka lang.

when i was still single, my officemates usual joke is that i would end up marrying a foreigner because i want blue eyed babies.

to cut long story short, i married a filipino guy that is spanish in citizenship. sabi ng asawa ko foreigner din daw sya sa category.

[pandorabattery]

in meeting foreigners online, may success stories talaga and most are not.

what i've noticed is that serious yung mga foreign guys who are matured and ages 40 above. kasi yun talaga wife na ang hanap. yun nga lang oldies na if nasa 20's ka lang.

when i was still single, my officemates usual joke is that i would end up marrying a foreigner because i want blue eyed babies.

to cut long story short, i married a filipino guy that is spanish in citizenship. sabi ng asawa ko foreigner din daw sya sa category.

haha! onga [textspeak!] sis!