Girl to Girl Relationships (Thread 2)

[bb.chairman]

i am also into gtg relationship.. 2 months na kami.. we'ere both femme so di masyadong halata.. pero the thing is i am married..

[emo_diztrez]

^i aLso Love better than chocoLate's story... kahit iLang beses ko na sya napapanuod, hindi pa din ako nagsasawa... i even have it saved on my phone para pag waLa magawa, nuod na Lang... hehe...

tapos hinaLughog pa namen ng babyLove ko ang buong metro maniLa makumpLeto Lang yung Lahat ng season ng Lword... we're from buLacan pa pero from different pLaces kame nakakuha ng iba'ibang season... 

[guest1234]

sa wakas napanuod ko na yung rome and juliet! ang ganda ng kwento! ang galing ni mylene dizon at andrea del rosario! two thumbs up!

[odessa17]

pa attendance...

miss ko na tong thread na to...
hays biruin niyo from my previous post na kaaway ko major si EX GF nagawa ko siya maging friend and take note kasama pa sa lahat ng trip namin abroad...
sabi ng bestfriend ko masyado daw ako mabait..so far okay na kami nun EX
pinatira ko pa sa house namin...
baliw na ba talaga ako...o masyado lang ako kampante na ako mahal ng gf?

[tin15gil]

Hi guys! Share ko lang.. I am a single mom and in a relationship with a femme too.. Is this kinda awkward? Naging kami na noon pa tas ngkahiwalay kc nga long distans relationship tapos ayun nka meet ako ng ibang guy tas nabuntis tas nagkahiwalay kme nung guy last year then bgla na lang out of nowhere nagparamdam [textspeak!] ka-on ko ngaun narealized ko na mhal ko pa [textspeak!] then naging kme na ulet... She knows about my kid too.. what you think guys?

[skysenshi]

do u want to dine out and be proud that u are with a man or  a woman?

Welcome, dear. Don't worry, lahat naman ata ng gay people go through that. Straight people -- except us fag hags -- will never understand and they think gay people need fixing. It's frustrating listening to my straight friends tell my gay friends na maraming tao sumasaya buhay pag nag-asawa sila ng opposite sex. What do they know? These same women don't even want to have sex with their husbands. (Ano naman klaseng relationship yun if you don't have passion in it? Whenever they talk about their husbands wanting to have sex with them, kahit lambing man lang, parang chore sa kanila.)

If normalcy is the only reason you'd want to be with a man...think about the guy. Many of us think men are dense but they can actually feel it when their wives don't want them. Why do you think they cheat? Plus, kawawa sila, they're getting the short end of the bargain. Parang ginamit lang sila para maging normal ang buhay. Para silang sperm donor and that's it.

I do understand the struggle. Ako nga, am not even sure if I'm gay or straight. I just want to be single. I'm happy having my gay friends around. I want to have kids, but marami na kasing options ngayon eh (my lesbian friends are mostly mothers naman). Mahirap magkunwari. I forced myself to live a normal life by having boyfriends etc...eh di naman ako happy with them. It really was a struggle. In the end, naisip ko bakit ko lolokohin sarili ko? Bakit ko lolokohin ang ibang lalake into living the kind of normal life I want. Life is too short to live in that kind of misery. And guilt is not something that's easy to live with...

[rychel07]

kung parang facebook lang to, ni like ko na ng bonggang bongga ang post mo sis skysenshi. taaamaaa!!!! haha!

@jhandee: mukang nasanay ka lang na legal lahat dun sa dati mong relationship. stop comparing. hindi fair yan sa partner mo. ako din hindi legal sa side ko pero sa side ng bebe ko legal lahat, pero since hindi naman ako ang first gf nya, she understands and hindi nya ako pinipilit or minamadali. sya kasi ang first ever relationship ko.

almost 2 years na rin kami, nung una as in gusto ko syang itago, pero ngayon, ang thinking ko is kung may makakita saming friends, fine i'll admit na kami if they ask, pero if they don't then i don't have to admit anything, bahala na sila mag-isip. pero sa friends ko lang ganun, iba pa rin ang case kung relatives, or friends ng mama ko ang makakita samin, kasi gusto ko sakin mismo malaman ng mama ko and not thru rumors. pero hindi pa nga kasi ako ready. and it's not an issue with my partner, she lets me be.

pero since iba ka naman sa partner ko, i'm not saying na gayahin mo sya, na sayo pa rin yan. pero what i'm just saying is, wag mo pilitin ang partner mo, hindi naman dapat yun ang focus mo eh, dapat yung masaya lang kayo and hindi ka naman nya kinakahiya (iba pa din yung discreet lang sa kinakahiya), dapat mas importante yun. pero if you still can't get over the issue, baka nga you should think it over, maybe waiting for her to be ready to come out and introduce you as her lover is not gonna work for you.

@ sis tin15gil: i don't find anything awkward with your situation. that's just like having a kid and being in a relationship with a guy. i have friends who are just like that. why would you even think that it's awkward sis?

[Bubblin]

If normalcy is the only reason you'd want to be with a man...think about the guy. Many of us think men are dense but they can actually feel it when their wives don't want them. Why do you think they cheat? Plus, kawawa sila, they're getting the short end of the bargain. Parang ginamit lang sila para maging normal ang buhay. Para silang sperm donor and that's it.

I do understand the struggle. Ako nga, am not even sure if I'm gay or straight. I just want to be single. I'm happy having my gay friends around. I want to have kids, but marami na kasing options ngayon eh (my lesbian friends are mostly mothers naman). Mahirap magkunwari. I forced myself to live a normal life by having boyfriends etc...eh di naman ako happy with them. It really was a struggle. In the end, naisip ko bakit ko lolokohin sarili ko? Bakit ko lolokohin ang ibang lalake into living the kind of normal life I want. Life is too short to live in that kind of misery. And guilt is not something that's easy to live with...

I agree sis. ako naman, I don't want to have kids of my own.wala kasi akong maternal instinct;I don't even get that "warm,fuzzy feeling" when kids are around me. I also prefer being single,plus I am not really interested romantically in men anymore.meron man,hanggang crush or infatuation lang.I am more happy in the company of girl and gay friends.siguro I just love my freedom so much,I am holding it tight.plus,I don't want to be dictated by society and live my life as a mother and wife.heck,if I fall in love with a woman,then I will oblige.

[Bubblin]

Happy Holidays mga sisses and tols! 

wala ako sa mood umattend ng mga family reunions. ayan na naman ang mga dreaded questions: bakit wala kang bf? at bakit tumaba ka?. kesa naman mabwiset ako,wag na lang.DVD marathon na lang ako happy pa ako....

[rychel07]

hello thanks sa lahat ng nagbigay ng opinion, it helped me alot and made me realize that its wrong to compare my present from the past....its unfair to her....i should never force her to introduce me to her parents, i'll give her enough time to be ready, i should be lucky enough na kilala ako ng mga kapatid nya at mga pinsan nya, dapat maging thankful na ako dun and ma kuntento....masyado rin siguro ako nagmamadali,kaya pagdating sa topic na yun nag aaway kami, kasi na pi pressure sya at na iistress .....salamat talaga sa mga advices nyo 

buti nga ikaw kilala ka ng mga kapatid eh, bebe ko as in mga ilang friends ko lang ang nakakakilala sa kanya. tama yan. give her time. mas importante yung masaya kayo and magkasundo kayo.

[tin15gil]

@rychel07: just thinking of me having a son and with a g2g relationship makes me think sometimes that it is awkward that despite of me having a child my partner still loves me and I thought that there are just a few including me who has this kind of relationship but it turns out to be not, so awkward moments is a no no for me now. We are actually 11 months yesterday and I am proud to say that I am happy more than the relationship that I have with the father of my child.

[guest1234]

hello mga sises!

merry xmas sa lahat!hindi na ako makapunta dito sa forum na ito daming dates hehe! hello sa laaht!

[guest1234]

^^sis hindi, siya kadate ko lagi....lol! hindi ko kaya eh! hahaha! bahala na mode!

[Bubblin]

Merry Christmas sa ating lahat!!!!

[jaded1025]

Merry Christmas mga sis!

[jaded1025]

Ooops! Double post..padelete na lang..

[guest1234]

@eich,

oo nga hirap niyang tanggihan...lol!

Merry Xmas sa lahat!

Naku malamig pasko ko hindi ko siya hehe OA!

[guest1234]

sa bed oo lol! hindi as in kasama. ala siya eh at mukhang mas prefer niyang umuwi kaysa kasama ako. hay naku!

[cocomban]

pasali po!
ako,i'm a bi.out na 'ko sa friends ko,and thank God,tanggap na tanggap nila 'ko!
ako yung medyo boyish or astigin kumilos sa barkada,
one of the boys.hehe.pero nagkaroon na 'ko ng dalawang bf's.hehe


haha.i'm in a g2g relationship right now,
hay grabe ang hiraaaap!
'tas anlayo pa niya. 
pero worth it naman pag nagkikita kami.
sinusulit talaga namin..
i'm 15 lang pala..
she's 14,mas matangkad sa'kin.
mas matured.
pareho kaming femme.
nasa ibang school siya.
nagkakilala kami kasi varsity siya ng volleyball ng school nila,
ganun din ako.
lagi kaming nagkikita pag may game.
nakuha ko yung no. niya from a friend kasi binigay niya
tapos yun binigay sakin nung friend ko..
(alam kasi nila na may crush ako dun sa girl.haha! )
tapos yun nagtxt kami..
ambilis naming maging close grabee.
halos sa lahat ng bagay pareho kami!!
medyo kamuka nga kami eyy.LOL.
haha!
tapos yun sinabi ko sakanya na may crush ako sakanya,
sabi niya ganun din daw yung nararamdaman niya,
grabe,super kilig talaga 'ko nun..
tapos yun,lagi na siyang bumibista sa school namin.
hanggang sa sinabi ko sakanya na
mahal ko na siya.
tapos medyo nagugulahan pa sya..
pero yun sabi niya oo,mahal din niya 'ko!hay.
grabe answerte ko talagaaaa..
tapos we make it a point na dapat kahit once a week nagkikita kami..
ansaya kasi,nagkakaintindihan talaga kami,alam namin
yung gusto ng bawat isa.
yun we both love each other,kahit na
alam namin na hindi 'to forever.. :l


nakakatuwa kasi andami naming manliligaw
haha.xD


btw.1st monthsary namin today.
and we spent christmas together.
♥♥♥


sorry kung mahaba masyado.

[guest1234]

^^Hi sis!

wow katuwa naman ng love story mo! kainggit!