Do u find men with money attractive?

[sacred cow]

for most girls, it is...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TWvH7jEpMdA

[angelic_daphne]

Money may give security and comfort but it cannot buy manners. I guess if he has good character, having extra resources is just a bonus.

[kath103084]

not a materialistic here but.. --HELL YEAH!

[insanelypurpleprincess]

Yes, it is attractive on the get go. However, it is not the only thing to consider for attraction. If he earned it through respectable & acceptable means, then that's one angle to look at. How he manages his finances is another thing to consider.

Bottom line, if asked if I think a poor guy or a rich guy is a preferred - I will prefer a man with money anytime... Then start qualifying him further using other parameters.

[icantspellyou]

Yes. It's a plus. kahit di siguro masyado good looking ang guy if may wealth sya for sure puputaktihin siya ng mga babae. Though di naman ito ang basis talaga but again it's a plus. Sino ba naman ang babaeng ayaw ng ganun diba? yung hindi sila yung gagawa ng way to survive the family

[graZiousa]

yes, it adds...

[DianeShishio]

Based on experience... not a smidgen. Unless, this is a SELF-MADE man. That is hella sexy.

[sarah29]

I think para sa girls, this always serves as a bonus. Parang yung guy lang with physical appearance, diba? Gusto nila maganda GF nila. Kumbaga yun ang una una. For girls, I think kahit gano pa naten i-deny attractive saten ang lalake na may pera. Doesn't mean we're gold diggers, but it's the exact same thing with guys valuing physical appearance over other things. I think women are like this because naturally we want a guy to take care of us.. and to also provide well for our future family.

However, I do think that gold diggers really do exist. Kase dapat we only treat this as a bonus, and not a requirement. Saken naman sapat na yung lalake na willing magwork hard for me, and for our family. I like a guy who works and turn off talaga yung tamad, walang trabaho, at matanda na pero asa sa parents padin. And some girls kase OA talaga gusto rich guys.. but yeah, I do think money/hardwork does play a part in attractiveness.

[sacred cow]

ang counterpart ng big boobs sa girls ay fat wallet sa guys, though not everyone likes big boobs or
a fat wallet...it's still nice to have kung meron 

[sixteen16]

sa akin bonus na lang kung mapera.. opinyon ko lang ito.. kadalasan kasi show money lang yun to attract girls.. pero kapag naging kayo na or naging mag-asawa na wala na yung pera.. ishoshow money naman nya sa iba.. opinyon ko lang ito.. mas gusto ko yung mga lalaking sinasabing wala silang pera pero nakikita mo sa kanya na nagsusumikap sya sa buhay.

[sugardrop]

If it's something he worked hard for, I'd definitely find that impressive.

[mommycute46]

It depends kung saan galing ang pera. For me, I go for the one who knows how to make money. Kesa naman don sa mayaman pero nakadepende naman sa sa "asthma" niya as in ask mama  .

[ChocoCat]

Yes of course. I think it's our survival instinct to get attracted to something that we know will provide our basic necessities (food, shelter, clothes etc). A guy with a stable career and income can definitely provide those necessities so it's not necessarily getting attracted to wealthy guys.
But for me it's more attractive if the guy has money because of his hard work and knows how to use his money wisely than just a guy with lots of money from being born rich. Both are still attractive though. 

[Giri]

Hello share ko lang po.

For most guys opposite naman ang effect, they are turn off by a woman who finds guys with money attractive. 

[ohcmon]

^ I think that goes both ways. Kung lalaki naman ang attracted sa babaeng may pera, eh turned off din 'yung babae for sure.

To answer the question, I'm attracted to men with stable jobs. He does not have to be super rich, but can at least feed himself without worries. I once dated a guy who had his own business and earned waaaay more than I did, at ang ending ay ako naman ang naintimidate.

Or maybe that's just because I don't wanna feel like the underdog in the relationship career-wise.

[sacred cow]

Hello share ko lang po.

For most guys opposite naman ang effect, they are turn off by a woman who finds guys with money attractive. 

yup, ako medyo ganito...ayokong nagsisimula pa lang ang usapan kung makatanong about 'what do you do?' feeling mo ang tinatanong na sa'yo is 'kaya mo ba akong palamunin?' 'kaya mo ba bilhin ang wants ko?'

[winkypops]

for me,basta stable at responsible ang guy carry na.kahit di ganun ka rich basta kaya nyang suportahan ang family nya

[sexykha]

^ I agree sis.. money should not be a hindrance in a relationship..
so those girls who are attractive to guy's money - gold digger tawag dun LOL

[nixiquita]

Ofcourse. But its not the sole thing that makes me attracted to a guy. Having money of his own, just shows how hardworking and persevering he is. How successful he is in his work or career. Thats gotta be attractive

but having money, aqcuired simply from his family or parents, ugh, theres nothing attractive about that.

[t_r_i_s_h]

not really, but it's a bonus.