Do u find men with money attractive?

[miss_shey]

No.    I find men with great sense of humor attractive. Syempre sunod na dun yun personality nya.

[gab54]

no i dont find rich men attractive, minsan nga turn off pa if mayabang.
but i find rich men who are simple, humble, down to earth attractive, lalo na if he's confident & has a sense of humor 

[sakura_bloom]

No. I like men who have a rich sense of humor.

[Priceless]

All things being equal (humour, pagiging gentleman, intellect, etc) mas gusto ko yung may pera than wala. Or at least pareho kami ng background and attitude towards money. I've been in a relationship where, granted I earned more than the guy, it was a major cause of arguments yung lack of "abilidad" nya with money. Living beyond his means (in fairness, it was to support his family), lack of foresight in terms of his plans/investments, basta generally not good with money. And to think hindi naman sya madalas gumagastos for me. It came to a point na inuutangan din ako - na never ko na siningil dahil alam ko namang walang ipambabayad. Minsan niyaya kong magpunta ng boracay, sabi ko hahatian ko sya ng pamasahe nya, biglang go na go na sya, at bumili ng kanyang mga beach gear. After nung trip, gulat ako nung siningil nya ako for half of his fare, plus yung other expenses related to the trip. Hay.

Na-realize ko din na dahil sa pera, magkaiba kami ng taste, from pagkain to clothes, to movies, and other activities. So talagang malaki ang impact ng pera sa isang relationship.

[stameygirl]

^ Hahaha, di ko kaya yung siningil ka sis! Hati na nga kayo, libre pa sex nya. Hay.

[yellowkitten]

I don't find them attractive. I find smart, driven men attractive who know what they want. There's a difference.

[Priceless]

^I agree on the "smart, driven, know what they want" bit. But more important is that they know how to make things happen. To want things, material or not, but not back it up with actions, then useless. The guy for example, enjoyed going out to nice expensive dates - but expected na KKB kami or worse, ililibre ko sya, er, hello??? Hindi po ako piggy bank.

[harlequeeen]

Oo syempre, men with money - factor parin yun. Pero it's not the highest factor for me. Usually smart, funny, driven ganun. Pero sana hindi KKB palagi a? haha

[blue_sky]

not necessarily.. if he has money dahil masipag sya, maybe.. but if he has money dahil mayaman ang pamilya nya, no way...malaki ang tendency na spoiled brat or walang alam sa trabaho ang guy (like my ex).. pero kung mayaman family nya at msipag rin sya, ok na ok...

although pinaka attractive for me [textspeak!] nakakausap mo ng matino at nakakasundo..

[definedelirium]

hindi naman attractive per se, it's more of a bonus. female minds are hardwired to look for mates who are more reliable providers, harking back to our hunter-gatherer days. syempre if a man can give you a stable life, that makes him a more appealing choice over someone who cannot.

[ravena]

Oo, yumaman dahil ginamit ang talino hindi yabang. LOL.

[sarsingkit]

a bit maybe but it will still depend on HOW he EARNS his money and HOW he SPENDS it.

[derkunstler]

It's a plus I guess. I earn a lot more than my BF so sometimes that's an issue. But then a lot of the financially-stable guys I meet are arrogant, and their egos easily damaged.

A lot of money can make a person TOO confident. I guess you can't have everything in a dude. XD

[Girltalker2]

Hindi naman turn off. But I think it is the confidence that they exude that I find attractive. So puedeng kahit hindi rich, pero oozing with confidence - na hindi mayabang ha - is a turn on.

[jazzlawyer]

I find men who are business minded and streetsmart sooo attractive... 1 million pogi points 

[kuliglig^^]

Not really, lalo na kung chakaness siya. Haha. But if he's cute, has a great sense of humor + lotsa datung = why not? 

Hirap din kasi pag you're earning more than your partner. Nagiging issue, just like derkunstler said.

[poetrytoprose]

[most] if not all women look for security. Men with money or men who makes money tells us that we'll have a secured future together kaya it's a pogi points.

seriously, i find it unattractive pag hindi magaling maghandle ng money ang lalaki.

[mbeeyap]

no. kasi if he's from a wealthy family, then hindi kami pareho ng tastes, in short di kami magka wave-length. i had a bf before who turned out to be a rich man's kid, and we did not last long. iba kasi trip nya,  iba outlook nya sa life. kasi nga may pera. when i found out he was richness pala, and was introduced to his world, parang ang hirap huminga, and i suddenly could not imagine my life with him, kahit pa he gives hints na we would be living here or there in the future. imbis na matuwa, i just thought of all the adjustments i would have to make to fit into his world. and di ko kaya yun. baka maging telenovela. 

i would be attracted to men na at least kalevel ko lang financially and knows how to handle money. madiskarte kumbaga.

[meisaia]

i'd be a hypocrite if i say no.

but... it's not everything i look for in a guy. plus points lang yan. i prefer to look at the whole package. parang kapag bibili ka ng damit, you don't consider buying it just because of the cute collar design. you buy it because it fits you perfectly, it's trendy, it's affordable etc.

[hot_chili]

I find men who are business minded and streetsmart sooo attractive... 1 million pogi points 

super duper agree! I dont like the super prim and proper, serious, uptight rich guys