Do u find men with money attractive?

[beautiful lady]

i wouldn't say sexy... of course, i never really used that word in particular with regards to men because i find it aggressive... but i do find men with money more appealing. 

depends though...

if he was born with money, it's how he uses his money and uses it to gain more...

but, if he was self-made and got rich through his own hard work, i can respect that more...


my bottom line is, a man who works hard will always be able to take care of his family.  whether he is rich... or not.

[freeswan]

siguro if they earn those money, still know how to earn more money, use their money wisely and generous (ok lang frugal, not stingy), then maybe yes.

pero i've dated guys who are filthy rich but are assholes so no, thank you!

[Poleng]

i appreciate the fact that they can afford materially (well-off ones)
but they can't afford my feelings, so no. besides, no need to aim for them syempre don't settle for slackers na, kuripot pa. its always gonna be a give and take thang. :3

[jeck43]

Not always, I find them sexier if they handle their money wisely...pero hindi kuripot.

[blissevents]

i would have to agree that it's a factor but he has to be smart to be sexy.

[pinkk]

eto, may new twist dito
http://ph.news.yahoo.com/pep/20101126/ten-ariel-villasanta-signed-a-prenup-to-fb4fa78.html

[mistiqshannen]

It helps make them sexier pero hindi lahat money nalang.
aanhin ko naman ang money if ang itsura a di ko feel or ang ugali hindi OK diba..

[carmilina]

DUH?! bakit kaya daming celebrity and models ang papanget ng asawa pero mayaman

girls are attracted to wealth

guys are into looks.

fair lang.

===korek..

mas attracted ako sa guy na madiskarte to have money..pero kung mayamn na panget ugali..syte ka!kapal mo!at panget pa......
kapal n taklaga yun

[luisacart]

not really.. i find intelligent men sexy. usually though intelligent men do make good money careerwise. so those guys are uber sexy! meron din naman akong mga kilalang lalaki na anak mayayaman pero ngek naman, mga losers din.

[iloveshoes88]

The thing is with me I like them better with it. I always fall for successful guys not that I'm looking for a sugar daddy (I have a good paying job). Of course I like being pampered at times, it's just that successful guys makes you feel secure and proud.

Before when I was still single, whenever I ask a guy about their work, kapag sinasabi nila na staff or whatever low profile work, I already know that he's not going to be my type kahit pa sobrang gwapo or sobrang bait.

I know it's not good but it's just me LOL. I know what I want. 

[tennisgirl]

kahit di masyado gwapo basta presentable, intelligent and masipag ok saken compared dun sa mga guys na gwapo nga pero tamad naman. i know some guys na good-looking pero palamunin ng mga wives nila.

[pinkk]

this is one interesting blog from a guy
http://menshealthph.com/?p=423

[douxmadchen]

I think men with money, meaning they are intelligent and successful in their careers, are really attractive. For as long as they look neat and presentable, pwede na. They don't have to be super gwapo or the likes. 

[poshgal24]

I like a man with a backbone and who knows how to make money and to take care of his woman--both emotionally and financially. I love generosity in a relationship and I take it as a sign of being a gentleman when the guy is generous without being arrogant.

I also like men who are smart, quiet and observant when it comes to business. Ayoko yung mashadong show off na may business ako ganyan ganyan, gusto ko magugulat na lang ako ang laki pala ng negosyo nya di man lang halata.
 
I hate stingy cheap men.

[cherub.rock]

^well said sis. couldn't agree more.

to answer the question.. do i find men with money sexier? yes, in a way that money is an indication or a gauge of the man's stability, financial sensibility, productivity and hardwork. in short, i want a stable, sensibile, and hardworking man. yung kaya akong buyahin, although i have always believed that i should be able to stand on my own two feet with or without a man. gusto ko yung madiskarte na tao and merong ambisyon sa buhay. i want a man to be generous to me. but most of all, i want a quiet and humble man. that despite his money, he keeps his feet on the ground.

with that said, i don't find men whose money is not really his. yung tipong galing sa parents, money earned in corrupt and illegal ways

[tennisgirl]

^well said sis. couldn't agree more.

to answer the question.. do i find men with money sexier? yes, in a way that money is an indication or a gauge of the man's stability, financial sensibility, productivity and hardwork. in short, i want a stable, sensibile, and hardworking man. yung kaya akong buyahin, although i have always believed that i should be able to stand on my own two feet with or without a man. gusto ko yung madiskarte na tao and merong ambisyon sa buhay. i want a man to be generous to me. but most of all, i want a quiet and humble man. that despite his money, he keeps his feet on the ground.

with that said, i don't find men whose money is not really his. yung tipong galing sa parents, money earned in corrupt and illegal ways

super agree!

[caloy168]

i wouldn't say sexy... of course, i never really used that word in particular with regards to men because i find it aggressive... but i do find men with money more appealing. 

depends though...

if he was born with money, it's how he uses his money and uses it to gain more...

but, if he was self-made and got rich through his own hard work, i can respect that more...


my bottom line is, a man who works hard will always be able to take care of his family.  whether he is rich... or not.

very well said ms. beautiful lady.   a practical yet stick to reality POV of yours

[pinkk]

other people's thoughts to go by:
http://www.philstar.com/Article.aspx?articleId=657128&publicationSubCategoryId=82

[tennisgirl]

other people's thoughts to go by:
http://www.philstar.com/Article.aspx?articleId=657128&publicationSubCategoryId=82

nabasa ko na sis. true lahat ang sinabi ng author. kasi naman nowadays, maraming couples ang bongga ang mga weddings pero after that wala na silang panggastos sa mga importanteng bagay.

[mihaihere]

There was an episode of Oprah tackling this issue wherein she showed pictures of 3 guys to a group  of girls, and the same pics of the 3 guys with their yearly income to another set of girls. Guess what? In the end the guy who ended up being last in the purely looks category ended up in number one when his pic included his yearly salary

The explanation of the sociologist was that while men look at women's boobs or tits because they are looking for mates who are most apt at rearing offspring and this is the most visible factor, women look at stability and protection from their mates. In the hunting and gathering eon, it meant that men who killed the biggest bears or what not were the most "handsome" and translate that to modern age, the man who has the fattest bank account can be best provider a woman looks for \o/