pag wala ba suitor ang isang girl, ibig sabihin pangit siya?

[angelzero]

Nope.

In my experience, hindi ako naging ligawin ever. I thought I was too nerdy pero may mga nerds naman na nagkaka bf. I thought I looked mataray pero may mga mukhang mataray naman na nagkaka bf. I thought I was ugly may mga panget naman na nagkaka bf. So after years of self-doubt and self-deprecating, na-conclude ko na height issue lang talaga. Tall girls like me simply look intimidating.

[sacred cow]

^ tall girls are not intimidating, they're just not as attractive. parang short guy din lang na nakakaturn off para sa
ibang mga babae

[caramelli]

isang malaking ekis. i have friends whom i can say "average looking" pero NBSB sila. hindi ko rin alam kung bakit nga ba wala silang suitor.

^^if i may ask sis, how tall are you?

[Kady_14]

No,

Siguro guys are intimidated lang or they think sayang ang effort nila kasi hindi naman sila papatusin.

I was never ligawin, pero may mga ngpapahapyaw even when i was still in gr4 naalala ko. Umuwi ako sa Bulacan kasi namatay ang lolo ng Nanay ko. May kapitbahay dun na tinatanung yung 2nd cousin ko kung sino ako and if pwede ko dalawin? DUH? Galit na galit ako ang bata ko pa nun. MUkha na kasi ko dalaga kasi matangkad na ako nuon.

In HS i was very active in extra curricular and makapal talaga mukha ko, may mga ngpaparinig, papahapyaw pero di ko sila ineencourage. Inaaway ko. Bakit? Hindi ko sila type. Saka gusto ko friends lang kami, i don't find them BF material. Iba-ibang kaso din, like not too smart, not pogi, too maloko for me. (Choosy din naman ako. Hindi basta magka BF lang)

Mautak ang asawa ko, kinaibigan muna ako. Nung senior hs na kami, madalas na punta sa bahay namin, padala dala ng chocolates (ofw kasi dad nya so madami sila lagi chocolates) Sabi ko "Nililigawan mo ba ako?" Sabi niya, "Feeling mo naman" Ayan dalawa na anak namin.

The right one's there for you somewhere. We also have to choose well.

[angelzero]

^ tall girls are not intimidating, they're just not as attractive. parang short guy din lang na nakakaturn off para sa
ibang mga babae

thanks, man.

[angelzero]

isang malaking ekis. i have friends whom i can say "average looking" pero NBSB sila. hindi ko rin alam kung bakit nga ba wala silang suitor.

^if i may ask sis, how tall are you?

5'8"

[cute_pompom]

5'8"

You're really tall. Then if you wear high heels pa almost 6 feet ka na. Buti di conscious un bf mo when you're wearing heels.

[caramelli]

^^ang tangkad mo nga talaga sis, halos kasing tangkad mo yung youngest bro ko. ako pinakamaliit sa amin at 5'4".

[angelzero]

^ako din yung pinakamaliit sa min. we're a brood of giants! 

^^di ako nagsusuot ng heels. di ko lang style. and i'm flat-footed kaya mahirap din magsuot nun. kahit gusto ni bf mag heels ako, ayoko hahaha!

[caramelli]

^ha? pinakamaliit ka pa nun? hehe!

[Kady_14]

Sis, mag BF ka ng basketball player! Tambay ka sa Araneta. lol.

[cute_pompom]

^ako din yung pinakamaliit sa min. we're a brood of giants! 

^^di ako nagsusuot ng heels. di ko lang style. and i'm flat-footed kaya mahirap din magsuot nun. kahit gusto ni bf mag heels ako, ayoko hahaha!

Wow! you're lucky that your bf wants your to wear high heels.

[izzybaby]

had fun reading this thread. i'm intimidating (daw), tall (indeed), and chubby (well, longest problem ever). first & third I can do something but being tall, best I can do is wear flats all the time.

[sacred cow]

had fun reading this thread. i'm intimidating (daw), tall (indeed), and chubby (well, longest problem ever). first & third I can do something but being tall, best I can do is wear flats all the time.

^ or you could start approaching guys and be the first one to make a move

[izzybaby]

^ i better build up stomach strength to do that.

[sixteen16]

syempre HINDE! kahit ano pa ang hitsura ng tao, may taong nakatadhana para sa kanya.. hindi pa ngayon ang tamanag panahon para sa lovelife nya..

[KittiEKittiE]

I don't believe na pag walang suitor ibig sabihin pangit na, ang dami dyan na di kagandahan pero may mga bf. IMO, one of the reasons is that they are not interesting enough.

[lawrence01]

Not really pangit. Its a big chance that guys are just intimidated or takot ba coz of strong personality. possible din yun guy na ang tipo eh tulad nya, hindi pa sya nakikilala. In case intimidated ang reason then try to make them feel youre approachable.

[Fluffyheart]

May mga guys naman na gusto nila yuung girl pero hindi nila makuhang ligawam. What's wrong guys?!
Bat puro ligaw-tingin lang. Itry niyo naman kasi! 
Minsan nadulas yata yung guy buddy ko, ang sabi niya, "kagaya mo. Di kita maligawan kasi alam mo yun... Para bang langit ka tapos lupa ako. Parang ganun." 

[onlygirl]

meron lang mga girls na di lapitin ng guys.  siguro hormones has something to do with that also. siguro din merong tingin ang guys na di gf material ang isang girl o kaya tingin nila di madaling mabobola kaya would rather not court the girl.  di ko sinasabi na yung babaeng madaming suitors e madaling mabola ha.