pag wala ba suitor ang isang girl, ibig sabihin pangit siya?

[tipC_shoegal]

The absence of a suitor in a woman's life definitely doesn't equate to her being un-pretty. To me, that's just a shallow assumption although we all know that physical attraction does play quite a definitive part in courtship, it still has a great chance of evolving because beauty can certainly fade or, it could also be enhanced by attitude as time would go by.

Some reasons have already been posted as to why some women have no suitors and all of them, I agree with. There are just some of our kind who aren't the "ligawin" type as compared to others who are "right-off-the-bat" attractive. There are women who build walls that the opposite sex cannot easily break into and that in itself is already a hindrance for them to be attractive but there will always be exceptions to some men. If a guy finds nonchalance and stubbornness attractive, then perhaps, she'd gain a suitor but again, we cannot really go too particular.

 

[mariebiscuit]

oh yes meron me co worker ,shes beautiful and nice but somehow wala nanliligaw...me may asawa na,napagkamalan pang dalaga,may nagtangkang manligaw na intern, kasi naatract daw sya sa mata ko...so simula noon hindi na me tumitingin ng diretso lalo na sa guys, i know naman na its in my eyes,,kahit hubby ko nagsabi na nagayuma daw sya ng mga mata hehe,,,looks inocent din daw me,,so sa mga girls try nyo lagyan ng spark eyes nyo by thinking positive...huwag masyado make up,simple lang ...

[derkunstler]

in my opinion, parand hindi naman.. I know some people na di naman super ganda pero appealing and personality kaya maraming nanliligaw.

[pinkbubbles17]

Not really..wala naman sa looks yan..infact there are lots of beautiful girls pero ever since walang bf or suitors..may reasons kung bakit..and sana people wont judge others na porket walang nanliligaw sinasabi panget na..

[superdaisy]

siguro yung iba oo, yung iba naman choosy. yung iba naman suplada.

[Hesler]

It depends yan sa environment ng Girl, kahit ba sobra ganda niya kung puro torpe nakapalibot wala din. Ako napaka mahiyain ko sa mga girls na magaganda parang ang taray nila

[Dhee-Dhee]

hindi naman. marami akong friends na NBSB, pero hindi naman sila pangit. hindi lang siguro talaga ligawin.

[Cyndee]

like ko itong thread na ito ha...nakakarelate ako DATI...yan din ang tanong ko sa sarili ko before... I always ask my friends na bakit kayo may mga BF and suitors ako wala..panget ba ko...at ayun icocomfort na nila ako.. eto lang ang na realize ko kung baket wala akong love life before.. una eh hindi ako pala labas as in night out..mall lang talaga ang hilig ko.. second wala me halos guy friends as in puro girls..galing xe ako sa all girls school. pangatlo hindi ako palaayos... then i graduated from college nag ka trabaho.. natutu mag ayos and to dress up a little hehe.. then i met my husband.. so para saken it does not mean that if you are single or no one is admring you eh panget na agad.. it just that you haven't met the man God has chosen for you. 

[pinkbubbles17]

It depends yan sa environment ng Girl, kahit ba sobra ganda niya kung puro torpe nakapalibot wala din. Ako napaka mahiyain ko sa mga girls na magaganda parang ang taray nila

let's admit minsan kasi sis pag sobrang ganda mga boys natatakot baka mabasted..kaya siguro walang gusto magtry..

[Filipinasadhart]

nope , naiilang lang siguro ang mga boys sa kanya. walang lakas ng loob. hindi ibig sabhin no panget yun girl.

[comp_nurse]

baka may off sa kanila. like maganda nga di naman maganda hygiene. like when i was in HS may schoolmate ako ang ganda ang tangkad, half german kasi kaso ang lakas ng PUTOK. as in naninipa. syempre iyong mga boys naiwas sa kanya. although malinis siya tingnan iba talaga amoy niya. iyong iba naman bad breath. o kaya pag one of the boys ka. boys see you as their buddy or dude. kaya di ka naliligawan kasi mas astig ka pa sa kanila. syempre intimidating sa boys yun. like when i was in elementary, mga boys na friends ko hinahamon akong suntukan. LOL! i grow up in an all boys crowd kasi 5 kami ako lang ang girl kaya boyish talaga ko. but when i was in HS i joined some beauty contest in and out of school ayun medyo naging girly-girly na ko kaya naligawan na din. hehe. or kung masyado kang mataray, tipong palapit pa lang iyong guy nakabusangot ka na, syempre may tendency na matakot silang i approach ka.

case to case basis kasi yan. so maybe you have to ask some close guy friends anong mali sayo bakit wala kang suitor. malamang kahit papano may maiaadvice sila.

[ullala]

Medyo I can relate to this thread.

What I always hear from my guy friends is that I have more balls than most guys kaya they prefer to be friends with me. On top of that physically, intimidating din ako kasi I'm tall, lean with taray facial features. Baka raw mag mukha silang totoy beside me. Oh well. Hahahaha! And grabe ako mang-bara...

In the end though, i don't feel a need to change my attitude or the way I dress just to become more marketable. I don't think it always boils down to looks

[Filipinasadhart]

well, i can relate to this kind of situation. i feel so ugly. wala kase ako suitor ngayon. i dnt know why? maybe im upset right now kaya ganito ang nafefeel ko. huhuhu

[Serena.]

It might be youre snob or sobra sunget kaya iwas ang mga lalaki sayo. Ganyan ako nung HS, LOL, walang makalapit sa mata ko pa lang, haha! Nung nagcollege lang ako naging open sa mga friends na lalaki.



xo

[Hesler]

minsan kasi yung ibang girls picky kasi depende din sa environment gaya pag ang lugar kung saan siya madalas eh ang mga lalake eh hindi kanais nais eh bat nga naman siya mag papaligaw sa Kumag diba.

[sugar n spice]

hindi din... me kilala ako maganda sana kaso baduy na manang pa.

e baket me mga panget na ligawin? kasi maporma na malandi pa

[superbubly]

its all about personality kung minsan, yung inner beauty ang malakas makaattract ng manliligaw

[ldrwifey]

ako hindi din ligawin  mataray kasi ako

sa buong single life ko 2 lang ang talagang nanligaw sakin, yung isa kong friend na ilang beses ko din binasted and of course si hubby. when i say nanligaw yung talagang nageffort ah, hindi yung mga sira ulong magsasabing gusto nila ako tapos konting taray at bluff ko lang umuurong n.

maganda naman daw ako, hehe... pero talagang hindi ligawin, so keri n lang. pero yung bunso namin elem p lang hinahabol n ng mga manliligaw

[Serena.]

hindi din... me kilala ako maganda sana kaso baduy na manang pa.

e baket me mga panget na ligawin? kasi maporma na malandi pa

HAHAHAHHAH! Natawa naman ako dito.

[AnyaRain]

ouchness!  haha

ako rin eh hindi ligawin..
maituturing na NBSB
pero may mga naging SFs (Special Friends)
at MUs na ren..
wala PA na lang formal BF
hahaha