SILENT FEELINGS TO YOUR IN-LAWS ...POST IT HERE!!!

[peninsula]

i superlike this thread. naaliw ako basahin ang mga post. nasa p.7 pa lang ako. gusto ko basahain lahat. i wish i already knew about female network when i got married and i wish there was a thread like this then...gabi na dito, bukas na ako magpost about my in-laws. mahaba-haba eh

[k_heart]

ha!ha!ha! Sorry naman, natawa ako dun sa bakit kamukha mo ang anak ko!he!he!

[FayeP]

Dear MIL,

matanda ka na umayos ayos ka nga...wala kami yaya ng anak mo, at syempre since ako ang nagwowork at sya ang nasa bahay, ibig sabihin nun, sya ang nag aalaga ng bata, gets mo ba??? wag kang text ng text sa anak mo at misscall ng miss call para pumunta cya dyan at tulungan ka mag alaga sa asawa mo.  Asawa mo un noh kaw mag alaga...!!!


BWIIIISSSSEEEEETTTT!!!!!!

[slovy]

To all my IL's


Thank you so much for the love and care you've showed to me. I'm so lucky to have you guys in my life. Ako na yata ang pinakamaswerteng hipag sa mundo. Wala kayong katulad.. I love you very very much. Take care of your health always. May the good lord shower you many more blessings pa, you deserve it naman.. Miss you guys!♥ 

[docbubwit]

[textspeak!]: Thank you for being supportive to us. We appreciate the space, the respect that you give us - for the decisions that we make and how you encourage us when these decisions don't work the way we want them to.

MIL: Thank you for your support too. I appreciate your golden nuggets of wisdom. However, I really would appreciate it if you could tone down your favoritism towards your youngest son, his wife and your first grandchild who happens to be a girl- one that you've been waiting for a long time. Your worries that your youngest son's line of work is not secure (being a seaman) should be toned down because this is the kind of career that he chose. How you dote on him and worry about his future, I would appreciate it if you could also see your eldest son's (my hubby) efforts to make our future more secure. You outrightly told us that you will purchase a motorbike for your youngest son and when my hubby jokingly asked how about him- you answered, "kasi kawawa ang kapatid mo". What you are being blind to is the fact that my hubby bought his own car with his own money, is finishing his master's degree with his own money while working, has been financially independent ever since he left home to work abroad. You drove that burning knife straight to my heart. That was really painful for me to see how you could rub your "favoritism" in front of my husband's face. I am aware and understand how you can be so happy for your first grandchild but to take pity on my SIL's family because of tight finances especially with the construction of the new house. You have to see that SIL did leave her job to go on "vacation" with BIL and then got pregnant then got married. But for you to insist that the baby be baptized while my BIL is about to be home in a month- yet you cannot wait because of flimsy reasons really showed how you want to call the "shots" and expect that everybody will follow you. I am thankful that we are far away from you and that I have a job to make a stand as to how our lives are to be lived. Just tone down on the favoritism. My hubby is not oblivious to it, he is just very understanding.

SIL: Make yourself productive to help BIL. You have your sister with you at my in-laws' place with a helper and a caretaker for the child. What are you still doing at home? You cannot use breastfeeding per demand as an excuse because there is an invention called the breast pump. Think about your hubby (my BIL) and if you pity him for working so hard to provide you a home, help him with the finances. You have no reason to stay home and do nothing.

BIL: I admire how you stood by your decision and now working hard for your family. If you thought of the whole set-up earlier, you would have realized that building the house would have been less stressful for you financially and emotionally had you allowed the baby to be born first then save up for the house. No, you just jumped into building the house and now you are having headaches about it. Take your time. You have the advantage of staying with the in-laws until you get your finances solid for your next move.

[Mai]

2. Bakit kamuhka mo ang anak ko?

Winner! Eto din ang hinanakit ko!

[twelvth_goddess]

I hope you realize that your youngest is developing ill feelings towards you. Time with you is what she needs.

[hyder0926]

I don't want to a ungrateful b**** but sometimes your lies get to me.. I learn from others the truth you try to hide from me & my hubby.. You are great with my child but I already saw you busy doing other things & leaving my son in the maid's care but in front of my hubby you always insist that we don't need a nanny because you are there for our son.. =( and as per your maid she has been taking care of my son every afternoon.

lastly don't let your younger son use our room for his dalliances with his GF. Its simply disgusting because our marital bed is being used by others.

[momentum]

pinagkaisahan pala ninyo ako MIL and SIL about the infedelity of (ex)hubby before??!!!! 

wow, alalang alala ko pa how I asked you two if you knew all this time, kasi hindi naman kayo nagreact nung sinabi ko sa inyo when I found out. Sabi ninyo HINDI, with A STRAIGHT F*CKING FACE!! i knew deep inside alam na ninyo yun, pero iba parin kapag kinonfirm nang misomong gumawa!!!!!!! 

LIARS TALAGA KAYONG MAGPAMILYA!!!!!     
MAGSAMA SAMA KAYO!!!!

[sorry, just venting out]

[chofontanilla]

MIL- I want you to know na mukha ka ng pera. Yung 3 anak mo inis na ng sobra sayo lalo na yung asawa ko. Magsama kayo ng paborito mong anak na pulis patola. Pakitang tao pa na nilalaro mo anak ko pero halata naman mas gusto mo yung isa kasi mas madaming pera. Di ko kailangan ng awa mo kasi mas nakakaawa ka.

[Pretty_ava]

to my SIL- teh, hindi mo yaya si Joan, kaya pwede ba ikaw magligpit ng kalat mo, hindi pwdeng excuse sa akin na spoiled ka at walang ginagawa sa bahay nyo, nakatira ka sa akin kaya rules ko dapat masusunod.  Kung gagawin mong yaya ang yaya ng pamangkin mo, bigyan mo naman kahit pang load man lang ang bata, teh, paalala lang ako nagpapa sweldo kay joan hindi ikaw kaya matuto ka naman magbigay kahit bente na pang load.napaka senyorita mo na nga sa bahay ko, biruin mo, kain tulog lang gawa mo.  subukan mo lang mag reklamo sa pagkain na hinahain sa you, makakatikim ka ng masasakit na salita coming from me.  pagsamahin ko pa kayo ng kuya mo eh, lagi tanggol ng tanggol sa iyo.

at to my MIL-  aleng ano, mabuti na lang di tayo magkalapit ng bahay, buti na lang malayo tayo sa isat isa, at kung hindi malamang matagal na tayong war, pati gatas na binili mo para sa apo mo, sinisingil mo ako, eh sabi nga ni father in law bigay nya yun tapos ikaw todo ka maka singil, di na talaga tayo magiging close kasi naman, mas mataray ako sa iyo, binigyan ka na nga ng gift nung xmas, ayaw mo pa may reklamo ka pa, kesyo amoy alak daw ang perfume na binigay namin...ano ba teh??can't you just say thank you?

Father in law and MIL-  ano bey?  tagal nyo ng press release na bibili kayo ng kotse until now wala pa din, pwede ba next time wag na kayo mag pre press release kasi buong bayan ang nakakaalam puro drawing naman kayo.

[bluewingedangel]

- please, darating din po ang baby in God's perfect time. darating kung darating. intindihin nyo naman ang kalagayan ko din, in the meantime sana hindi nyo i-take against me. life is short, hmm kayo din, haha! -

[kuliglig^^]

SIL,

utang na loob. keep your comments to yourself. kung feeling mo nakakatulong, eh hindi. ang tactless kasi ng pagkakasabi.

[kettlekorn28]

Akala ko po ba atat na atat na kayong magkaapo, at ikaw SIL magkapamangkin? Bakit ngayong nabuntis na ako pagkatapos ng apat na taon, mukhang di kayo affected? dedma lang kayo sa paglobo ng tiyan ko. hmp! magulo talaga ang utak nyo. sana di nyo maging kamukha ang baby ko. kung magkataon, kaawa-awa naman nya.

[myleia27]

SIL -- Pwede bang bayaran mo yung utang mo sa amin na mahigit 30k? pa press release ka pa na mayaman kayo, kahit piso wala kang maibigay. Kung mayaman ka, bakit ka nangutang sa amin in the first place para makalabas ka ng hospital? asan yung yaman na pinagsasabi mo? pinamumukha mo pa kung may bago at "branded" ka na gamit, akala mo bibilib ako sayo? yun na ba yung sinasabi mo na "mayaman" kayo? hindi ako bibilib sayo hanggang lubog ka sa utang sa akin. magbayad ka muna bago mo ako pagmalakihan. kahit anong pa sosyal mo hindi ako tatablan ng pagkukunwari mo. ewww ka!

[mdy]

You can get mad at me aas much and as long as you want, I don't care! Hindi naman ako galit sayo so that makes a difference. Chaka hindi mo naman ako kayang pagsalitaan eh hahaha! And please, kung ma-pride ka be consistent. Hindi lahat ng gamit ko hinihiram mo. Galit ka diba? Sandali mo nalang ako pagtitiisan, kayang-kaya mo yan Pag-alis namen, back to bili ng lutong-ulam na naman kayo at de lata. Hinay-hinay lang baka magkasakit, mas lalo mo pahihirapan mga anak mo. Please?

[hyder0926]

pwede ba tanungin namin kami tungkol sa anak namin? kasi anak ko yun... hinde sya sayo!

[stormy_princess]

BIL, kung pwede lang kitang sunugin ng buhay ginawa ko na. B****t ka sa buhay ko. pabigat ka masyado. ang sikip ng mundo ko pag nakikita kita lalo na yung baluga mong dyowa! umakyat na lang kayo ng bundok tralala dun kayo nababagay!

[mishmish]

MIL: Hay magkikita ulit tayo

[Evolet2012]

MIL : masyado ka mabait mama, pero pls [textspeak!] ang money na para sayo wag mo naman ipamodmod sa ibang anak, tapos ikaw nauubusan,bigay na naman kmi sayo.to my oldest SIL, kala ko muon mabait ka, kala din ng marami, muntik mo pa kmi pag awayin na mag asawa buti na [textspeak!] very open kmi ni mr, na find out namin nag twist k ng words, ginawa mo pa issue na Hindi ako ng bonding sa inyo, pwde ba pwde ba 10 yrs ago pa last na uwi ko sa pinasof course gusto ko rin mag spend time sa sarili kong family, kya si mr dyan  ako sa Amin more ang time we both agreed to that, malaking issue sayo?...