who is pressured here on getting married?

[xchakadalx]

^lam mo, ako pabiro kong sinabihan yung bf ko nun na pag 28 nako tapos wala pa din syang plano iiwan ko sya. buti nalang before i turned 28 napag-usapan na namin ng masinsinan yung kasal, i got married by the time i turned 29. almost 1 1/2 years kase namin pinagplanuhan yung wedding eh.

ako rin, dati pressured makasal na since matagal tagal na kame ng then bf ko. pag may nagkikita mga friends namin matagal na di nakita, ang bati, "o kelan ang kasal?" or "wala pa ba kayo balak magpakasal?". buti kung yun lang, minsan may kasama pang "tumatanda na kayo, baka mahirapan na magkaanak.." hay... ngiti nalang ang sagot namin nun. annoying di ba?

Haay sis, you said it! We've been together for almost 8 yrs na, I've been back from abroad for 6 months now. I tried going away partly to let him have space to think thoroughly what he really wants to do with our relationship. In fairness though, we've been talking a lot about marriage lately, our "plans", etc. But yun na nga, hanggang "plans" lang ba ito??

Right now I'm really down, his younger sis just announced na her bf's family will come by their house this Sunday for the "pamamanhikan" na. I am happy for them but it just got me thinking and asking my bf mentally "what about you, what about us?"

I did tell him I'm setting a deadline na for him. I told him months ago na if he wouldn't propose pa this June or July I'm going back abroad and start my own life na. And I really mean it, although the thought of losing him kills me but what can I do, I can't wait forever for him to make up his mind...

[lablab002]

I am turning 23 and napepressure na ko.. Hay :s

[sweet_cherry]

present! at 26 lang ako ha, kaka break ko lang.

[princess_brat]

present, parents and friends are all pressuring me to have a lovelife eh im not even dating now.

[sweetubeng]

I know the agony of waiting is so strong that sometimes we think that giving up is the best thing to do. But please don’t give up…. Hold on and be patient. I know the feeling of being pressured kasi lahat na din ng batch and friends ko may asawa na at malalaki na mga anak kamusta naman yun?

pero now that im married at the age of 31 madami natuwa kasi sa wakas nakahabol din daw ako sa huling byahe haha! but then minsan inisip ko what if di na lang muna ako nag asawa  mas masaya pa din maging single!  kaya mga sis naku wag intindihin ang pagiging single wag mag papressure sa mga nakapaligid sa inyo important happy kayo hindi kasi solution na pag married ka na e masaya na. akala mo lang yun but reality its just the beginning  of anew challenging life. hayyy! Goodluck

[chicgurl]

^ sis!!! you're back hehe

pakinggan niyo si sweetubeng haha kakakasal lang niya ngayon nasa ibayong dagat na haha

miss u sis..

[sweetubeng]

^haha sis tama ka hehe... ano na nga ba yong kwento mo sis curious lang talaga ako parang dika na ata nag FB ah.. miss you din sis

[chicgurl]

^ haha send ko sayo sa PM dito! super long story eh pero ito ang latest hahaha. sorry OT.

[chubbycheeks]

I don't feel pressured.  But I get offended when someone asks me why I'm not married yet.  Hello!  How can I answer that?  Have these people never been single? 

[damselindistress17]

I don't feel pressured.  But I get offended when someone asks me why I'm not married yet.  Hello!  How can I answer that?  Have these people never been single? 

Same here. I am definitely not pressured, pero naooffend talaga ako pag sinasabi nila na I should get married na. Not my parents ah, other people. Hello naman. 22 pa lang ako magaasawa na ako? Other girls my age kasi are already married and have kids already. Of course, I want that to happen to me din naman, pero not anytime soon. Ang dami ko pang gustong gawin sa buhay ko, and I want to enjoy pa life.

[jdash]

^ tell them in Janina way "NO, I DON'T FEEL ANY PRESSURE RIGHT NOW!" 

[foxygirlash]

share ko lang.. my sister is 34, and happily single.pag reunion namin, most relatives ask her when she'll get married (most of her friends are married, annulled or separated except for her gay and lesbian friends). Sinasabi nya pag may nagtatanong, ihanap nyo ko ng bilyunaryo, mag aasawa ako. Ayun, nagtatawanan na yung mga relatives ko and they wld even say, sabagay sa hirap ng buhay ngaun no?

[shopaholic18]

last time ang nag pressure sakin family, may long term bf ako nun, but then ngayon i met someone na umpisa palang ng relationship alam na yung gusto,ready and stable na para mag asawa, now i have to handle pressure of my family and him, why? i think he's gonna propose anytime soon kasi planado na lahat eh, time nalang kulang. although i still have a few months to think about it but for sure paghahandaan at pag iisipan ko to ng mabuti. ask ako ng ask nung dumating na ayun nagulat naman ako, basta sabi sakin ng mga married friends ko, if you feel like it, go. minsan dadating daw talaga yun when you least expect it.

[missreese]

i'm 27, at isa ako sa napepressured na... sa aming magkakapatid ako na lang ang walang asawa. di ko alam kung maaantay ko pa si bf na pag nag 30 years old na ko.. although halos ng friends back in highschool and college eh wala pa ding mga asawa na mas matanda pa sakin. :-S

[amazingheart]

share ko lang.. my sister is 34, and happily single.pag reunion namin, most relatives ask her when she'll get married (most of her friends are married, annulled or separated except for her gay and lesbian friends). Sinasabi nya pag may nagtatanong, ihanap nyo ko ng bilyunaryo, mag aasawa ako. Ayun, nagtatawanan na yung mga relatives ko and they wld even say, sabagay sa hirap ng buhay ngaun no?

hindi din. my friend got married at 35 kasi milyonaryo napangasawa nya akala nya gloria na sya at ang pamilya kasi jackpot daw nya pero pagkakasal nila ayun nagsimula kalbaryo nya. galante talaga si lalaki at pati pamilya nung friend ko suportado din kaso sadista pala pinoposas daw sya pag nag makelove sila at kung ano ano pa pinapagawa dipa daw sya malaya lumabas. kaya ayun sising sisi sya sabi nya nagpakatanda ako para lang mapili ang the best" ayun nga milyonaryo nga kaso di naman sya masaya. akala daw nya pera ang katapat para maging masaya ang buhay pag asawa kaya ngayon balak nya makipaghiwalay.

[kawen]

I'm 27.. I am pressuring myself, my son is turning 2 na and I want him to grow up with a father figure, well actually we have plans.. pero I still have career and financial goals, so as HE and we're not yet financially stabled.. so WE plan to get married at 30.. sana..

[Pink_Sugar]

yung mga tao sa paligid namin ang pressured. 
im 27, he's 25.
8 years na kaming bf-gf (parehas first namin).
hindi kami live-in at wala pa kami anak.

[femmea]

Me! 'cause of my age.

[mypurplesummer]

No pressure from family. I'm actually the one pressuring myself cause I'm 22 y.o na, just had a relationship 3months ago.. haha.
But I'm still enjoying my life being single though.
I'd rather wait than hurry myself jump into any relationship.

[blatherina]

Ay naku, kahit anung pressure ang i-exert ng mundo sa'yo, keber. It's your life, after all. La silang paki. Ikaw lang ang makakapagsabi kung kelan ka handa.