love you can't have :(

[mchllgf]

  me i guess.. the love i cant have was when i was in college.. i fell in love (love nga kaya??)to this guy who happened to be 10 years older than me. successful businessman; tall (6 feet and 2 inches); cute and smells good all the time.

i was just 18 years old nun.. then he was 28 at that time..

he's running his own business.. has a hobby of playing golf..
feeling ko whenever susunduin niya ako using his mercedez ako na ang pinakamagandang babae sa school.. haha siguro kasi at that time, sikat ka sa barkada when you have a bf like this..

then after 4 months of dating; here comes the news na magpapakasal na daw siya.. ouch! i never imagined him marrying me but i dont know why i am being hurt with the news that he had for me. i asked him why; he said its his parents choice for business sake..

siguro; what helps me to recover is by knowing my present bf. kaya hindi ako masyadong nafrustrate..

but the things is: even after 5 years he's still here texting..

[lilmissprettydiva]

with my college bestfriend. Sa sobrang ingat namin na wag masira ang friendship naming dalawa kahit we had feelings for each other eh iniwasan namin maging kami. Ayan, until now if someone is going to ask me who's my first one great love, si bestfriend yun. Kaya lang hindi talaga naging kami. Ngayon he's happily married at ako naman trying to fix my relationship with my bf since we're having problems lately na ako naman talaga may problema this time.

[mystical]

You never can tell when cupid hits you....


Married and happy with kids, fell in love with another who is on the same boat as me. But because we knew everything was wrong from the very start we called it quits.  It wasn't easy at all....

[jpsv72]

I had this bf of mine before, he's my first, but unfortunately my dad doesn't like him,had some challenges and didn't pass this, so he gave up on me. I blamed him for causing me to hate my dad, so as a mature woman now, He doesn't deserve my love, someone else deserves me. And he's my hubby now. Glad that our (my 1st ex bf) relationship didn't worked out, I met my hubby, though we have a rocky road to walk on, he still clings on me, never gives up on me, so He deserves the love that was supposed to be for my good for nothing first ex bf. Lucky for me 'coz if you will ask if I still have some feeling towards him? nothing, he is my best sample of previous head over heels "love but you can't have."

[angeleyed_princess]

love you can't have...
Culture differences (other nationality), religion (muslim) and now he is engage to be married
I love him so much and it kills me everytime i will remember that he will get married soon ( ( (

[teejiko]

Super relate ako dito

2yrs ago I was still married when I met him (online and he's single). Na-develop lang yung feelings ko sa kanya nung time na on the rocks kami ni ex-hubby. He's always there. Like everyday kausap ko siya, YM, CP (he uses their landline pa). We met twice. Then I realized that everything's wrong between the two of us though I must say na talagang nahulog loob ko sa kanya. Parang naging MU (parang bata) kami. I decided to end everything kasi pinili ko family ko kahit sobrang sakit. Sobrang nagalit siya sakin and nawalan kami ng communication totally.

My marriage ended January last year due to some differences na hindi na kayang ayusin. Then, bumalik sya mga June (saktong birthday ko pa!) kaso mo, kakasagot ko lang sa bf ko nun.

Nung bumalik siya pati feelings ko bumalik. I missed him so much. But I guess I could never have him. We're not meant to be

Masyado na atang mahaba hehe. Yun lang. Naishare ko lang

[missgoodvibe]

Hi mga sis! I would like to share this to you:
http://victoryubelt.org/main/wp-content/uploads/podcasts/seriesbreak_dsy_20110225.mp3

If you feel down, please listen to this. It had helped me to feel better about myself. Everytime naalala ko yung love na hindi kailanman mapapasakin, I listen to this. Share ko lang kasi gusto ko din makatulong.

[blackgreen]

Love you can't have..

For me, mas gusto ko pa yung i know, we know, that we both love each other but can't be together than an unrequited love.

this is what i'm feeling right now.. unrequited love. ayoko ng ganitong sitwasyon

[minikeyklush]

this is what i'm feeling right now.. unrequited love. ayoko ng ganitong sitwasyon

sobrang masakit ang unrequited love sis blackgreen just pray and be strong sis 

[blackgreen]

^Thanks sis. Sakit pa dun kasi sinabi niya in front of my face na hindi kami talo. Iniiwasan ko na nga lang eh.

[minikeyklush]

^Thanks sis. Sakit pa dun kasi sinabi niya in front of my face na hindi kami talo. Iniiwasan ko na nga lang eh.

sis question, bestfriend mo ba yung guy? sis kaya mo yan, acceptance is the key, makakagetover ka din dyan

[blackgreen]

^No sis. Hopefully maka get over na rin ako

[miss resilient]

the love that i can't have is the love that i share with my college friend...because i am married and he has a gf now ..and separated from his wife..so complicated..

[krnmprl]

love i can't have: married/2 kids

un na un eh. my soulmate. and I don't even believe in soulmates.

[sosychill]

the love i cant have, is what im dealing with right now..
i believe in true love..
but why can't I have this one?? 

[sweet.trish]

he's married, with a kid. just recently, he told me ill always be in his heart. and nothing has changed.
im with someone else now. i love this guy.
but my love for the married guy is really different. he is my great love.

[sweet_cherry]

both of us are single but he is super close to the family that he is almost family and my relatives wouldn't like it.. pero im hoping that it will push through

[yndy]

in my case ako ata yung love he cannot have...

we met before maging bf-gf kami ni hubby. we we're friends. i know there was something special but since wala siya sinasabi, walang nangyari. then naging bf ko si hubby iniwasan niya ako. almost a year kami hindi nag usap. then he greeted me on my birthday and spilled the beans. and he knows it's too late. still anjan pa din siya. no serious commitments.

fastforward, 3 years later, i married hubby. 6 months after the wedding... we're having problems... and siya lagi kong kausap... red lights flashing... i stopped all means of communications...

he texted me yesterday. told me he knew why i am evading him... and he said he'll wait. :"(

[gelvixen]

love i cant have??

hmm.. i think ito yung ex ko na hindi ko alam kung ano pa yung gagawin ko before para magustuhan niya ko ulit.. bigla syang nagbago. ayun di ko lang matanggap before.

and i have this flirty thing with my co medrep, hmm i think hes my ideal man na nga eh. all the qualities na sa kanya na then i suddenly found out that he had already 5 years old relationship with other gurl. sucks! "thats the love that i cant have" talaga! so complicated. then nag end kame with just a simple goodbye call. whew

[minikeyklush]

right now, single pa rin ako... in love with someone across the miles... pero hindi ko alam kung ano ba ako sa kanya... ang hirap ng ganito.... you have so much love to give pero it seems wala naman gustong tumanggap ng pagmamahal....

@sis the_dreamer i feel for you.. sakit nyan.. parang yung quote lang ni bob ong -

Hindi lungkot o takot ang mahirap sa pag-iisa kundi ang pagtanggap na sa ... wala man lang nakipaglaban upang makasama ka.” - Bob Ong

sana in due time may taong makaappreciate ng pagmamahal na yun..