love you can't have :(

[ashleyhan]

I had this so called love that I cannot have. He is married with 2 children. I love him so much that eventhough i know that he cannot leave his family for me, Im still there for him. A lot of things happened in our 8 months affair, he showed me unconditional love and affection. We almost run away together. but now I've finally come to realize that our love can never be. Its a perfect example of a true love in a wrong place and a wrong time. I wish I can get over him somehow.

[minikeyklush]

I had this so called love that I cannot have. He is married with 2 children. I love him so much that eventhough i know that he cannot leave his family for me, Im still there for him. A lot of things happened in our 8 months affair, he showed me unconditional love and affection. We almost run away together. but now I've finally come to realize that our love can never be. Its a perfect example of a true love in a wrong place and a wrong time. I wish I can get over him somehow.

@sis ashleyhan_ ang sad nyan..  in Gods time you'll be able to forget him.. Just keep on praying sis..

[ashleyhan]

@minikleykush: sis thank you ha! the problem with me is i've never learned. sana di na ko naniwala...im so depressed right now. nowhere to run, no one to talk to kase nga forbidden love affair. lahat ata ng tao  against us. I know I was the one to blame. sobrang lungkot:( ang hirap hirap. ang hirap ilet go lahat ng promises na ginawa nya...ang tang* ko

[kutingkulilit]

i met this guy one year ago. we met sa wedding ng isa naming common friend. actually they set me up to meet him after the reception. that night palang instant click na. he has almost all the qualities i look for in a guy. mabait, kalog, makulit in a sweet way, responsable, fun to be with, malambing, God fearing...basta halos lahat ng good qualities na hanap ko nasa kanya na. araw-araw kami magkausap sa text and calls, we go out on dates often. meron lang isang big conflict, magkaiba kami ng religion. we're both practicing out own faith and no one wants to give up and convert. hindi naging officially kami. we just went out with no commitment. but we're both exclusive. so to make the story short, he got tired of the set up cause he wanted a real relationship... one that i can't have with him, because i love my faith. so, we parted ways.

though im already seeing someone alse right now (no commitment yet), lagi ko parin sha naiisip... lagi ko parin sha namimiss. right now may gf na sha. minsan nagkakausap parin kami thru YM and text, friendly talks nalang. pero minsan sinasabi nya na namimiss parin nya ko, sayang daw kasi may conflict. but well, thats life. moving on...

[minikeyklush]

@sis ashleyhan ---> i know how hard it is sis,  but you knew from the start na talagang hindi kayo pwede, i koquote ko lang sis yung sinabi dun sa isang thread ni sis ysa.belle - u'll have to accept the fact na you can't be together kasi he already belongs to someone else.. You need to be strong sis, and sana you can start somewhere para lumabas pa dyan at magawa yung tama.. don't settle yourself with a relationship that will give you misery till the end.. I'm wishing you well sis.. and keep on praying to God to give you enough strength and serenity to accept things as they should be..  easier said than done pero yun ang nararapat na gawin...

@sis kutingkulilit --> true sis, ganun talaga, life is really unfair sometimes but we need to moved on kahit gaano pa yun kalungkot..  .. Kaya mo yan sis aja, at least you already have someone else na, start from there.. 

[Sun005]

Parang bitin kasi pag d naging kau. Un parang excited ka tapos biglang udlot. it happened to me.

[minikeyklush]

Parang bitin kasi pag d naging kau. Un parang excited ka tapos biglang udlot. it happened to me.

sis sun005 what happened? share naman jan sis.. 

[kutingkulilit]

yeah sis minikeyklush wag ipilit ang mga bagay-bagay, hehe.
kurek, lets all move forward!

[minikeyklush]

@kuting kulilit aja sis tee hee! kaya to.. 

[minikeyklush]

nangyari na to sa akin. masakit at mahirap pero kailangan tanggapin na pag hindi ukol eh di bubukol. wag ipilit ang hindi pwede. my story? check out my posts na lan. well, now im doing ok na...mending gaps between me and hubs.

@sis kettlekorn true enough, pag hindi ukol hindi talaga bubukol 

[pistachio nuts]

right from the start we knew we can't be together. we tried doing the "no expectations" thingy-- no go. ;(

now i can't talk to him about my feelings anymore, cos it's all about him this time.

[Sun005]

Well, This friend of mine didn't make it... The last time I asked her if she loves me, She replied "ALMOST".. But turned out.. Almost is just an almost... I can't have her cos yung almost nya, nawala na. LOL. I know she's seeing somebody else and left me hanging here. I still do have feelings for her, but I know someday, i can say na she's just a part of my Wishes

[michiko kazumi]

Love you can't have..

For me, mas gusto ko pa yung i know, we know, that we both love each other but can't be together than an unrequited love.

super relate ako dito sis...sometimes, kahit gaano mo man pilitin na maging kayo, eh tadhana na mismo ang gagawa ng paraan para di maging kayo... like what happend to me, i had a bestfriend for 10 years na until ngaun eh d ko malaman if magiging kami pa... there was a point in time na parang naging kami but then, we were separated and bounded by priorities in life being the breadwinner. so i dont know if fate will still permit us to be together and somehow start a life and perhaps a family... only time can tell ...

[minikeyklush]

super sad yan@sis michiko kazumi..  just pray lang sis, if its meant to be, it will come back... 

[aquacharly]

I had this so called love that I cannot have. He is married with 2 children. I love him so much that eventhough i know that he cannot leave his family for me, Im still there for him. A lot of things happened in our 8 months affair, he showed me unconditional love and affection. We almost run away together. but now I've finally come to realize that our love can never be. Its a perfect example of a true love in a wrong place and a wrong time. I wish I can get over him somehow.

If you knew from the start that he was married, and "cannot" leave his family.. why did you get involved?

WHAT made you allow yourself to fall in love, eyes wide open  -- ika nga.

How can you say his love was "unconditional"?  Why do you say that?

If  you will respond to my curiosity, thanks.

Take care of yourself.

[michiko kazumi]

super sad yan@sis michiko kazumi..  just pray lang sis, if its meant to be, it will come back... 

sana nga sis @minikeyklush... im really praying hard na we will iron things out pagdating niya galing Jeddah... and that will be in 2012... siguro nga dito masusubok ang feelings namin for each other... miz ko na siya sobra but i had to be firm being the breadwinner of the family.

[minikeyklush]

Well, This friend of mine didn't make it... The last time I asked her if she loves me, She replied "ALMOST".. But turned out.. Almost is just an almost... I can't have her cos yung almost nya, nawala na. LOL. I know she's seeing somebody else and left me hanging here. I still do have feelings for her, but I know someday, i can say na she's just a part of my Wishes

sis sun005 hahaha,, guy kaba or gurl? hope u wont mind me asking that ah..hahaha,, nalito ako bigla kasi "her" ang pagtukoy mo.. tee hee!  but anyways --> yang ALMOST na yan equal to NO din.. paplaysafe lang madalas nagagamit yang word na yan hehe IMO..  dahil nasabihan nako dati ng ganyan hehe 

[sweetsorrow]

i loved my ex. But we're both growing apart. So i guess i can't have him back. Magkaiba na kami ng buhay ngayon. Nakakalimutan ko na siya, pero through my officemate na hindi din mapasaakin..

Siguro kung meron talaga para sa atin, kahit anong hadlang, mapapasaatin talaga.

[minikeyklush]

sana nga sis @minikeyklush... im really praying hard na we will iron things out pagdating niya galing Jeddah... and that will be in 2012... siguro nga dito masusubok ang feelings namin for each other... miz ko na siya sobra but i had to be firm being the breadwinner of the family.

sis in Gods time everything will fall into their places, iyon nga lang,yun ay kung meant mapasaatin un..bsta sis, whatever happens be positive lang.. hehe aja!

i loved my ex. But we're both growing apart. So i guess i can't have him back. Magkaiba na kami ng buhay ngayon. Nakakalimutan ko na siya, pero through my officemate na hindi din mapasaakin..

Siguro kung meron talaga para sa atin, kahit anong hadlang, mapapasaatin talaga.

@sis sweet sorrow, true enough.. pero may sayings nga how can we find the right person if we still stick with the wrong one..so un sis, in due magiging clearer din why things have to happen  kaya mo yan sis..hihi 

[beautybaby]

naisip kong dito na lang ilagay kasi related naman sa topic..

it happened when my boyfriend of 4yrs and i broke up..super close ako sa lhat ng friends and family nya (as in sa buong angkan nila)..hindi ko alam kung bakit ang dali ko naging okay..pero siguro nka tulong [textspeak!] bestfriend ko na dinumped ng bf nya pra sa ibang girl..i was comforting her too much na nkalimutan ko ng nag break pla kmi ng boyfriend ko..i have no choice..i have to be strong for my friend..then my common friend kami na close din samin dalawa na ng aya to go out of town with his collegues..so, i joined..i don't know why but it felt awkward since that day..i was used to the guy to be super caring with his friends especially with the girls..he's a complete gentleman..but, he does'nt have the looks..it began with constant texting and calls..then we both fall for each other..and i fall to much for him..the problem?
he's the closest cousin of my ex..so, it can never be..plus the fact that i'm super close sa family nila..we tried to be bestfriends..but i can't really do that..we just parted ways thinking..maybe one day..maybe we can be together if it's meant to be..but for now..we can't have each other..alam kong pnget..pwedeng my mgreact na ang landi ko or something..ang tanong ko lang..kaya mo bang piliin yung taong mamahalin mo ng sobra?..i don't think so..