How do you forgive.. YOURSELF?

[kettlekorn28]

last year, nagawa ko ang pinakamalaking pagkakamali sa buhay ko. ito ang sa tingin ko ay pinakamalaki kong kasalanan. ang ginawa ko, i asked God for forgiveness. di ko man maririnig ang magiging sagot Nya, at least nakahingi naman ako ng tawad sa kanya. matagal rin bago ko tuluyan napatawad ang sarili ko. but ive realized that i should not punish myself. sabi ko, tao lang ako. natural lang na magkamali dahil di ako perpekto. what's important is that i've learned my lesson and became wiser and stronger.

[prisma]

You forgive yourself by moving on and by never doing it again.

Try to do good things for other people to negate negative karma.

[iam_ria]

^ i agree with you, sis.
sabi sa mass nung Sunday: true repentance is a decision.

[muahmuahmuah]

Reason enough why God gives us a tomorrow to work on, its another chance for us to do something better for ourselves.  Note  that whatever it is you are focusing on right now will surely dictate how your tomorrow goes. So focus on the good stuff be excited in creating a better life for you and in the future don't do anything you  can't apologize or forgive yourself for. Value what you have now instead of what was in the past and Pray Until Something Happens.

[yinandyang]

im not so forgiving with myself and other people.  its hard for me to move past . minsan nga may mga WHAT IF talaga ako e. parang mapapatawad ko lang sarili ko pag naging Ok na yung situation. parang naiisip ko masyado akong lenient sa sarili ko kung lagi ko [textspeak!] patatawarin. dapat matuto ako sa mga maling moves ko e.

 

[sofabyou]

I forgive myself by admitting my mistake first and letting it go of it by praying and asking for guidance to Him para di ko na ulit un magawa.

And kapag mas nagiging closer kase tayo kay Lord, mas lesser na ang chance na maka-commit tayo ng kasalanan, that's my personal opinion and because of my personal experience.

It will be hard for us to forgive others too if sarili natin is di rin natin kayang patawarin.

[larxy]

God forgives. Kahit nga yung mga nagpako sa kanya pinatawad nya eh. He would want you to come closer to him in times like that, not run farther from him.
Pero make sure na nagsisi ka talaga dun sa ginawa. if so, rather than thinking of the past, focus your mind in doing good things sa hinaharap.

[krist!na]

for me, forgiving yourself is not an easy way, if you think it that way. in forgiving yourself meaning you have to start to realize what you have done, what lesson have you learned, and start to avoid making the same mistake again   

[chloetenshi]

      First, I ask for God's forgiveness and accept His grace. Tapos tinatanggap kong nagkamali ako and di ko na yun uulitin. Naiintindihan kita sis kasi ganyan din ako dati. Hirap akong patawarin sarili ko. Kaya lang iniisip ko na lang na si God nga napatawad ako, pero pag di ko mapatawad sarili ko ibig sabihin nun mas mataas pa standard ko sa Dyos.
          In time sis, mafoforgive mo rin sila and sarili mo with God's help

[fornarina]

i found this video on youtube about self forgiveness on the subconscious level. It kind of helps give you give a positive outlook after what happened or whatever cause. It kind of alters your emotions based on the memories that makes you feel bad. It's a technique that helps you release stress, depression, anger sadness and gives you self forgiveness. Hope this helps

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LCZRREZhboA

[poetrytoprose]

In order for me to forgive myself is by praying and reading inspirational books. Basta give yourself back to God, pray for peace of mind, pray that you'll learn to forgive yourself.

Prayer heals our wounds.

[buzzhang]

Just pray and keep the faith. Take an action on what you did wrong. Crying and feeling messed up won't help you resolve your issues, deal with it. I know it's not easy but you'll feel relieved and happy after that. Keep on praying, everything will be ok.

[diamondsinthesky]

Just bear in mind that we're all humans and we're bound to commit mistakes. What's important is that you learn from it.

[lilvanity]

confess your sins and let go. It's easier said than done but you'll feel much lighter. change for the better.

[nocturnalnerd]

Sorang nahihirapan ako. Ang dami kong pagkakamali na nagawa for the past 2 years. I don't know pero karma ko na ata ngayon. Dati ang saya-saya ko.. free spirited. Kung may problems lahat nadadaan ko sa gimik, yosi, alak, barkada, boyfriend.. ngayon ayoko na at kahit anong gawin ko andiyan pa din yung sakit. I wish I could turn back time pero hindi naman kahit anong mangyari. I'm guilty inaamin ko.. may mga nasaktan akong tao. Gumanti kasi ako dahil pinaglaruan, ginago ako. I feel like a different person ngayon kasi madami akong nagawang bagay na masama dahil sakanila. Parang hindi ko na kilala sarili ko. Every day I ask God for forgiveness pero hindi ko maramdaman kung tama na yun. I'm accepting all the pains pero hanggang kailan? Gulo-gulo ako mga sis. Masakit dun yung mga taong nanakit sakin masaya na sila ngayon. Ako ito lugmok maybe kasi nga gumanti ako.

It's time to find your own happiness, kung may nagawa kang mga kasalanan noon there's nothing you could do about it but move on, kung yung mga taong nanakit sayo ay masaya na then be happy as well, kung patuloy kang malulungkot dahil dyan you're still losing from them, enough looking at them and start living your life to the fullest, . Be a better version of yourself, make these mistakes your inspiration para magbago at maging stronger.