sweet pa din ba si hubby syo kahit matagal na kayong magkasama or hindi na???

[TeenMom17]

  Hi there sissy's!
I Just want to share my experience here.
At first sweet kmi ni hubby, ngaun hndi na. 1yr palang kmi ng hubby ko.
Actually 6 months palang kmi nag sasama. Hndi rin kami kasal.
Im only 17 at nabuntis nya ko kaya nag sama kami bgla.
Since nag sama kami marami ng nagbago, hndi na sya sweet sa akin ,
Hndi na rin nya ko tnatwag ng ''Baby''  (Yun kasi ang tawagan nmin.)
Hndi na nya ko kini-kiss katulad ng dati khit saan nag lalambing sya,
He dont even hold my hand while were walking like b4. Sad
Feeling ko tuloy nag sasawa na sya skin.
Just to save our relationship ako nlng palgi nag gigiveway sa mga pag kukulang nya.


Bakit ba sya ganun? Hndi na sya tulad ng dati?
Ganun ba [textspeak!] pag nagsasama na?

Mga sis help [textspeak!].
Give me some advices anong masasabi nyo?

[ecnarfoj]

Ilan taon na ba siya? Baka kasi pressured lang yun.
Sa simula talaga malaking adjustments pero hanggat pwede mong ituloy, ituloy mo lang.
Kasi kung pati ikaw magiging cold sa kanya, walang mangyayari sa inyo.

[TeenMom17]

25 na sya. And still immature pa rin sya.
Gsto ko ngang isipin na nag kamali ako ng pag pili sknya. Im pregnant now and about to give birth this month.
Nakikita ko na excited sya to see his baby pero
pag dating saakin wala na syang pakelam, un bang bhala na kmi sa buhay nmin.
Hndi ko sya maintindhan eh,
Everytym i asked him na kung mahal pa nya ko he just always smile.
Ini-ignore lang nya.
Wala syang pakialam sa nararamdaman ko eh.
bsta sya go lang ng go sa mga gngwa nya.

[honeys]

pedeng explanation jan sis e, baka nga nasa adjustment period pa rin siya and sinking in na now s kanya na my obligasyon na siya sayo or maybe d pa siya ganon ka ready s pinasok niya.
however, nasa iyo pa din ang game ball, kumabaga make or break ito..if this will continue or u can save the old him! try to make an extra effort,extra care and love! make him see and realized na there is a lot more advantages and good things now that you are together and a family. see to it na he will enjoy your company.
if u really want to save your relationship, mag all out ka na s pagmamahal,tiis at pacensya at alaga s kanya..so when the time comes it didnt work out the way you wanted to be..no guilty feelings or wala kang paghinayang o pagsisihan kasi ginawa mo ang part mo. IMO lang po.

patience is a virtue!

[ri-anne]

^^ yup.i agree with her sis..kahit kami ni hubby dumAan sa adjustment period when i was pregnant with our firstborn...not to mention yung hormones pa kapag buntis naku mas emotional tayo diba

basta open communication..tell him how you feel..nang hindi galit ha....Yung may kasamang lambing..tell him you understand na nag-aadjust sya sa situation nyo ngayon...kung sya nag-aadjust, sabihin mo, LALO KA na..(pero hindi pasigaw ha lolz)... with the chAnges your body's going through, not to mention how young you are pa! kaya tell him that you need him more now, and you appreciate thethings he's doing for you (kahit gaano kaliit yun ipakita mong importante yun) somethin like that
kaya mo yan

on topic: yes he's still sweet..hilig mag-kiss at hug, bubuhatin pa ako minsan, harutan at kulitan sa phone at text hehe

[aceofhearts]

Yes he is!  He is getting sweeter and sweeter everyday. Pero syempre may mga trials din kami pero we can't stand a day without fixing it, and take note siya pa nag aayos nun. Ang dami na naming pinag daaanan and still sweet pa rin si Hubby. He is really malambing. That's why I am lucky. He is also a good father to our baby. 

[daisy_duck]

Mine isn't and I know that the reason behind is lack of communication. We're now living kasi with my in laws and since nakakatira lang while waiting for our house to be done, share kami ni mother in law sa room. Hubby wants his "own" time to play with his xbox, buti pa xbox me time. Nakakatulog ako dati kakaintay sa kanya para makapag usap man lang kmi kahit saglit lang and pag kinululit ko, need niya daw yung time niya for himself. Ouch! Adding that his sister is now here for a vacay (about a month) mas lalong walang time sa akin. He would spend most of his time with his sister. Days na and I havent worn my wedding band, di man lang nanotice.    I'll win him back soon... hopeful pa naman ako.. maybe when we're on our own again.

Married for 2 yrs++ gf/bf for 13 years...

[TeenMom17]

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[aceofhearts]

^^ Sis, exert lang ng effort. Dumating din ako sa time na yan, mas may time pa sa mga hobbies niya. Good thing lang with Hubby, when our angel arrived, nag bago siya. Lahat ng hobbies niya nawala, even vices.

Communication is the key talaga. Let him know how you feel. 

[honeys]

hubby ko hindi sweet nung bf/gf pa lang kami..ako ang mas sweet! 3yrs din yun..after we got married..siya na ang sweet..lots of hugs and kisses..maybe in that 3 years natutuhan niya how to be sweet and nahawa na siya s akin..

[Dhee-Dhee]

4 years kami as bf/gf, 6 months married na kami ngayon and i'm glad na walang nagbago sa sweetness ni hubby. hindi siya palabigay ng gifts or yung mag eexert ng effort to surprise me, pero i feel his sweetness through his gestures as he never ever failed to make me smile. ewan ko ba, talagang mabenta sa akin yung jokes niya. mahilig pa rin siya mag PDA. minsan nasa office kami, bumaba siya ng 8th floor since my project is located on the 9th, before he left, ni kiss nya ako sa lips.. bigla akong nahiya sa mga tao sa elevator, haha! iba kasi pag sa malls, hindi masyado pansin pero sa elevator kasi yun, and sa office pa. sabagay, hindi ganun kahigpit when it comes to PDA sa office saka smack lang naman. first time ko lang kasi, and in fairness, kinilig ang lola mo. 

@teenmom17: pag usapan nyo ng mabuti yan sis. isipin nyo nalang na kailangan nyong gawin yun para sa magiging baby nyo. hay, malas lang.. i hate guys who are mama's boy, glad that my hubby isn't. in time siguro sis magmamature din siya. malay mo magbago pag lumabas na baby nyo.

@daisy_duck: graaabe sis, ang tagaal nyo na. naku, kung ako siguro hindi ako makakatagal, gagawa ako ng way para makausap ko talaga siya. hindi ko kasi kaya yung matagal na nagtitimpi or nagtitiis. pag may gusto akong sabihin, i make sure na mai-voice out ko. sana magkausap na kayo sis..

[Periwinkle25]

yeah..6 years bf/gf(almost 4 years na LDR, 45 days a year ang vac ko)..married for 4 months..kaso 1 month lang kami nagsama after we got married kasi i had to leave for work..i thought he changed..i think,i was the one who got too busy..now that we had a slight problem, Im trying to spare some time for him..LDR kasi kami at may pagkaworkaholic ako..now, bumalik yung sweetness niya..and im so happy..balak ko na magresign next year para tuluy tuloy ang bonding moments namin..

[PinKisH_23]

Hubby ko naman has always been the sweet one. Till now inaassist nya parin ako pag bababa ako ng sasakyan, holding hands parin kami pag lalabas, he prepares dinner and lunch kasi nga alam nyang busy ako super. He likes to surprise me too, kahit sa gifts.

We've been through a lot, super a lot. Nag share narin ako dito dati about my problems with him pero napagtagumpayan naman namin ang mga problema. Mag 7 years na kami this year and can't imagine spending those years with other guys. Siguro napagdadaanan talaga lahat ng couples yan. Then when you grow older mas marerealize nyo how much you value each other. When you finally accepted everything about him, the good and the bad.

[carmichael18]

hindi talaga sweet ang asawa ko, pero minsan nakakasad lang, pag may special na occasion pero parang normal na araw lang sa kanya.. kahit gusto ko magtampo, iniisip ko na lang, na ganon na naman talaga siya dati pa..

[l4dybu6]

si hubby wala man lang gift sa akin nung valentine. kahit i greet lang niya ako, di din niya ginawa. before valentine, sabi ko gawa na lang siya sa akin ng letter, yung sweet, pero di rin niya ginawa. 10 years na kami at nagbago na siya.

[eimerej5]

It's sad to know that some of our sisses parthners are not sweet anymore... But mga sis, just keep on trying to be sweet and loving to them... I know one day they will realize that they are lucky to have you as their partners...

[prettygretchen]

Super sweet and sensitive ng asawa ko. as in sweet na may surprises kahit bubble tea lang food that i love. Sweet enough to kiss me in my forehead while sleeping(mababaw na tulog). Basta i feel the love

[cristyles]

We are together for almost 10 years and things are more getting better & sweeter. LDR kami but everyday we do dates on skype or times like he goes back here in Philippines, we really make sure na we make it quality time talaga for each other. I can feel also the love lalo na pag hinihilot niya ako pag masakit paa ko then he cooks for me .

[twelvth_goddess]

Yes, he's still sweet. It goes both ways for us.

[Paperless]

newly wed pa lang kami kaya super sweet pang husband ko... i just hope na kahit umabot na kami 50 years ganyan parin siya ka-sweet.