sweet pa din ba si hubby syo kahit matagal na kayong magkasama or hindi na???

[boaVista]

hindi na. masyado na shang comfortable sa ken. nakakainis.

[eekai]

sweet pa din. parang mas sweet pa nga. almost 9 yrs na kmeng kasal.

[mai0129]

was crying while reading this.. naiinggit ako sa inyo.lucky you guys have sweet husband.ako?wala pa 1year married. di na sweet husband ko..bigla na lang nawala lahat..magkasama na lang kami sa bahay.thats it.nothing special

Same here sis. Kakainggit sila. But i'm still hoping na bumalik ang dati na sweetness ng hubby ko. We've been together for 7 years now as bf/gf. Dati nung mgkalayo kmi sa isa't- isa halos everyday natawag, morning, lunch at before bedtime inaabot pa ng morning plus my flowers, cards, chocolates sa lahat ng occations.Pag mg aaway kmi my flower and sorry note pa.Nung ngsama na kmi nawala na  yung sweetness. I asked him why pero ang sagot bakit ngrereklamo  pko, e magkasama na nga kmi. Magkasama nga pero wala nman quality time together na matatawag. hayyzzz

[Entrepreneur]

^ako rin di na sweet si hubby. tahimik lang talaga rin sya at di mahilig magsurprise pero nung BF pa lang kami and early years of marriage, may PDA at sweet texts pa rin naman. parang he started not making the effort to show affection,  after I gave birth and have not lost all the pounds, in short overweight pa rin ako ako after 3yrs na yung baby ko..he says, most of the time, he's just tired of his work (required overtime everyday) and just needs to rest. Valid naman pero nakukulangan pa rin ako sa effort nya, kasi ako yung tipong, I like to kiss and hug, I would surprise him, cook for him etc. He does help with housework, kiss every time he goes to the office and comes home pero hindi lang naman yun ang paraan to show your love and affection diba?

I keep telling myself to just be more patient, to just lose weight and make myself beautiful and confident all the time para di naman ako mukhang kaawa awa sa kanya. Inaaliw ko sarili ko by doing something productive sa bahay or going out/shop with or w/o friends or bonding kami ng son ko. Its hard, kasi nakaka baba ng self esteem. I don't even share this sentiment with my friends coz I don't want to dwell on the self pity anymore. Nakakapagod na eh, i just want to be happy and feel loved.

[nadialicious16]

Hubby and I been together for 9 yrs. Mas sweet pa sya nung mag jowa pa kami but when we got married so-so na lang.

[brittani]

Hindi na masyado as compared nung magbf pa lang kami... masyado sya secured sa kin.

[victim]

yes, still very sweet... sweeter than me

[mac0308]

eversince hindi ganon kasweet si hubby pero nag eeffort lalo na nung magbf pa lang kami. ngayong married na minsan may surprises, pero on the daily basis wala na talaga. ang ilove you pag matutulog lang. magkikiss pag aalis lang..

[marsh_candy]

uu sweet... ako lang hindi 

bad wife ata ako.. nasa bahay nga lang ako eh, sya nagwo-work.. minsan di ko napi-prepare breakfast nya kasi tamad bumangon, never nako nagpa-plantsa ng damit nya.. Inaaway ko pa sya. Araw-araw ko sya inaaway. Sabi ko pa, ayaw kong magsimba (nung sunday), nasabihan ko pa syang "magpari ka na lang"... Hayyy.. Need ko talaga magbago.

[Kady_14]

husband is still sweet pero not as much nung mag bf/gf pa kami. Syempre now that we're married. Madaming bagay ang nakakawala nang sweetness especially when dealing with our responsibilities like utilities, sending kids to school and all other stuff that comes with being an adult.

Pero what I like about him is he would always be there no matter how grumpy I've become and would still think of a "sweet" relief. 

[kaiz]

was crying while reading this.. naiinggit ako sa inyo.lucky you guys have sweet husband.ako?wala pa 1year married. di na sweet husband ko..bigla na lang nawala lahat..magkasama na lang kami sa bahay.thats it.nothing special

I can relate sis. Hubby used to be sweet din but when we got married nawala na lahat. No more goodnight kiss or goodbye kiss, no iloveyous, no sweet text messages, etc. Sad talaga

[ava_camille]

Nakaka inggit yung iba natin mga ka sis na Sweet pa din si Hubby Since we got married 10 years ago nabawasan na sweeness niya. No more sweet surprises, No more love letters every week which I truly missed a lot.

[iambabysophie]

yehes, sweet na sweet pa din! walang nagbago dun since magbf-gf kami. di pwedeng di kami magiloveyou to each other everyday otherwise me problema kami nun or magkaaway. pag lumabas sya, di pa din nawawala yung paguwi nya me "ubong" kami ng daughter ko. sya yung tipong pag alam nya na gusto ko nun, di na magtatanong magugulat na lang ako dala na nya. he can read my mind, pag alam nyang kailangan ko, bago ko sabihin, andyan na, nakahatag na for me. ang nawala lang samin yung sipag namin to go out of town, dinner date, madalas na nood ng movie.. siguro kasi me baby na kami and madaming nagbago at nangyari samin (financially speaking)
nasusunod pa din naman konting luho namin, we can still buy things we want (pero di na nga lang kasingdalas ng dati). sorry haba ng reply ha, I was just about to say "yes, sweet pa din and state one lambing act nya but then eto napahaba ng kwento. parang self-realization lang din kasi sa sobrang bait at lambing nya, nakukuha ko pang magalit, mainis sa mga maliliit na bagay.

[mommamymy!]

Yes, I would say na sweet pa rin si hubby lalo na ngayon at buntis ako with our first baby. Mag-fofour months pa lang kami kasal ni hubby pero mag-boyfriend/girlfriend kami for 6 years. 6 years din age gap namin so typically, na-baby niya talaga ako. Akala ko nga magbabago siya pero so far, hindi pa naman.

Would you believe na dahil sa takot niya na baka madulas ako, lagi kami sabay mag-shower? And okay lang sa kanya na walang sexy time kasi delikado nga ang pregnancy ko. I can't believe na may mga ganito pa rin na guys. He makes sure din na I eat on time, drink my meds and always present siya sa mga OB visits namin. Maasahan ko na rin siya sa kitchen ngayon. Dati, fried egg lang, sunog pa! Ngayon, marunong na siya magluto ng chicken tinola, LOL.

Minsan, I know naiinis na siya sa kakulitan ko pero super patient pa rin siya sa akin. Just thinking about it, feeling ko talaga, napaka-swerte ko sa hubby ko. Kaya nga I make sure na I cook his favorite food, take care of him and also, pagbigyan siya na magbasketball every weekend dahil 'yun na lang past time niya.

I wish hindi siya mag-change lalo na kapag nakapag-give birth na ako. Sabagay, for a marriage to work, kailangan dalawa kayo na mag-aalaga. 

I know na 'yung thread na ito eh for long-term marriages pero sa six years na mag-boyfriend/girlfriend kami ni hubby, na-consider ko na as long-term ang relationship namin. Hopefully, ganito pa rin sasabihin ko after 10 or 50 years.

[Ms.Cacao70%]

hindi na ganon ka-sweet siyempre! the way i see it, parang ibang level na ng love. dati kasi romantic love, ngayon parang matured love na. yung hindi ninyo na kailangan pang maging sweet in public para masabing together kayo. tingnan mo lang yung mister mo, alam na niya kung galit ka, masaya, malungkot or pag meron kang tinatago. yung ganong level ba  basta nagkakaintindihan kami at alam namin kung kelan dapat maglambing, ayos na sa amin yon  at saka yung mga out of the blue biglang sinasabi namin "i love you honey...love mo ba ako?" "syempre naman i love you too very much!" don masaya na rin ako don 

[happybee$$$]

sweet pa din pero yung tipong sweet na hindi na need ibroadcast sa FB. super hate kasi namin pareho ng OA post sa FB o ng PDA. may time din na minsan mas sweet siya minsan mas sweet ako. Medyo nanghihinayang lang ako pag naggigive siya ng flowers ng walang occassion, sana iba na lang sayang money eh!

[paulka]

its really lucky for some of you sis to still have a loving partner/ husband.  My bf and is almost 12 year.
Quick summary, we been together 5 years, broke up for 3 years, went back  for 3 year.  Move in
together for 2 years.  Since the time we reconciled last 2008, i thought things will be even better but it
did not work that way.  He was not someone I used to know specially since I got pregnant with our kid.
No more i love yous, sweet text or petty dates.  Its just a common thing.

[khengzky]

i would say & very proud that my husband is super SWEET grabe laging humahaba ang hair ko LOL 4mos. married & 5yrs bf-gf super spoiled ako sa husband ko hindi ako pinaglalaba or even pinaglilinis ng house LDR kami ngayon because of his work (seaman) pero pag bakasyon siya, siya pa din gumagawa ng lahat kung gano sya ka sweet during those times na mag bf-gf kami mas tumindi ngayon dahil kasal & legally couple. sabi niya sakin kagabi while we chat "mama akala ko yung pagsagot mo sakin ang pinaka magandang nangyari sa buhay ko mas marami pa pala mas maganda isa na dun ang naging asawa ka at kinasal tayo na ngayon ay naging ina pa ng anak ko" sobra naiyak ako dito haha 

[Star19]

Yup! at first nung hindi pa kami kina kasal ni hubby hindi siya ganun ka sweet ako talaga super sweet ako sa partner ko hehe...

nung 1yr. and 5mnths na kami nadadala ko na siya ng pagka sweetness ko hehe lagi pa nga kaming nag aaway ni hubby nun pero nung kinasal na kami hehe seldom lang kami kung mag away at lalo siyang naing sweet sakin 

[pillowski]

After 6 years YES he's still super sweet!!!!