Author Topic: how do you feel or is it ok with you if your hubby/bf watch porn?  (Read 60000 times)

pinkstone

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hi mga sis! need your opinions. medyo mahilig kasi si hubby sa mga porn and im not comfortable with it.well honestly na tu-turn on din ako while watching it,pero pag sya na nonood i feel uncomfortable na.even if we watch it together,ang feelig ko kasi kaya sya nakikipag sex sa akin after watching dahil na turn on sya sa girl that he's watching and not because of me.minsan nga nagising ako madaling araw,sya gising pa watching porn on the net.meron din syang nka save sa laptop,sa phone,kahit sa psp,its from his officemates daw.mas ok [textspeak!] pag porn video as in lalaki at babae yung nandun,pero pag girl lang,at pictues ng girls,such as FHm,or any magazines or sites na girl [textspeak!] yung naka expose,yun talaga masama ang loob ko,feeling ko kasi im not enough for him,o kaya yung girl ang iniisip niya when we do it.kaya everytime na may nakikita akong pictures ng mga girls from porn kahit saan, talagang dine-delete ko. normal lang ba talaga sa kanila yun? may nabasa kasi ako sa isang site about relationships na parang its a form of cheating rin daw yung ganun.kasi syempre may lust pag tumitingin sila dun,tsaka ibang babae ang tinitingnan nila instead na ikaw. basta i feel jealous and insulted talaga pag tumitingin sya ng mga girls sa porn.normal feeling lang ba yun? there was one time pa nga,nung nag chat kami,i asked him,anung pinapanood nya? then he gave me the link,(he's open naman kasi about it,hindi naman niya tinatago),yun nga pag open ko ng link,porn nga,girl na nag ma-masturbate,ngalit talaga ako,i told him,bakit mo sinend sa akin yan? lalaki ba'ko? i wont ejoy waching it,kayo lang naman ang nag eenjoy niyan eh.ewan ko hindi ba niya naiisip na possible akong ma hurt don? how about you? how do you deal with your bf/hubby about it?

senorita_wia

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Re: how do you feel or is it ok with you if your hubby/bf watch porn?
« Reply #1 on: August 26, 2010, 04:42:22 am »
sobrang bad trip ang ganito.
sasabihin ko pa nga, "virgin ka ba?" or "aren't you getting enough?"
i will never understand this about men.

ylisza

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Re: how do you feel or is it ok with you if your hubby/bf watch porn?
« Reply #2 on: August 26, 2010, 05:38:46 am »
todo naman si boyfi mo.. ang alam ko talagang normal sa mga lalake ang mapatingin sa babae, syempre lalo na kung hottie.. normal lang din kung makakakita ng mga b*ld film at papanoorin, nakakatukso sa laman yon e.. pero kung puro ganon naman, pati laptop, cp, psp e merong ganon, gurl sobra naman yata iyon.. tapos "gaganon" sya sayo after makapanood o tumingin, nyayyyyy! malamang sa malamang kaya sya nae-L kase dun sa pinanood nya.. tsk! adik..

kahit ako magagalit talaga ako sa kanya kung pati yung pinapanood nya e isesend sayo.. grrrr! nabastusan naman ako doon, sorry a.. opinion lang yun..

yung experience ko dati sa ex ko, sinasarili nya na lang.. di nya pinakikita saken. kung san man nakasave, sya na lang nakaaalam. hehe! para hindi ko makita at hindi kami magaway..
« Last Edit: August 26, 2010, 05:51:38 am by ylisza »

pinkstone

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Re: how do you feel or is it ok with you if your hubby/bf watch porn?
« Reply #3 on: August 26, 2010, 09:02:49 am »
oo nga eh,pero ngaun sa laptop nalang niya may naka save,minsan dine-delete niya,pero i know nanonood parin sya,hindi ko na siguro matatanggal  sa kanya yun. hindi talaga ako comfortable don eh,hindi ko alam pano sasabihin sa kanya,parang nahihiya kasi akong sabihin na pati porn pinagseselosan ko,na ako lang gusto kong tingnan niya,at hindi ibang girls sa magazine o site.ang alam niya hindi ako nanonood ng porn dahil nandidiri ako,hindi niya alam na ayaw ko sya manood for that reason

openmindedsoul

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Re: how do you feel or is it ok with you if your hubby/bf watch porn?
« Reply #4 on: August 27, 2010, 03:19:28 pm »
hindi ko problema ito sa husband ko. kung manonood siya madalang lang at kasama pa ako.

pinkstone

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Re: how do you feel or is it ok with you if your hubby/bf watch porn?
« Reply #5 on: August 28, 2010, 01:06:48 pm »
hindi ko problema ito sa husband ko. kung manonood siya madalang lang at kasama pa ako.

how about if may time na sya lang nanonood,,is it ok with you?

openmindedsoul

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Re: how do you feel or is it ok with you if your hubby/bf watch porn?
« Reply #6 on: August 28, 2010, 10:07:59 pm »
^oo naman sis. wala naman prob sa akin yun. lalaki siya e. ni nga mga babae nanood diba, what more sa kanila.  :)

pinkstone

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Re: how do you feel or is it ok with you if your hubby/bf watch porn?
« Reply #7 on: August 29, 2010, 01:06:04 am »
ganun ba..normal nga lang talaga siguro sa kanila yun sis noh.kaya lang naiinis talaga ako pag nanonood sya o nag si-save ng sexy pics ng girls,such as fhm...

openmindedsoul

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Re: how do you feel or is it ok with you if your hubby/bf watch porn?
« Reply #8 on: August 29, 2010, 07:12:48 am »
sis normal lang yun maniwala ka. hindi naman nila tayo ipagpaglit dahil doon.  :)

sabi ng hubby ko noon men watch porn movies para makakuha ng tips on how to please more their partners.  ;)

pero kapag naman daw while viewing the porn videos/pics of sexy ladies e ng ma-masturbate siya ibang usapan na yun. meaning hindi na siya satisfied sa partner niya. ayon ito sa hubby ko ha!  :)

bmitch

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Re: how do you feel or is it ok with you if your hubby/bf watch porn?
« Reply #9 on: August 30, 2010, 01:40:28 pm »
He doesn't need to. I'm all PORN! Haha!

laviere

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Re: how do you feel or is it ok with you if your hubby/bf watch porn?
« Reply #10 on: August 30, 2010, 01:48:42 pm »
watching porn can be classified normal behavior for men... i think. pero if too much na, or it gives hims unrealistic expectations when it comes to sex, that's when it can become unhealthy.

pinkstone

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Re: how do you feel or is it ok with you if your hubby/bf watch porn?
« Reply #11 on: August 31, 2010, 05:51:23 pm »
sis normal lang yun maniwala ka. hindi naman nila tayo ipagpaglit dahil doon.  :)

sabi ng hubby ko noon men watch porn movies para makakuha ng tips on how to please more their partners.  ;)

pero kapag naman daw while viewing the porn videos/pics of sexy ladies e ng ma-masturbate siya ibang usapan na yun. meaning hindi na siya satisfied sa partner niya. ayon ito sa hubby ko ha!  :)


i agree with you sis, hindi naman yung tipong addict yung hubby ko,medyo mahilig lang talaga,and as you said,agree naman akong normal lang talaga yun sa kanila,except if nag ma masturbate sila sa mga sexy photos ng girls,ibang usapan na yan, though i don't know if ginagawa nya yun,but talagang na hi-hurt ako everytime na tumitingin sya. at na explain ko na naman sa kanya yun the other night,at thankful naman ako at naintindihan naman niya,at nag sorry sya for making mi feel that way

alenski

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Re: how do you feel or is it ok with you if your hubby/bf watch porn?
« Reply #12 on: August 31, 2010, 07:13:50 pm »
sa kin sis, la akong problema kung nanonood man ng porn yung hubby ko. minsan pa nga ako mismo ang nag i-initiate na manood kami or ako mag isa nanonood ako. minsan yung hubby ko pa ang mejo naaasiwa pag nanonood ako kasi may pagka conservative yun.
sa point of view ko nakaka horny yung act mismo pero hindi yung mga porn stars. or kung sakaling ma-L sya sa pornstars e di role play na lang kami. ako mismo kasi pag wala akong gana dahil sa pagod/stress, nanonood ako ng porn to get my blood pumping kumbaga.
pero sis kung asiwa ka talaga sa tingin ko dapat mag draw na ng line si hubby mo lalo na kung feeling mo nababastos ka kasi hindi naman lahat talaga e into porn or into kinky stuffs diba

openmindedsoul

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Re: how do you feel or is it ok with you if your hubby/bf watch porn?
« Reply #13 on: September 01, 2010, 04:24:46 pm »
@pinkstone: true yan sis! minsan hindi talaga nila alam yung feelings natin girls about that matter. its good thing nag-open up ka sa kanya. ako kasi never ko talaga naging problem ito sa husband ko. kumbaga moderate lang siya  in watching porn. I'm more than enough for him, LOL!  ;D

maracap

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Re: how do you feel or is it ok with you if your hubby/bf watch porn?
« Reply #14 on: September 03, 2010, 03:54:56 pm »
Not okay with me. :(

mas lalong hindi okay sakin yung he went to watch a striptease show with his friends!!!!

jmeangeL

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Re: how do you feel or is it ok with you if your hubby/bf watch porn?
« Reply #15 on: September 03, 2010, 04:20:59 pm »
it's normal for guys to watch on occasion some porn.  but when it's becoming habitual and halos lahat ng gamit nya (as you say) ay meron nito, then it is something to be bothered about.

study shows that too much porn could actually lead to lower sex drive and erection troubles.

what you must do is search the net for a reliable source on studies about this and email it to your bf/hubby.  he might be shocked to know that his porn addiction could actually led to impotency.

this is because porn gives more sexual drive than the normal that a guy gets.  thus, it would take more action and visual effect for him to turn ON.

pinkstone

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Re: how do you feel or is it ok with you if your hubby/bf watch porn?
« Reply #16 on: September 04, 2010, 02:22:18 pm »
^^^ oo nga sis,baka ang akala niyang makakatulong eh nakakasama pala..anong site ba yan at i se-send ko sa kanya hehe

ceejhei

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Re: how do you feel or is it ok with you if your hubby/bf watch porn?
« Reply #17 on: September 04, 2010, 02:28:41 pm »
^me too, hubby also watch and collect porn cds, he has a video on his celphone, pero i told him not to put any on my laptop.

saakin okay lang, manood lang siya hanggat gusto niya. wag lang siyang magtatangkang gawin with another girl. hahaha. pero parang normal lang ata sa guys ito at may mga guys talaga na mahilig sa porn. sabi ko nga, ano ba napapala mo sa porn? sabi niya, wala lang, masama ba manood? tapos kapag may bago siyang video, he let me see it. open naman kami sa mga ganyang bagay. again, as long as walang masamang ginagawa okay lang. ok na sa bahay manood rather than magpunta sa mga beer house!

Pookiekai

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Re: how do you feel or is it ok with you if your hubby/bf watch porn?
« Reply #18 on: September 04, 2010, 04:09:27 pm »
dito ko natatawa, kasi nang mag-abroad ang hubby ko, wala sya nadala kahit isa sa mga porn dvd's nya para paglibangan nya sa barko. for a few months, he would ask me to strip (half lang, pasilip ng portion ng boobs, butt or legs) on cam and seduce him, to which i reluctantly obliged. naiilang man ako, medyo napilitan kasi gusto ko pagbigyan sya, kesa naman maghanap pa ng ibang ka-chat na magpapakita ng boobies sa kanya. everytime we chat, he'd ask me to give him a chance to peek on my "treasures" before we log off. medyo hiya rin siguro sya to request na maghubad ako ng todo kasi baka ma-offend ako. (hehe siguro, he'd imagine it while trying to fall asleep doing "something" if u know what i mean)

after sometime, he told me, nakahiram sya ng porn sa kasama nya sa ship (bago pa lang kasi sya dun, so medyo siguro nahiya sya humiram agad hehe).... so, i thought, hay salamat, ligtas na ko sa ka-so-show sa cam. ang pagod kaya non noh, me patuwad tuwad at paliyad liyad pa hehe.

but to my dismay, after two nights, nag-request ulit ang lolo mo na magshow ang lola mo... he said, mas nag eenjoy daw sya manood sa akin kesa manood ng porn hekhekhek... to date, we'd fool around on cam everytime we're in the mood, when we chat... i became a bit more uninhibited probably because seeing him so aroused and excited watching me slowly get naked on cam, makes me feel sexy and desirable. sana lang hindi ma-hack ang puters namin otherwise, baka me mga gumagala na ngayon na videos ko sa net. LOL.

perverts ba kaming mag asawa? LOL. but honestly, kakatuwa kasi it's our way of staying "intimate" kahit na magkalayo kami. in a few days, he will be home.... haaaaaaaaaaay,goodbye to cyberseduction for me, hello to real-life seduction! excited na kami pareho!

hehe.. off topic ako!
« Last Edit: September 04, 2010, 04:11:26 pm by Pookiekai »

pinkstone

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Re: how do you feel or is it ok with you if your hubby/bf watch porn?
« Reply #19 on: September 04, 2010, 04:47:50 pm »
^^^haha ganyan din kami ng hubby ko sis,akala ko kami lang ang gumagawa niyan. he's now abroad kasi,but hindi sa barko,we do it also on cam,he ask me to strip,ganun din sya,minsan sya pa nga pinapa-una ko mag hubad LOL minsan naka katamad din,excuse lang pag may period,o late na naka pag online,pagod na. buti nga yan sis,dapat ka matuwa kasi  ikaw parin guso niya makita.instead of some porn stars ;)

buti ka pa sis,malapit na ang real-life seduction mo LOL im exited for you,ako i still have 4 more months for cyberseduction. ;D
« Last Edit: September 04, 2010, 04:50:42 pm by pinkstone »

 

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