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hi sis!both men & women can answer this so we can see different perspectives:) Funny because this came to my mind just now that i'm getting married in 2months time I asked my h2b this question and he answered, he felt that he's "ready" for married life. What should be the next level in a relationship but to get married and have a family. In other words, "level up" na daw dapat!
Difficult to answer since each guy would have different reasons for popping the question. Let me take a shot at this. Please feel free to add or to rebut the list I made off the top of my head.1. She gets pregnant.2. His hairline starts to recede.3. He starts dyeing his grey hair.4. All his friends are married and with families of their own.5. The women he wants to date are half his age.6. People start asking if he's gay.7. When his sperm motility drops below the normal range.8. When his girlfriend of 10 years threaten to leave him because the subject of marriage hasn't come up yet.9. When his parents threaten to cut him off their will if he doesn't give them an heir.10. When he finds it too difficult to read without his reading glasses.
That which makes a man "not propose" is quite easy. Usually it's either he doesn't love you, does not love you enough, doesn't love you that much YET, or would rather ruin his future all by himself. That which triggers a man "to propose" is another thing. It's more complex and I think it varies guy to guy. Though the most popular reason is "you're carrying his baby" .... which is a common practice. Beyond that, I think it's more or less a combination of "finding a sense of fulfillment with you" and "not wanting to lose you". Lose you or Lose whatever it is that he loves. Ideally, which I'd still like to believe happens in a lot of cases, it's all about the realization of how much love he feels for the girl, how much he needs to sustain that which he feels, and of course the male-popular-trait of "selfishness" which translate to him never wanting to lose the girl. Logically, there has to be a selfish element naman talaga for it to be believable, maybe even reliable up to a certain extent.Of course there are other reasons. Like sometimes it's not entirely out of love but out of Need. Practically speaking, some guys look for the perfect or ideal mate based on who would probably make them better KINGS. Which translates to a miserable time for the 'sucker' who usually was too young, to needy, or too dumb to see past all the glittering stuff the abuser blinded her with.
what if he says that he wants to get married na but cannot propose YET because he's still preparing the budget for the wedding, and he wants to make sure first na kaya na nya i-finance ang gastusin before slipping the engagement ring on you finger?
Re: 1. She gets pregnant.But I guess that's the most popular trigger nowadays.. like when we announced our wedding, 95% of the followup questions go: "Buntis ka?" LOL.
Men propose: (according to h2b)- once they feel that they are ready- emotionally, psychologically and financially for married life- love for the girl and he can imagine himself starting a family and growing old with her. (sustaining and nurturing the relationship)Men don't propose: (according to h2b)- he doesn't love you or dooesn't love you enough- girl is immature at obviously doesn't love him back. wag daw kukuha ng asawa na parang bato na ipupukpok mo lang sa ulo mo
Sabi nila a man will never marry a woman kahit na siya na ang pinakamabait, pinakamaganda at wife material unless he is ready. Hinding hindi magsesettle ang isang lalake kapag hindi pa niya nakikita ang sarili niyang lumagay sa tahimik. Although exemption to the rule yunb mga nakabuntis. Sometimes kasi pinapanindigan na lang.
