bakit kayo nag resign sa job nyo?

[Antigone]

1st Job Ground Stewardess, Stressfull ang time at Sched 6months lang ako

2ndJob Travel agency  Walang Kwenta sweldo sobrang Overtime at stress

3rdJob  Travel Agency pa din.Okay naman Sweldo kaso inaaway ako ng boss at masayado mahigpit pluss Overtime at stress pa din.
at binbigyan akong Promotion as a Senior Agent.
Yung work ko ngayon mas mababa sweldo ng 4thousand pesos pero light lang ang work at walang Overtime mabait pa boss.

But my BF think na mali ginawa ko.

meron ba sainyo lumipat sa mas mababang sahod karamihan sa nakikita ko pag lumipat mas malaki sahod

Ako, gagawin ko pa lang. By as much as 20k difference.

Dead-end kasi job ko now. Consultant kasi ako. Iniisip ko mag regular job na maliit ng hamak ang sweldo but will be better for my resume and might open opportunities in the future.

[ladysapphire]

3rd job: now.. i'm planning to resign early next year. ok ang environment, co-workers and manager. kaso sobra na ang Over-Thank you nila sa akin! almost 2 years na ko. working without Overtime pay. although sasabihin niyo, bakit ka nag oovertime kung walang bayad. eh mga sis, ang workload ko naman eh for 2 persons! nung 1st year ko, keri ko kaso habang tumatagal lalong dumadami. and i need to grow na din.

etong eto ang situation ko now. 9 mos. na ko sa work now and sobrang gusto ko na mag-quit ibang klase lang na slave drivers mga tao dito. sana matanggap na ko sa inaapplyan ko. planning to leave by Jan. dapat nakaresign na ko.

[xtine]

I was 120 pounds then my weight dropped at almost 90 because of work.  I was assigned on a project here in SG and everyday, I  have to go to work at 8:30 AM and only time I can get home is around 11:00PM.  Even on weekends I have to work.  I dreaded monday and almost puke whenever I think of the work monday.  Another bad thing is even when I dream, I was working, formulating solutions and designs. 

And when I get home from work, I have to continue working until 12 midnight because its the only time I can fully concentrate on my unending tasks because my clients would always come up to me and disturb me with their own little problems. 

There are times when I had to sleep at 12 and wake up at 6AM just to work then get dressed and be in the office at 8:30AM.  If client does not see you at that time, you will definitely get a complain that you are late and they are waiting for you.

On my birthday, I had to work until 11:00PM to do a very stressful presentation. It was my bday but my heart was in pain due to homesickness and verbal abuse from client.  My client was a very demanding (local singaporean company) kaya they are not a very pleasing bunch. 

My only consolation was I was able to buy a car because I was not able to spend my per diem and salary due to not enough time to roam around SG.  Even if I had the time, it would only be two hours just to clear my thoughts then I have to go back home to finish work.

One time, I rushed my presentation because I was already lacking rest.  When you do not get enough work life balance, you end up giving "ok na to" output but what I received during actual presentation are complaints because of petty details that were not polished. 

I stayed in the project for 8 months but with the company its 5 years and that instance where I got shouted at by clients for petty details made me realize its time really to go and look for a better company who will protect me from abusive clients.  The only complain I have is not giving me enough resources to help me with the unending tasks thus not giving 100% effort on the deliverables because my company does not want to add cost for another manpower.

I noticed that when I resigned, that's the time they realized my tasks was too much for a single person and they did not heed my request for additional manpower. There are 5 people now doing my previous job.  Client is now happy. 

Now, in my new company, new client.  I go to work 10AM and go home around 5:00PM, very different from the previous one.  Hey! I can even surf girltalk.  Its more stressfree and more paying than previous one (I chose to stay and work here in SG).

[gripfast]

I might resign pa lang sa job ko because I need to take care of my son. Di naman permanent pero siguro 6 to 1 year lang ako walang work. I love my job right now and this will be a huge sacrifice for me.

[Lynxette]

My very first job, my official reason was I going to take the CPA exam (I failed, twice )

My real reason - the pay was crappy.

[leggyline]

My first job: Graphic Designer then nag-iba ng position/scope of work but walang nagbago sa pay. Then nagkagulo gulo cause may mga hindi sila nababayaran na nakakaltas.  Until now wala pang backpay.

[agape]

the bosses in my department are ok, very kind sila. but my my co-workers in our team, di ko feel. and ang mabigat pa niyan ang pinaka head ng department namin is giving me cold shoulder. may mga kasabay kasi ako na na-hire and whenever he saw them, he smiles and ask them how they are, pero sakin, he just look at me with a poker face and say nothing. i don't know what's his problem with me because during my interview with him pa lang i can feel it already. so during my stay there, i can't absorb yung mga tiniturn over saking work , i can't function well i'm always  unhappy, stress. so there i quit. although some says na you're there to work not to make friends and find happiness, at the end of the day working for the sake of earning is not enough, i should be happy with what i do and stay where i feel  comfortable. coz life and time is precious para tiisin ko yung mga ganitong bagay where in  there's a way naman to get out of it . i can't tolerate anymore the feeling na every morning when i woke up i feel worried about going to work and gusto ko uwian na kaagad. and there, finally i'm free.

i feel this way in my current situation di kaya same tayo ng work? hehe. i haven't decided yet, dapat hanap muna ng new job before umalis.

[Antigone]

I was getting decent pay, having country club lunch everyday, mingling with high-society people, but it was a dead-end job. I got bored, so bored, and wanted something more fulfilling.

[ayka]

Nagresign ako dun sa unag job ko kasi tinawagn na ako ng company na nandun ang dream job ko.

^good for you, sis! 

i resigned from my first job to practice and be hands-on in line with my course on the second job. i resigned from my second job to pursue the career i have right now. greener pasture. it's been 3 years and am still lovin' it! 

[kuliglig^^]

Wala, hindi na enough ang compensation, plus the management's not so good anymore. Looking forward to work in a company na stable, plus I'd like to have a career na pang matagalan na talaga.

[FayeP]

kakasubmit ko lang ng regination letter kanina, gusto ko sana immediate pero my TM advised me na it would be better kun 30 days notice para makuha ko pa un mga bonuses...

kaya ako magreresign kasi:

- fed  up na sa work
- malayo na sa house ko masyado un makati area
- gusto ko ng mas mataas na sahod

[miss resilient]

nakakatuwa naman yung responses ng mga sis dito..hahahahaha! akala ko ako lang ang ganito marami pala kami..lolz!

anyway, i just left my fifth job kung saan ako tumagal dahil sa stress...araw araw warla..grabe talaga

tapos layo-ness pa yung work ko from our place...wala naman akong reklamo sa sueldo hindi naman kami maluho and we live within our means..sakto lang ang benefits kaya lang di ko na talaga kaya yung stress..kaya kahit wala pang malipatan keri lang. sa management..ok lang wala naman akong direct communication sa kanila on a daily basis..sa TL lang tapos sa SM saka sa AVP pero bihirang bihira naman yun. kaso people in the mid level management are not that supportive..parang di kami maipagtanggol ng husto.

i am praying for a better job with better benefits and if possible with better pay. hindi lang naman sueldo ang importante..kundi mga kasama mo rin kasi ang hirap pag hindi ka makapag fit in sa mga colleagues..yung tipong iba ang gusto nila sa gusto mo ..di naman magkagalit iba lang talaga ang gusto ko compared to them. and of course mas maganda kung malapit rin ang office sa bahay. i tried na mag business kaso naduduwag naman ako baka mabalewala yung konti kong naitabi.

[zheane0127]

Hi mga sis, just need your opinion.

I dont know how to start my story. 

I am working in a family business and I started last sept 3.  My boss family had 4 companies in one compound.  I was assigned to their company that organized sports events like fun run.  Yung accountant nila sa kabilang company accountant din namin dito.  So it means 1 accountant in 2 companies.  One time nag away yung boss ko at yung account that lead her to resigned on our company.  So lahat ng work niya tinurn over lahat sa akin.  I am not an accountant nor a business graduate kaya no idea talaga ako sa ginagawa nila.  Kasi ang job order ko is office staff sana.  Since 3 lang kami dito sa company we need to do multitask.  Luckily for me in a span of 1 month napag aralan ko na lang ginagawa ng accountant namin.  Pero hindi rin natuloy resignation niya kasi di niya maiwan iwan ang company namin.

Ito na po yung reason bat ako nagresign.

Simula nung hinawakan ko yung work ng accountant nalaman ko ang mga pinaggagawa nila ng event coordinator namin.  For example the budget for 1 fun run is 30K and after the run i will make a report kung magkano ang actual na nagastos.  Lets say ang nagastos is 27K lang so yung 3K gagawa sila ng pekeng resibo at kukunin na nila yung pera.  Yung event coordinator naman namin, pag nakalagay sa budget sheet namin na we need 20 people for the hydration water station.  Ang kukunin lang niyang tao is 17 person lang at yung 3 natitira mag iimbento siya ng name para makuha niya yung pera.

Ito pa po yung event coordinator namin pag need niya lumabas to check sa mga registration site namin laging ang nililiquidate niyang resibo is either burado na ang resibo kasi nabasa daw niya.  Or gagawa siya ng peking resibo at sasabhin niyang fix rate daw kaya walang resibo tapos mag iimbento na naman ng name at siya din ang pipirma.

At ito na po talaga ang pinakareason bat ako nag resign.  Kasi sa last event namin hinatian na nila ako sa perang nakuha nila.  Nakunsensiya ako at natakot.  Till now di ko pa ginagastos yung pera nasa akin pa kahit sabihn natin na 1000 lang yun still pagnanakaw pa din.

I really love my job kasi dito madami ako namemeet na important people at madami ako napupuntahan.  Kaso pag ganto namin lagi kunsensiya ko naman ang kalaban ko.

I told my story sa friend ko na nagwowork din sa boss ko pero sa ibang company nakaassign.  Sabi niya buti daw at sinabi ko sa kanya para mapayuhan niya ako.  Kasi yung accountant pala namin is minamanmanan na siya ng mga big boss.  Di lang makakuha ng matibay na ebidensiya.

Do i need to tell to our boss the truth bat ako nagresign sa work?  Kasi super bait ng boss namin at mabilis kasi talaga siyang magtiwala.  Maraming beses na siyang naloko pero parang hindi siya nadadala.  Ayaw ko din naman mawalan ng work ang mga kasama ko dahil lang sa akin.

[sistah!]

i say tell your boss. but dont bank on coming back to work at that place anymore.

i went through a similar situation. my first job was at a start up call center (this was years ago na). i delayed applying for work kasi after college at talagang nagbakasyon ako. after 3 months yata, lahat na ng friends ko, may work na. ako na lang wala kaya the first company that made an offer, go ako agad.

since start up pa lang yung call center, the 2 foreign bosses had only 30 employees. i was one of the first few people they hired. unti unti, they built it. they became aggressive with hiring so after 2 months, they had 100 or so employees na. i became friends with the IT head, HR head and a couple of other people. first job ko yun pero nabigyan ako ng magandang salary, team leader ako agad. feel na feel ko talaga yung work. eto na, one time lumabas kami ni mr. IT at mr. HR at nalaman ko ang monkey business nila. binabawasan ni HR ang lahat ng employees ng 100 every payday. it's small enough that an employee won't notice it missing (well, hindi ko naman kasi kino-compute ang buong payslip ko) but big enough that when there are 100 employees, ang laki bigla ng kita diba? they channel it to a separate account and they have a small circle that benefits from it. so kunyari, ngayon si IT kukuha lahat ng pera, next payday si HR naman, next payday si 3rd person naman, so on. they approached me because nagwo-worry daw sila na baka masilip sila so they need to expand the group who knows about it. i would have been their 6th person. i was really shocked. pagnanakaw kasi yun eh. isipin mo na lang, by the time i found out about this, the company had something like 400 employees. that's 40K easy if i went with it, pero my conscience couldn't stand it. i resigned the next day tapos sinumbong ko sila sa OM. i never spoke to anyone from that company again after, kahit pa naging friend ko. parang nabahiran na yung tiwala ko sa kanila lahat. last i heard, that company had expanded to makati but also folded.

if your workmates are doing something illegal like that, they will not be surprised na matanggal sila sa trabaho but you never know who knows about their activities kaya mahihirapan ka rin. try to save your boss by telling him what is going on at baka mas makahanap sya ng proof against his wayward employees but dont go back to work there na. no one likes a tattletale. im sure makakahanap ka ng trabaho agad na maayos. you have a good heart.

[myexandrei]

Nararanasan ko ito ngayon, hindi na ako masaya sa work ko, ang daming nagsasabi hanap muna daw ako ng work bago magresign pero hindi ko na talaga kaya pang magstay, hindi ako kumportable sa mga kasama ko sa group, ewan ko ba iba ang atmosphere pag nasa office na ako, parang nasa ibang planet ako..

[wifeynikawin]

nagkaroon kami ng problem with my boss kasi iniipit niya ako at inakusahan ng bypassing her authority at iba pa. ayan nakarma siya at mag sasara na yung LOB na yun

[danne]

^^ ganyan din nangyari sa father in law ko sis. nagwowork siya before sa QC hall then one time he said na pinakiusapan siya ng supervisor nila na gayahin ang pirma ng boss nila kasi importante daw iyon hindi napapirmahan. Hesitant siya pero dahil supervisor niya nagsabi, ginaya niya ang pirma. Then nagsunod sunod na iyon kaya natakot na siya. Nagresign din siya kasi takot naman siyang isumbong iyong mga nangyari.

[aubb]

For better oppurtunity, and for better people, lol. Hirap mag-work pag ang ka-work mo is one of your major stressor

[ayka]

sis zheane127,

there comes a time in your life where you need to choose or weigh your priorities in life. not only once but several times. in your situation, you have to choose between your job and your morals/values. you chose the latter. i say wherever you're comfortable living your life with, then stick to that. with regards to telling your boss about your colleague's "monkey business", IMO, since you're not part of their company anymore, just let it go. your ex-colleague might retaliate and you'll never know what he/she can do to you. now if it's against your conscience and can't live your life in peace keeping it secret, then tell your boss.

[cinder05]

Inconsiderate na Boss! kalerkei especially pag fresh graduate ka!