My BF is calling his close girl friend "HONEY".

[pinkplush]

I found out that my boyfriend is calling his co-staff "Honey" and they are exchaging sweet talks and all.. When I told my BF what I've found out. He told me that it was nothing.. no strings attached.

FYI. He's closer to his female friends. What should I do? I was really pissed. tsk.

[foxy_lei]

i smell something fishy... there is something going on.. beware girl...

[pinkplush]

As in sis! nakakairita mga text messages and chat talks nila.. parang sila?! O.o Pero may nabasa ako na message like:

girl: Sana kahit makahanap ka na ng mamahalin mo talaga.. sana ganito pa din tayo.

guy: mahal naman kita ah.. Un nga lang.. Masaya nanaman tayo sa ganito di ba?

Errrr!!!!

[foxy_lei]

kayo pa rin ba?? hiwalayan mo na yan, period...
he is fooling you...

[pinkplush]

Honestly sis.. YES
Dati sabi nya titigilan na daw nya.. Pero nabasa ko yung reply nya last week lang.. Ayun nasampal ko sya.. Then he promised na hindi na daw nya talaga uulitin

[danda]

Naku! Mahirap yan sis.. Basta pakiramdaman mo.. =)

[pinkplush]

Pinakikiramdaman ko nga sis.. pinage-explain ko sya kung bakit sya ganun.. hindi sya makapagexplain!!! Pero in fairness to him.. hindi naman sya nawawalan ng time sakin.. Spoiled pa din ako sa kanya.. Pero kahit na! Long-distance relationship kasi eh 

[sharks]

WWWHHHAAATTT?! who are they kidding? don't just be pissed...be MAD! as in FURIOUS! my gosh, you should set it straight with your guy...i mean obviously he's flirting...question is, since when? don't let this pass sis, it's very i'm-cheating-on-you-in-your-face!

[pinkplush]

^ yeah.. I told him He's FLIRTING.at nag start yun mga last year february 2009 pa.. then nalaman ko sya.. december 2009 nung nag-away kami. tapos last text nya na "honey" dun sa girl eh july 2010. LOOOOLLL. 

[sharks]

even if he still has time on you..and spoiling you..that's not the issue, he's being pa-sweet with his friend and even calling her honey is. you mentioned having a long distance relationship...who's away? you or the guy? anyway, the best thing you can do is talk to him and maybe set some rules..as to what should be considered cheating and what's just plain "friendly-sweet talks", if ever you decide to continue with your relationship.

[pinkplush]

thanks sis.. your advice is very much appreciatred

Uhhmm.. He's at Caloocan and Im in laguna. haha!

[sharks]

^ your welcome sis! and not that far for a long distance relationship..lol

[ysa.belle]

Honey? He can call him that if Honey ang name niya. So what if close siya sa mga female friends niya? Hindi pa rin dapat ganun ka-sweet. Kase parang sa dating eh niloloko ka niya eh. HEto naman si officemate niya eh pumapatol at lalo pa nag-fflirt. He should spoil you, you are HIS girlfriend eh. Tapos ganun pa yung messages and chat talks. Yung dating sa akin is they have feelings for each other na eh. Sana wag kang magalit sa sasabihin ko ha... Niloloko ka nalang nila. Parang he is just staying with you for convenience. Isipin mo ha, kayo nga pero medyo LDR kayo. SO if he keeps you, may gf pa rin siya and since LDR nga kayo eh nakikipagflirt siya sa iba. Lugi ka naman sa ganyan.

You deserve better.

[chengkii]

^ Ilang pangako pa ba sis ang kaya mong hayaang hindi tuparin? OPM ata si boyfie. Sana kung hindi mo pa hinihiwalayan ngayon at may ganyang pangako, at ginawa ulit, totohanin mo na talaga next time. Hindi natututo eh.

[IronLady]

hay nako sis, ang hirap pa pala nyan.. LDR kayo.. hindi mo talaga alam what's going on between them dahil wala ka naman sa tabi nya.. teka, alam din ba ng girl na may gf sya? parang dun sa text nya hindi eh..

[sharks]

^ if the girl has no idea that the guy is in a relationship...blame will have to go with the guy alone; but if the girl knows he's in a relationship then that means she's a flirt and he's a cheating coward...sorry

[Gladz31842]

not a good sign. imo, you will never call someone with terms of endearment such as HONEY unless you are endeared to her in a "HONEY" way...gets mo sis?

if I were in your shoes, I will tell him that I am not comfortable with it and if he respects your feelings, he will stop it.

but then LDR pa pala kayo, red alert talaga yan.

[pinkplush]

Honey? He can call him that if Honey ang name niya. So what if close siya sa mga female friends niya? Hindi pa rin dapat ganun ka-sweet. Kase parang sa dating eh niloloko ka niya eh. HEto naman si officemate niya eh pumapatol at lalo pa nag-fflirt. He should spoil you, you are HIS girlfriend eh. Tapos ganun pa yung messages and chat talks. Yung dating sa akin is they have feelings for each other na eh. Sana wag kang magalit sa sasabihin ko ha... Niloloko ka nalang nila. Parang he is just staying with you for convenience. Isipin mo ha, kayo nga pero medyo LDR kayo. SO if he keeps you, may gf pa rin siya and since LDR nga kayo eh nakikipagflirt siya sa iba. Lugi ka naman sa ganyan.

You deserve better.

korek sis! hindi dapat tawaging honey kung hindi naman dapat?! di ba?! tsk! but he keeps on insisting na wala lang daw yun. LOL.

^ Ilang pangako pa ba sis ang kaya mong hayaang hindi tuparin? OPM ata si boyfie. Sana kung hindi mo pa hinihiwalayan ngayon at may ganyang pangako, at ginawa ulit, totohanin mo na talaga next time. Hindi natututo eh.

ill take note of that sis thanks!

hay nako sis, ang hirap pa pala nyan.. LDR kayo.. hindi mo talaga alam what's going on between them dahil wala ka naman sa tabi nya.. teka, alam din ba ng girl na may gf sya? parang dun sa text nya hindi eh..

I really dont know kung alam nung girl.. actually, ms. piggy tawag ko sa kanya.. kasi naman.. ang laki nya! hahaha! pero nagPM ako sa kanya one time using mg bf's FB account.. sigyro naman by now alam na nya.. pero nababasa ko pa din mga text nya.. dun ako naiirita.. Eerrr!!

not a good sign. imo, you will never call someone with terms of endearment such as HONEY unless you are endeared to her in a "HONEY" way...gets mo sis?

if I were in your shoes, I will tell him that I am not comfortable with it and if he respects your feelings, he will stop it.

but then LDR pa pala kayo, red alert talaga yan.

red alert talaga sis! kaya nga pagnagkikita kami.. patago kong binabasa mga text messages nya.. hahaha!

[ysa.belle]

goodluck... ingat sa pagkalkal ng cp... 

[aquacharly]

When a couple goes into a formal relationship,  it goes without saying that their behavioral patterns undergo some adjustments.

That Honey Honey outright flirting at the workplace is cause for concern. Take note, it is the office affairs that are hard to catch, and then to stop; regardless, whether it is a BF/GF or a marital relationship at stake already.

Make it clear to your BF (again) that his behavior is inappropriate, and it bugs you. He really should not be acting as if he is out there available for the picking, still.  If you can stage manage it, give him a dose of his own medicine... Why don't you "Darling, Darling" a male friend of yours.  This BF of yours should then get the message quickly.

Do not sweep this uncomfortable practice of his under the rug, thinking it will straighten out one day.  It won't,  because he will keep at it since it perks up his days. 
   Yet you will continue to be bothered by it.

What to do, what to do, what to do?  Ignore it?  Heck, no!
While he is busy with his little games that put your emotional peace of mind in harm's way; keep busy with your own little games that will help you find a replacement for him.