Canonical interview

[fab_izzie]

every wednesday ba ang interview sis?  thank you

sis sa nasugbu every wednesday lang siya 730am ang start niya sis  .

[bb]

yeeeeyy another accomplishment! tapos na kami sa pre-cana! ok naman mga sis masaya. madami tayong matutuhan about relationship. magaling din yun counselor namin hindi kami inantok.

[hairt mini]

yey! naka sched na ang canonical interview namin on Oct.2..yay!this is it na talaga!!!!!

[mikaela325]

kami tomorrow ang canonical interview namin. hehe. sa San Antonio ng Padua. akyat kami ng tagaytay. nakakakaba pa din kahit married na naman kami sa civil rites last year.

[chin66ay]

sa friday na ang sched namin. kinakabahan ako... pinapamemorize ni H2B ang 10 commandments kasi di ako lumaki sa catholic school hehe. pero according to my research hindi naman daw ganun... the priest will asl personal questions lang about your relationship... feeling ko maiiyak ko... hahaha kasi ang drama ng love story namin ni H2B -- 7 years kami on and off and finally, ito na... hayyyy

[kurengkeng]

i think we had the best canonical interview

we only get to see this priest during mass, he is very funny although saksakan ng bilis magsalita. pero very funny kaya sya ang napili ko.

however, while we wait for him sa parish office, i noticed nawawala ang wallet ko, so mega hanap kami at super hagulgol ako. e andyan na si father. so pinapasok na kami sa room.

naabutan nya ako na umiiyak, at si hubby tulala kasi 8k ang laman nung wallet...waah!..ang sabi agad ni father, with a sad face of course, "Naku pano ko kayo kakausapin e tuliro kayo.."

so i had to compose myself and forget about the wallet muna...

ang funny lang, pasundot sundot lang sya ng questions about us. ang pinag usapan namin e tungkol sa gma 7, abs, at tv5!!! hahaha...kalurkey. it was the most informal conversation ive ever had with a priest.

it took about less than 30mins. natatawa at natutuwa sya na ikakasal kami after 10yrs. nagtataka lang sya kung anong homily ang gagawin nya e may anak na kami

anyways, yun lang, done with the interview na sa wakas...

pre cana kami on sat

[yndy]

Prec-CANA and Canonical interview set next Thurs...

[Mizuhashi]

We had our canonical interview last September 25. Kinda nervous that time. Si H2B unang ininteview, next ako and then together na kami. Pinaiyak ako kasi mga questional personal talaga. It was a great feeling though. He asked If I know the 10 commandments, 7 sacraments, how to pray the rosary and yun ibang prayer kung marunong ka. Basta be real, be true to yourself. Hindi ka naman niya pagagalitan kung hindi mo talaga alam. E-didiscuss niya naman sa inyo bakit niya tinatanong yun. Kasi in the near future magiging-Mommy ka kaya kailangan alam mo lahat yun as a catholic.

So, good luck sa mga hindi pa nakakapag-canonical interview 

[chin66ay]

hi mga sis just cam from our canonical interview. ok naman. ito mga tanong:
1. what is marriage for you?
2. anong obligasyon mo sa mga anak mo?
3. bakit ka magpapakasal sa simbahan?

and other questions tungkol sa relationship niyo.

as expected, naiyak ako. hehe. napakwento pa ako ng labstory namin ni H2B.

[yndy]

^^ ano kaya ang isasagot ng h2b ko kung ganyan ang question? baka maiyak din ako...

[mikaela325]

yipee tapos na kami nung wednesday! canonical interview sa SADP

-tinanong kami ni hubby kung ilang taon na kami and anong work namin
-nawindang si father ng malaman nya na after ng 1 month since nagkakilala kami, naging bf-gf na kami. tapos after 1 month ulit, nagpakasal na kami sa civil rites eh hindi naman ako preggy. paano daw namin yun napag desisyunan, pareho naman kami ng sagot ni hubby na we just knew na we're meant for each other. kahit risky yung ginawa namin, wala kaming naging doubt. and kahit nga si father kinilig sa love story namin. kasi one in a million daw yung whirlwind romance na totoo.
-lalo syang nawindang nung nalaman nyang engaged na ko sa ex ko of 4 yrs and si hubby naman may ka-live in partner ng 3 yrs.
-ask nya ko bakit iniwan ko si ex fiance. sabi ko kasi po hindi ko alam bakit kahit matagal na kaming mag bf may doubt pa din ako na magpakasal sa kanya.
-ask nya si hubby bakit naging gf at ka live in nya ex nya. sagot ni hubby matagal na daw syang walang gf so sinubukan nya yung nireto ng kabarkada nya. not knowing na yung girl eh gusto na syang pikutin kaya naglipat ng gamit sa bahay nila. sinubukan daw nyang mahalin yung girl pero wala talaga.
-nung nalaman ni father na may tindahan kami ng pyesa sa banawe, nanghingi sya ng calling card kasi pag nagpupunta daw syang banawe na tataga sya ng mga freelancer sa kalsada.

short lang ang interview namin. pero masaya.

[hairt mini]

yipee...2nd day namin sa Pinas and yipee..tapos na ang canonical namin.yun lang kailangan pa namin mag punta sa diocese kasi kulang kami sa banns so kailangan pa namin ng dispensation letter..

[tripleS]

kahapon i went to the church where we would like to have our wedding ceremony. nalurkey lang ako when i read on the wedding guidelines na "the assurance of the celebration of the sacrament of marriage depends on the result of the canonical investigation....... on the basis of their anwers the parish priest may approve or if not, establish another date for the re-examination" of one or both... if the serious problem arises, the priest may eventually deny the application for marriage unless the two are willing to resolve the issue affecting their intention to marry"

Meron bang nangyayari na hindi nakakapasa at nagrere-take, although sabi naman nung kausap namin sa office ng church, wala namang hindi nakakapasa.... inisip ko tuloy baka kaya after ng canonical interview ay saka lang magda-downpayment sa church kasi may mga nadedeny..... kaloka di ba mga sisses hahahaha

[blushing-bride]

^^ based on our experience during the interview, they rated our readiness to fulfill our Christian duty as a married couple like having and raising children, if we both love each other, our maturity and so forth.

if meron man made-deny, siguro sis those who do not want to get children or will marry for the wrong reasons such as pinilit ng parents, wala pa sa edad or hindi talaga nila love and isa't isa.

just my 2 cents.

[tripleS]

agree, agree =)

[bb]

^tripleS : sa church kung saan kami nagpakasal, we had our canonical interview. there will a questionnaire that will be given to you and you will be asked to fill it out privately tapos may interview muna with the priest ang bride then priest with the groom then priest with groom and bride. sa questionnaire meron tanong doon if you were forced ba to marry the guy or if someone's threatening you, nakalagay pa " you can tell me secretly and i will help you". ayan siguro yan kapag may nilagay ka dyan malamang bagsak canonical interview nyo hehe...

[jaja_0310]

excited na ko sa canonical interview! thank you sa pag share mga sis..

[carmichael18]

ha!ha! walang ganun sis sweetbabycakes. the questions are all situational and related sa inyong dalawa as a person, as a couple...like yng kay sis cream_puffs, tinanong kng bakit sila magpapakasal. kumbaga, mga simpleng tanong, hindi mo kailangan magbasa ng bible or kng ano man. just be yourselves 

sis yung simbahan na pinag-inqure-an namin sa makati, may written exam!!! sabi ko sa manang, ate ano po itong written exam? mahirap po ba to... hindi naman daw kasi bibigyan kami ng reviewer.. akalain mo yun??? may entrance exam sa simbahan nila bago magpakasal!!! about catholic doctrines daw.. naku naman mula nursery hanggang college catholic school ako.. minani ko yung mga theo subjects ko... hehe.. pero nakakaloka lang kasi may written exam so pag bumagsak kami hindi kami pwede ikasal dun? da va?

[cutiejhen]

hi mga sis ask ko lang sana need bang mg pre-cana seminar muna before makapag schedule ng cannonical interview?? yun na lang kasi kulang namen eh at sa nasugbu pa kami magpapasa ng reqs.. tia

[carmichael18]

kahapon i went to the church where we would like to have our wedding ceremony. nalurkey lang ako when i read on the wedding guidelines na "the assurance of the celebration of the sacrament of marriage depends on the result of the canonical investigation....... on the basis of their anwers the parish priest may approve or if not, establish another date for the re-examination" of one or both... if the serious problem arises, the priest may eventually deny the application for marriage unless the two are willing to resolve the issue affecting their intention to marry"

Meron bang nangyayari na hindi nakakapasa at nagrere-take, although sabi naman nung kausap namin sa office ng church, wala namang hindi nakakapasa.... inisip ko tuloy baka kaya after ng canonical interview ay saka lang magda-downpayment sa church kasi may mga nadedeny..... kaloka di ba mga sisses LOL

sis, sounds familiar galing din ako ng scdm kanina at yan din ang kinalurkey ko.. hehe.. kasi hindi ka nila irereserve hanggat hindi tapos ang canonical interview... kinakabahan ako kasi siyempre pag hindi kami pumasa, back to square one sa paghahanap ng church.. pero mukhang hindi naman nila ide-deny kung wala namang malaking dahilan or "unless the two are willing to resolve the issue affecting their intention to marry"