bakit kaya may mga taong ayaw sayo kahit wala ka naman ginagawang masama?

[klengmorales]

Ay mga sis, OK na yung alam mo na ayaw nila sayo. At least managed ka at hindi ka nagamit. Unlike my case, ginamit at plastic. Kunyari gusto ka, hihingan, magarerequest, magpapatulong nung kung ano ano. tapos biglang poooffff!!! mababalitaan mo lang KAPLASTICAN lang ang lahat.

[blatherina]

^Tama.

Anyway, you can't have it all. So what kung may ayaw sa'yo? Congratulations, normal kang tao!

[bettyboop1322]

Probably, Insecure.
Maybe, she wants to be like you.
or, you're the type of person she can't handle that's why she hides in the idea of hating you.

in short, inggit lang mga yan... lolz
daming ganyan sa office namin. gulat ka na lang they're building their "hate club" especially sa mga pretty girls sa office... 

[muahmuahmuah]

i don't really think it's inggit or insecurity when someone hates somebody. nagiging general response  na inggit and insecure. it could be one of the reasons but not exactly fact.

everyone has a mean streak kahit anong pagoody goody coverup gawin ng iba to hide the claws...and the fangs you can never hide a wolf in sheep's clothing. best is be mindful of your actions with what you say and do kung may nasasaktan or wala sa little things that make you and and what you stand for.  for all you know la naman kainggit inggit sa ugali ng iba who think of themselves as highly admirable.

[blackberryqueen]

@muahmuahmuah, I agree sis. We cannot always say na "insecured" or "inggit" when someone dislikes you. Let's not be one-dimensional.

We're all made up differently. We are unique individuals with different backgrounds and different set of characters.

And the fact is, we only warm up to people who share a great degree of similarities with us because we are comfortable with what's familiar or what we're accustomed to. If you're soft-spoken, gentle and demure, you will normally not get along very well with someone who's loud and crass.

But of course social graces dictate that we should still try to be civil with people whose personality seem to clash with ours.

[sasha``]

if someone dislikes you and you dislike that person either, eh di okay lang.  pareho lang kayo.  wag na ipilit kung ayaw nila sayo.  accept it, magkakaiba ang tao and certainly you can't please everyone.  so if you can't stand the heat, umiwas ka na lang.  you're probably in the wrong crowd, sweetheart.    

if you're into shopping and traveling and the other is sobrang tipid kasi financially dependent lang sa asawa, most probably the other person will soon dislike you.  your lifestyle activities alone make her feel less financially secured. you unconsciously make her feel bad kasi "maiinggit" siya sayo.  A reflection of the things she can't afford to do.

[sistah!]

with me, there's this one girl. i really didn't know that she had an issue with me. i was completely blindsided when i found out kasi the reasons she cited were very petty. parang may nahirit ako na she didn't find funny or parang she says i come across as a spoiled brat (i am, i don't deny that). but i also found out that she was very vocal with other people of her dislike so i didnt want to make any effort na para maging ok kami. now (i hear) she had a change of heart but i dont want to bother. i dont like her na rin. i guess live and let live.

[rychel07]

kung bagong kakilala, or tipong acquaintance palang, tapos biglang parang di ka na feel nung tao, they probably got the wrong 1st impression sayo. siguro di ka nag-smile nung pinakilala kayo, kaya they seem intimidated or yun nga di ka nila agad feel kasi you seem masungit.

pero kung matagal mo ng nakakasama, naka-hang-out mo na ng ilang beses or even close kayo before tapos may biglang feeling na the person doesn't like you, you probably did something to turn them off. like may habit kang bago lang nila na discover tapos di nila nagustuhan, or may nasabi ka na hindi sila nag aagree. or nagkaron ng changes sa lifestyle or personality or whatever sa inyo na biglang di na kayo mag click so ayun, di ka na nila gusto kasama.

[izzie7]

for me may taong unang tingin mo pa lang nakakainis na. pero i dont brainwash others to not like her. syempre im not friends with her/him since hindi ko nga siya feel.

defense mechanism lang yung "inggit/insecure lang sayo" to make you feel better, may mga times lang talaga na merong may ayaw sayo, i think thats ok naman, siguro naman may mga ayaw ka ding tao so patas na kayo haha! 

[cherry*coke]

Hindi ko alam.. When there are people who doesnt like me.. I don't automatically think na inggit sila sakin.. Kasi ako meron din akong kinaka initan ng dugo.. Hehe.. Yun makita mo palang eh naiirita kana.. Pero hindi pa naman ako dumating sa point na nanira or whatsoever dahil lang badtrip ako sa kanya.. Wala lang.. Basta lang diko siya feel.

[viellemacey]

idk. pero ang alam ko may mga tao talagang ayaw sakin, some HS classmates. siguro hindi lang sila maka-ride sa gusto ko. actually 6 lang kaming superfriends, since preparatory til now.  i hate to admit na marami talagang available na friends out there pero iilan lang talaga ang makakasundo mo. well that's life, learn to accept it at any way possible.    ako rin naman may mga ayaw na tao and i don't know why, i can't even give a single reason.    we're even 

[mscharming]

dahil naiinggit sila 

[Marin]

sa aura or sa face minsan..Kahit ako, may tao na ipapakilala pa lang sa akin, may vibe na hindi ko makakasundo agad.

 normal naman yun, with friends, they see most of our good side with haters, kahit never mo sila nakasama, they simply dislike us.

[Dhee-Dhee]

I.N.G.G.I.T
I.N.S.E.C.U.R.E

merong ganito sa office, wala naman akong ginagawa sa kanya, aba eh iniirapan ako. i actually knew why.. kasi kaclose namin yung guy na type nya. chusera! 

[cristyles]

I think hindi na maiiwasan yung mga taong kontrabulate  . Ang boring naman kung lahat na lang love ka, minsan okay rin na may kontrabulate.

^Yup minsan it depends sa vibes nung tao, minsan meron rin akong ganung feeling na hindi ako comfortable, maybe lalo na kung yung vibes ko sa kanya eh hindi ako feel or something na hindi siya open sa akin.

Kung ayaw nila sa akin e di ayaw ko na rin sa kanya tee hee!

[trishpassing]

it is something na they can't have or something to want to have for themselves. Maraming ganyan.. chill lang 

[marsh_candy]

haha madaming ganyan! 

bata pa lang ako, naobserbahan ko na yan. Pagtingin nila sayo at wala silang mapapala or makukuhang values sayo, di ka kakaibiganin, at ayaw nila sayo.. pero in time na meron na, nagsisilapitan na 

[hazelbrown_eyes27]

oo nga, bakit ganun? pag ayaw mo sa isang tao INGGIT na agad? di ba pwedeng di mo lang siya feel? mabigat lang loob mo? mainit lang dugo mo sa kanya?? hindi lang siguro maganda vibe mo sa kanya kaya siguro ganun. or di match aura niyo.. or past lives niyo, magka away kayo? General response na yang " inggit" nakakasawa na. Kahit hindi ka naman talaga inggit.. minsan, I dont even know why Iam so pissed with a person. Iam just pissed. Kaya di ba may kasabihang " magaan loob ko sa kanya" kahit wala namang ginawang kabutihan pa yung tao. You feel good lang sa tao. kaya may nakakabigatang loob ka rin siguro.

[cristyles]

May ganun ata talagang pinanganak sa mundo na panira ng mood at araw LOL.

[FOURever]

sabi ng mommy ko baka daw sa past lives nyo, magkaaway na kayo.. Madalas, feel ko insecurities na lang din..