Would you adopt?

[BDV]

Sa ngayon, I haven't considered it yet. But eventually, when I am in better position already, why not.

[jaded1025]

Yes. Pero sana naman yun medyo kahawig ko,hehe! Kasi diba pag bata lagi tanong bakit di mo kamukha mama mo,siguro adopted ka.

[pink_blush01]

yes i want to adopt a baby, do you know someone who's willing to give their baby?

[17arci]

yes, as long as baby pa lang.

[sophistique]

i think nothing's wrong if you want to adopt so that you can help a child whose welfare and future remains unknown because of his/her lack of parents. however, you must be sure that you can give love, attention, et cetera to the child and not make him/her feel like he/she is different. 

[lunast]

I am completely open to this. I have a friend whose father used runs an adoption center and this has always been a dream for me. Kahit may sarili akong kids gusto ko pa rin makapag-adopt.. kaso nga lang kailangan ma-afford ko muna. lol

[Paintings Galore]

Depende [textspeak!] yan sa situation mo dear. if infertility problem and you really wanted a child, I would say adoption is your first best option. Pero ayun nga as our fellow GT sister said if is for charity you may have to think twice first. Hindi madali magkaroon ng baby, mothers out there knows that. we just love our kid so much thats why nagiging madali for us to take care of them. pero if your are gonna adopt for a charitable manner with no feelings involve. you better think again. For my own opinion lang naman ito sis!

[katrinac]

kami share lang, pero di naman ako nag adopt, pero mama at papa ko. so parang kapatid ko na sya. iniwan lang sya sa health care center, and walang mag aalaga. so pina ubaya samin ng nanay nya. nakaka awa talaga sya nung binigay samin. 9 hours lang sya nung nakuha namin. ngayon 7 years old na sya, and super nakakatuwa. and i think, swerte ata talaga kapag nag addopt kasi blessing talaga ang ganito. and finally, just yesterday, naayos na namin finally ang adoption papers. 

[gcarrie]

gusto ko sana kaso parang ang dami kong fears like how the people around us
will treat him. kung pwede lang sana na never niya malaman na adopted siya. haayy hirap magdecide...

[katrinac]

let me share a very sad story about adopting.
We know someone, a very close relative adopted a baby boy siguro 20 years ago. these couple wala silang anak, so they opted to legally adopt someone. super rich ng couple so swerte talaga nung na adopt nila. very ideal na family na sana sila. until namatay nung babae, then after ilang months, sumunod nung lalake. kaso ang nanyari, nung namatay na ang couple, as in minaltrato ng kamapilya ng nag adopt dun sa batang lalake. as in sobra ang ginawa nila. pinalayas dun sa bahay, and parang may ginawa ata dun sa last will of testament, para walang makuha nung inadopt nila. after ilang months, di nakayanan ng adopted, nag pakamatay nalang sya nakakasad. and nung malaman ko yung story na yun from my mom, i promised myself na di ko hahayaan yun manyari sa kapatid ko (na ino dopt din namin)

[goddessjem]

kahit wala pa kame anak, hindi ko naiisip na mag adopt. madaming makating dila sa tabi tabi. na kahit wala akong paki sa kanila, ayawkong malaman ng bata na adopted lang siya. kawawa kase..baka matapat ka pa sa hindi magandang ugali ng batang ma adopt mo..ewan lang po..

[TysLolakins]

if i have to base the answer on my current status (married) and circumstances (2 grown kids), i would say no on adoption.  it will not be fair to the child because i noticed that i don't have the same patience with other kids as with my own 2. 
but i do admire those families who chose to adopt and love the kids as their flesh and blood.

[jccastro15]

I have two kids.. If given a chance to adopt, I will. I will never reject a baby to be part of our life. Its a blessing from God.

[ayami]

di ko keri. anak ko nga hirap na kong mag-alaga, anak pa kaya ng iba? kahit siguro baog ako, hindi ako mag-aampon kasi medyo di maganda yung experience ng iba kong fam members sa mga ampon nila haha.

[Prunella]

If my husband and I won't be able to conceive, we might consider it.

[mrsonthego]

open ako sa adoption, 5 years na kami kasal pero wala pa rin kaming anak. ang hirap ng ganitong kalagayan lalo na kung di mo naman talaga choice na di magkaanak. for me di naman talaga kailangan na mayaman ka para magpalaki ng maayos ng anak, basta may sapat na income to send the child sa school, kahit public schools and universities lang okay na yun. minsan kasi hindi naman palaging pera at materyal na bagay ang mahalaga, basta maging mabuting role model ang mga magulang lalaking maayos ang bata na inampon

[shineadet]

gusto ko mag adopt but im afraid na baka di ko sya kayang mahalin the way i love my own.

[cristyles]

Definitely YES! lalo na if yung bata is good natured and kailangan ng love. Adopting is not a bad idea, yun nga lang for sure si Hubby ko gusto niya is galing sa kanya yung magiging anak namin. But all in all i'm open with adopting .

Lalo na ngayon ang daming anak ng anak pero hindi nila maalagaan at minsan inaabort pa nila tsk .

[sachagirl]

i am now considering this. it would be both helping the child and me. s dami ng abandoned children it would be a small way to make our society better.

pero w pinas kasi para bang taboo or bad idea ang mag-ampon? parang katsismis-tsismis ang ampon. pero s ibang bansa naman it is a natural thing, comendable pa nga eh.

[pinkberries]

I am also considering this.  I actually want to adopt 3 kids. 

Pero bakit kaya ang mahal mag-ampon, at least 100k daw?  Sa dami ng mga abandoned children, bakit ang mahal magapon legally?