seven year itch

[lizzete]

kaya niyo yan mga sis

sana kasing strong niyo din ako

samantalang ako 3 months lang kame pero parang di ko na kaya haha

pati work ko affected na

[chirochan]

kaya nyo yan mga sis , ako nga may baby eh 6yrs. na dapat kami this 23 pero 6 months na din kaming break, talagang no more spice na nagkakasakitan at nagkakainisan na din, i ended up cheating on him the past few years, basta magulo although painful pa kasi siya di pa nakakamove-on, i'm with my new partner na sana matanggal niya lahat ng pain na natira sa puso ko

[gurlzat03]

hay mga sis.. super hirap talaga... mas mahirap pa lang malaman na meron na syang iba ng hindi man lang 'yun ang sinabi nyang reason nung nag-break kayo... hay... well, i don't have any choice but still to go on with my life... i know i will survive in time... 

[lilstar]

hi mga sis.., nararamdamn ko na ang 7 yr itch na yan. 7 yrs na kami dis year ok namn lahat, walang 3rd party or anything.. last week lang nagakainisan kami at ang dami kong nsabing msasakit sa knya. I said sorry pero sigurado akong nasaktan ko sya.. I can feel that we are bond to end na nga.. Hayyss.. I can feel it coming..

I cried, i smoke, i drink. I cant sleep, na very unsual of me kasi magaling ako matulog, sobrang affected na ako. I know sya din. Parang i can feel na di na namin ito maayos dahil natapakan ko ang ego nya.. ang hirap mga sis.. Sana mkaya ko ito at matnggap ko kung anuman ang mangyari. Sabi ko nga kung kami, kami talga, kung di talga so be it..

[shayan30]

haist! hirap talaga mga sis pag nasa ganyang stage.. sana nga pag lumampas na sa 7yr itch na ito eh maging ok na.. We have plans na paman din to settle by next year, pano naman yun kung ganito na naging routine, nagkakainisan, at wala gusto mag give-up or even mag give way..

[australis]

hi mga sisses  , share ko lang sa inyo itong nabasa ko, hopefully makatulong  .

"No doubt “Love” is the fuel of a relationship, no matter what circumstances are and how you feel about your spouse or love partner – the only way to hold people together in any relationship is cultivating love between them. In the ups and downs of life, certain moments come when people become pessimists and as a result their power to think and understand situation faints. Here is the time when you need to recreate your loving relationship and build an atmosphere that should reflect love, trust, care and support between you and your love partner. A fire of love should burn inside your heart to keep the bonding firm and stiff forever. This will not only protect you from outside attacks of jealously and hatred but will also break all paths that can initiate a fight or create differences between two loving partners.

There are different ways to keep the fire burning in your relationship but certain things like Romance and Sex strike a chord. In the absence of any of these, the structure of your relationship will be completely weakened that may result in minor conflicts leading towards a breakup and separation. There is a simple phenomenon, if you keep constant physical and spiritual contact with your love partner – you will never fail in establishing a happy and long term association. Romance especially decreases day to day stress and helps you getting rid of depression and tiredness of boring work and weary routine."

and may I add, tama yung isang advice ng isang sis natin dito, okay na bonding din yung mgone on one drinking session kayo (for our sisses na umiinom). dami nyong madidiscover sa isa't isa at usually some men really opens up kapag umiinom.

kung parehas naman kayong non-drinker, try to do things na hilig gawin ni bf, like playing computer games.

try to be a perfect lover and a perfect friend to him. goodluck sisses. love love love 

[viancz]

we are currently on our 7th year this year. We are going through lot of problems in the past few months and till last sunday, he told me: Sorry, nagsasawa na talaga ako." and he wants his own time. I gave in to his request. I cried and cried and all he can say is "Sorry".

we havent talk, text and see each other since then. today is Day 5. I cried to the nth level. I was hurt so much with how he end things. I miss him super now. I dont know if I should be the one to initiate our talk.

I really dont know what to do.

[erriane]

^sis..how are you na?

[chicgurl]

i believe in this. i had a bf for 7 yrs tapos jaaaraaan nakipag break na sakin hehe LDR kasi kami.. i am suppose to come home next year for good kaso suko na siya e ewan ko sa kanya.. star drama presents kasi eh char!! hehe bahala siya hehe i am soo moving on sabi nila daw kasi DAW ha.. pag 7 years you only have 2 options eh get married or break up. san pa ba dapat pupunta alangan naman forever na kayo bf gf? may ganon ba?

[thestargazer]

No worries Sisters. 

Time heal all wounds, sabi nga.

Ako nga my ex left me while I was pregnant with his kid. Nakaaway ko pa yung mom nya. After 11 mos into the relationship na sabi nya in a few years magpapakasal na...he turned into a wall.

Di ba masakit yun? He never showed up till now. My kid is 6 years old. Pero I've gotten over it. Medyo matagal nga lang. It took me 4 and a half years bago ko nasabi I am ready for a new love.

Now, I am engaged to a man I've met before my ex. He loves my kid as his own. Although friends lang kami noon. Kami na ngayon and will be married next year - December.

Kaya nyo yan. You just have to be patient with time and your self. Respect the time that you have to grieve...lalu na kung matagal na pinagsamahan. You will be fine. Just don't give up on your self.

Adja!

[itsmekmia]

ouch naman, napagdaanan din namen to sa ika 8th year..

[Serena.]

Try new things together. Show him you're someone worth to be with forever.

[det060403]

meron bang "almost" 7year itch? haha... dun sa ex ko, ilang tumbling nalang ata, mag7 years na dapat kami non. haha haha haha! oh well!

[atomicsexy]

Asks lang pasok ba magasawa dito kasi parang nanyayari na sa amin this now ..6yrs married and 7yrs nang nagsasama with two kids.. ...knock knock on the wood lang po..

[cynique]

me & my bf will be having our 7th year anniversary this week. i sooo feel the itch. perhaps will just let a couple of weeks pass then... ................ it's going nowhere eh... i'm doing everything to make it work, he tries too, pero it's not enough. we're good as bf/gf, maybe the best relationship we've had, but no plans of getting married. i'm worried about it (bioclock ticking), he's pressured by it. so, might as well...

[creepychan]

sis cynique super relate ako jan, me and my Bf is currently in our 7th year and ganun din walang clear plans for marriage. Another problem is jobless sya for so long and kulang sa effort to find a job which complicates things. Ngayon nag cool off kami kasi im feeling tired of being disappointed over and over again. Sometimes i tend to push him to the point na nappressure na sya kapag napapagusapan ang marriage. Ayoko naman maging desperada asking for a guy to marry me when clearly nakikita ko naman na wala syang definite plans or at least effort to give me assurance about our future
*I love my bf so much pero i dont see the point of continuing the relationship kung wala din naman patutunguhan
*Im so confused I dont know what to do 

[cynique]

^sis creepychan, super pareho tayo ng pinagdadaanan. halos araw-gabi ko pinag-iisipan yan. feeling ko kasi parang ang shallow ko naman kung hihiwalayan ko lang because of job issue...kasi nga sabi nila, always choose true love daw, or when you found the love of your life, never let go daw...eh kung hindi ka naman kaya buhayin di ba? sa panahon ngayon kailangan practical. pero hindi ko pa rin magawang makipaghiwalay sa ngayon kasi i'm still finding a way to talk to him about it na hindi siya ma-ooffend...i'm also praying na sana magkaroon na siya ng stable career para di na namin problemahin ito... 

[creepychan]

^sis cynique.update lang. I already talked to my boyfriend about our problem and naintindihan naman nya yung side ko. nagset kami pareho ng goal na dapat in 3 years magkaroon na kami ng stable job at ipon kasi by that time we have to settle down (were turning 30 that time). Nag decide din kami na we should spend less time being together and focus sa paghahanap na work for him and career naman for me pero we should keep an open line of communication.hopefuly magwork out yung plan namin.
*i know how you feel sis, sobrang important din kasi sakin yung relationship namin and alam ko namang mahal talaga namin ang isat isa. I will try my best to make this work and sana malampasan namin ito
i'll be praying also for you sis sana maayos nyo din ni BF yung issues nyo
 

[cynique]

^sis creepychan, we tried that but, didn't work out as planned eh, di namin kaya magtiisan for a long time...thank you for the prayers, really need it!